After the two-child and three-child policy was liberalized, more and more families were given the option of having one more child. Some families look forward to the perfection of the family and the partnership of their children, while others are concerned about the financial burden and the fragmentation of family relationships. Now, 20 years have passedlifeThe difference is also gradually revealed. This article will analyze the situation of "having a second child" and "not having a second child" after 20 yearslifedifference, and ** among the reasons.
(1) Happy family life
to the kingAuntieFamily, for example, in their 50s, both children are very obedient and promising. The eldest daughter has been married for many years, and the children are also in elementary school, and often go back to their parents' home. The youngest son worked in the provincial capital after graduating from university and often returned home to visit his parents. SuchFamily lifeLet the kingAuntieVery satisfied. Although he was fined a lot of money at the birth of his youngest son, the money was in the aftermathlifeproves its practical value. Now, the family is happy and harmonious, both children can earn money, and they are filial to their parents. Despite the heavy financial burden in the early years, now theirlifeIt's getting better and better, and the outlook is getting brighter.
(2) Advantages of a two-child family
In a two-child family, the pressure on the parents in the early stage is very high, and they need to take on more education and raising responsibilities. However, as the child grows, the pressure on the parents gradually decreases, and the family'slifeThe quality is also gradually improving. And as parents get older, they worry about old ageLonelinessThe most intense. If there is only one child in the family, when the children are busy with work and are unable to take care of the parents, the parents'lifewill become lonely and lonely. In a two-child family, where there are two or more children, even if one of the children is unable to take care of the parents, the other child can share the responsibility of caregiving, and the parents can also feel more love and companionship. As a result, families with two children are happier in the long run.
(1) Lonely old age
Take Uncle Wang's family as an example, his only daughter chose to stay in other places to work and settle down when she became an adult. Father and daughter have fewer opportunities to meet, which makes the parents'lifeBecoming relatively lonely. Although their daughter was admitted to a good university, the parents still wanted their daughter to stay with her. However, the choices made by children as they grow up are uncontrollable, and parents can only accept the facts. Now, only the old couple stays at homelifeIt becomes more and more deserted. Uncle Wang began to regret that he did not have another child in the first place, because he understood that it was difficult for one child to fill the emptiness of the family after leaving.
(2) The advantages of a one-child family
One-child families tend to have the advantage of having better resources focused on their children alone. Parents can better focus on their child's education and growth and provide more comprehensive support and resources. This concentrated educational resource can help children get better development opportunities and achieve greater success in their academics and careers. In addition, parents can be more energetic to accompany their children as they grow up and nurture their qualities and talents.
There is no standard answer to whether to have a second child or not, but it is decided according to the actual situation of the family. Although some families have average material conditions, their parents are very attentive to their children's education and carefully cultivate excellent children, and such families are happy. On the other hand, some families are slightly better off and hope to improve through improvementlifeThere is nothing wrong with quality and access to more material resources to provide children with better education and opportunities for future development. The number of births does not determine the happiness of a familyCriticalCriticalIt lies in the parent's ability to educate and the importance they attach to their children's growth.
To have a second child or not to have a second child should be the decision of each family. Whether you choose to have one or more children, they all have their own advantages and disadvantages. CriticalIt is about whether the family has sufficient education and caring skills, and gives them adequate support and guidance as they grow up. Whether it is one child or multiple births, the happiness of the family does not depend only on the number of children, but on the dedication and efforts of the parents. Therefore, each family should make decisions based on their own actual situation and development needs. The most important thing is that parents should do what they can according to their own financial and psychological capacity to provide a healthy and happy environment for their children to grow up.