When I ** "Snail House", the deepest feeling was undoubtedly the comments in the barrage.
Many people are eager to find a partner with a similar personality to Song Siming. In fact, in the eyes of most people, Song Siming not only has his own family, but also is a near-perfect man. His career is successful, his love is romantic and sweet, and his marriage is warm and happy.
He has the ability to quickly solve all kinds of problems for his lover, he cares very much about his lover, his wife lives in a simple old house, and he provides his lover with luxurious villas. His lover would also love him very much, and they often traveled together. Even if it was a dining table that his wife was reluctant to buy, he did not hesitate to buy it for his lover.
Fearing that something might happen to him, his wife even sold her mother's and brother's property to fill his shortfall. He felt that the money was given by himself. But he soon donated the funds to seaweed. His lover and child followed suit. I hope that lovers and children can live happily ever after for the rest of their lives.
He gave all the best to his lover, but left a mess for his wife, who had spent more than a decade with him.
I am sure that most of the people who have a good impression of Song Siming in the barrage are those young women who have not yet experienced the world, because Song Siming can satisfy their yearning for a future husband.
Song Siming's deep affection for seaweed in the play made many viewers feel envious, but when you read what he said in the last moments of his life, you will realize that what this man really loves is not seaweed, but another person. He fell in love with Seaweed for the love of Seaweed, and Seaweed was his lover. He has nothing but careful planning for seaweed.
In this play, Song Siming calculates the fate of seaweed three times, and through these strategies, he gradually controls the fate of seaweed.
1 lent Seaweed 60,000 yuan and took the opportunity to destroy the relationship between Seaweed and Xiaobei, which was his first elaborate plan.
When Song Siming saw the seaweed for the first time, his heart beat faster. She wears a light blue skirt and black pants. The face of seaweed is like somen in clear soup, and it cannot be considered a beauty. Occasional distractions are also possible.
However, this seaweed gave Song Siming an indescribable preference. He has a keen interest in the purity of seaweed, especially the appearance of seaweed, which reminds him of the white moonlight of his college days.
At that time, the professor's daughter was the white moonlight in the hearts of many classmates, but unfortunately, the girl died two years after graduating from college.
It is in people's nature to pursue beauty that they tend to obses, but it is also an aspect of people who tend to go down the wrong path. If you can grasp this degree correctly, it is a beautiful nostalgia;If not grasped properly, it can become the starting point of a person's depravity.
Song Siming is exactly that kind of situation.
When he first meets Seaweed, he asks how old Seaweed is and further asks if she is marriedSeaweed replied yes. In the case that Seaweed did not respond, Song Siming used four words full of profound meaning to describe it: the future is immeasurable.
Seaweed asks him with doubts how bright his future will be if he is still unmarried at the age of 25
In fact, from that moment on, Song Siming began his plan.
With the help of Chen Sifu, he agreed with seaweed to go to Dingshan Lake, and rented 20,000 pieces of seaweed on the way. He experiments on seaweed. Successfully solved the pressing problem faced by seaweed.
Seaweed sensed his inner thoughts, at that time Seaweed was close to Xiaobei, and she was not interested in this uncle at all, so she repaid Song Siming's 20,000 yuan with Xiaobei and her own funds.
At this moment, Seaweed wholeheartedly wanted to get rid of Song Siming's control. She intends to live happily ever after with Becky.
After that, Haiping went to her home and cried bitterly because Su Chun lent her 60,000 yuan in loan sharks. After Haiping leaves, Seaweed begins to look for Becky's deposit book, and she intends to use Becky's funds to help Becky repay her debts, but Becky refuses. The reason given by Xiaobei is quite straightforward: he is willing to lend Haiping some of the funds, but not completely, and he is not willing to pin the future of himself and Haizao in Haiping's home.
Seaweed is very sad, she thinks that Becky's love for her is insufficient, and if Haiping is not by her side, she will not have her own existence. Seaweed's heart is sensitive and fragile, and once you have Haiping, Seaweed's heart will hurt as if it has been hollowed out. Although Xiaobei is very good to himself, he doesn't like Haiping very much.
Seaweed realizes that it was her sister who helped her in the past, and now she is determined to be on her sister's side. She decided to go out with her sister to take out a loan to buy a house, sell the house and pay her sister back. Can you borrow money in **?For Seaweed, the only thing she can think of is Song Siming.
Seaweed found Song Siming and asked for a loan, and Song Siming's words to her were undoubtedly his deepest strategy for her.
He expressed this opinion:
Based on my years of practical experience, as long as the problem can be solved by money, then it is not a big problem. If you are a capable person, you should do it, find a way to pay back the money to others, and you should not go into debt. It seems to me that a person may be able to carry a monetary debt during his or her lifetime, but an emotional debt is unbearable.
Because you can't give him back the feelings. You still have a chance to repay the debt of money, but if you are in debt of affection, maybe at the end of your life, you will also feel guilty. Because your love is not reciprocated. From another perspective, you are actually a good girl full of emotions and righteousness. If you have any misfortune, you will be sad.
Bey should be relieved that you will remember those who have shown you kindness. You should thank them for their help and love for you!I have reservations about Becky's point of view, if a person can ignore all his family, then can we expect him to have other considerations?
Song Siming first defended Haizao from the perspective of a confidant brother, believing that Haizao should help his sister rightly, and then praised Haizao as a person full of emotion and righteousness.
He believes that Seaweed's character and behavior are in line with his ideals and pursuits, and Seaweed does have a kind heart, but at the same time, he also sees that Seaweed has many shortcomings and shortcomings, such as selfishness and narrow-mindedness. He concludes by emphasizing that it is perfectly okay for one to neglect one's own family, and in other ways it is even more difficult to look forward to.
Song Siming deserves the title of secretary, and he said that while this sentence seems to be a side of seaweed on the surface, in fact, his core point is focused on that last sentence. "I think you're a man with a good conscience, you know?Although his last sentence seems to praise Seaweed's loyalty and righteousness on the surface, it is actually implicitly implying that Becky is a person who does not think about his family.
The words he said were actually inciting some kind of connection between Seaweed and Becky.
Sure enough, Seaweed said with grievances
However, Becky doesn't think so. I agree with you that as long as you can solve the problem with money, it is not a big problem, but my real problem is that I am poor and have no money.
Seaweed felt very wronged, Song Siming touched her heart, she didn't understand why even outsiders could understand her, but Xiaobei, who was closest to her, couldn't understand her
Song Siming found that the seaweed was really hooked, and he immediately carried out a mending operation.
Even if Becky doesn't think so, you should know something about him, because he can't afford to fail. A man is so generous because he has more than he wastes. While generosity is seen as a compliment, it is not something that everyone can achieve, especially for those who have nothing to do with him. ”
These three sentences spoken by Song Siming have a greater impact. He's alluding to seaweed. His first sentence seems to be trying to persuade Seaweed to understand Becky, but the next sentence he follows, claiming that Becky is definitely not a loser. The meaning of this sentence is that he is sarcastic about her. He's indirectly belittling Becky.
In the third sentence, he is talking about the selfishness of seaweed, because he has a lot of shortcomings, and the shortcoming of seaweed is that he has no friends, only one friend. In the second sentence, he expresses his generosity because he has so much. In the third sentence, the relationship between Seaweed and Becky is highlighted again, pointing out that Becky does not want to make sacrifices for people who have nothing to do with him. Song Siming used the phrase "unrelated people" to prove that Xiaobei actually doesn't like seaweed.
What does it mean to kill people and punish their hearts?On the surface, it may seem like gentle words and a smile, and on the surface it always seems to care about you, but in essence, every word is stirring up strife.
Song Siming is older than Xiaobei, has a higher social status than Xiaobei, and has more life experience than Xiaobei. He knew that her identity was a small clerk, but he didn't want her to be that little clerk, he wanted to be a person with status. However, he still has to commit this lack of identity.
He knows what his role is in front of Seaweed, and he also knows what he should do to get Seaweed's affection. He definitely didn't know what effect saying these words in front of Seaweed would have on her relationship with XiaobeiHe said he didn't want to socialize with seaweed. Still, he made his remarks regardless of his identity.
He's going to get seaweed. Due to his desire to obtain seaweed, Becky will be the first obstacle he faces. Seaweed's body had begun to stiffen, her heart had become fragile, and she needed someone to hold her tightly. It is his responsibility to remove this obstacle.
Song Siming's strategy for seaweed should be quite decisiveThis seemingly suave uncle, in order to obtain seaweed, actually used the most despicable strategy to make **.
But that's not all, his second round of calculations on seaweed is the real ruthlessness.
2 gave Xiaobei a ** in the hotel and cut off the retreat of seaweed, which was his second careful planning.
During the Chinese New Year, Song Siming brought seaweed to his alumni reunion. In order to deceive Becky, Seaweed and Haiping team up to help her keep it a secret. Haiping criticized her for walking a tightrope and said: "My relationship with him is not destined to end well. He's a career seeker, and I'm just a morning dew. I would choose to cut ties with him if I had the chance, and I know that very well. ”
Seaweed knew that the reason why she followed Song Siming was only because he helped her solve her problems and gave her financial support. She knew that she was not alone now, that she had a life of her own, that she was going to travel with him, to see the stars, to do what he wanted to do.
She eventually chooses to spend the rest of her life with Becky because she decides to spend the rest of her life with Becky. Seaweed's heart is sensitive, and she knows what she wants. Because of this, she asks Haiping to help her keep it a secret.
In the face of Seaweed's painstaking efforts to join forces with her sister to cover up the relationship between her and Song Siming, how did Song Siming act?Did the seaweed appear for him?He openly attended the class reunion with seaweed, which not only made his wife Jiang Miaomiao aware of the existence of seaweed, but also made his classmates know about the existence of seaweed.
There is a man who brings a young and beautiful woman who not only adds face to him but also satisfies his vanity, but the outside world may perceive seaweed differently?What would seaweed think of this man?Song Siming didn't care about this. All he knew was that she was a pretty girl. Not only did he not care about it, but he also committed a disgraceful act.
When the seaweed was about to take a bath, Xiaobei called**, and Song Siming finally connected ** after a short hesitation.
When Xiaobei heard the man's voice coming from the microphone, he immediately apologized and admitted that he had dialed the wrong **. However, how could Song Siming miss such an opportunity?What he meant was that I did it on purpose, and he hit my ** just to know what I was doing. If Xiaobei chooses to hang up**, then it becomes meaningless for him to pick up this pass**.
Therefore, he asked Becky bluntly: "Are you looking for seaweed?"”
Becky asks about his identity
Song Siming declared: "I am friends with Seaweed, and Seaweed is bathing in the hotel. Please wait. ”
Song Siming opened the bathroom door and handed the phone to Seaweed. Seaweed lied to Becky during the conversation, claiming that she was at home.
Song Siming is really cunning in this regard. It was already late in the evening, and he not only answered Seaweed's call, but also told her that Seaweed was bathing in the hotel, and in order to verify what he said, he immediately handed over his phone to Seaweed.
When a man has the ability to enter a bathroom made of seaweed, even a fool can easily associate the relationship between them. What Song Siming is looking for is to make Xiaobei understand the connection between him and seaweed. He wants to make a great fusion of his love and the feelings between seaweed. His purpose is to hope that Xiaobei can withdraw from this emotional game between the three of them.
When Seaweed and Song Siming**, what he said was very different from Song Siming, which made Xiaobei fully understand the meaning.
Song Siming skillfully used this strategy to create a gap between Xiaobei and Seaweed, and sowed the seeds of doubt in Xiaobei's heart.
Seazao asked Song Siming in a dissatisfied tone why he answered her call
Song Siming weaved an indestructible excuse.
He told me: I have called you, but you have not agreed. The ringing kept going and I was worried that he would be overly worried.
Seaweed asked him worriedly: Did you not speak?
Song Siming raised a rhetorical question in a clever way: Have you become stupid?
Song Siming's reply was undoubtedly clever, and he neither responded directly nor deceived others. Seaweed is a very strange creature, it doesn't have the ability to remember like humans, it's just a very small creature. Although Seaweed may learn the truth of the matter in the future, he is more than capable of providing it with a number of different interpretations with this sentence.
When interacting with Song Siming, an uncle with a very high IQ, Seaweed was completely overwhelmed.
Since the moment Song Siming first saw Seaweed, his every move was full of confidence and plan, and he gradually guided Seaweed closer to him, but once again succeeded in putting Seaweed in a difficult situation.
Seaweed not only enjoys the joy of her uncle helping her overcome her difficulties, but also indulges in the joy of her uncle's wealth gifted her. Seaweed relied on him far more than she did. Initially, Seaweed feels guilty about Becky, but as time goes on, her relationship between the two men becomes more and more harmonious.
She knew what she wanted and what she wanted to do. Her plan is quite sensible, and she may have some vested interests with Song Siming at the moment, but in the end she still relies on Xiaobei. She was a very gentle woman and very considerate to him. Xiaobei plans to marry her, but Song Siming doesn't plan to do so. On this point, seaweed mentions it very explicitly.
However, who is Song Siming?He had to give him everything he had if he wanted Seaweed to be a man. His dedication to seaweed is so great that he knows the true intentions of seaweed. Seaweed is a very ambitious woman.
He would never allow seaweed to be with Xiaobei Qingqing while peeling his own skin. He wants the seaweed to crawl slowly like a small snail in his own world, never leaving his own territory. He is determined to take complete control of Seaweed's life. He took the seaweed outside and called the ** of the seaweed, which was the first step in his decision to get the seaweed under control completely.
In order to completely control the seaweed, Song Siming really tried his best, he laid out a big game of chess from the beginning, and now, it is time for the real game. In this "big" chess game, who can win first?He has to be able to hit with one hit.
This was his first attempt to provoke Shellfish in front of the seaweed, but the effect was not obvious. This time, he deliberately let Becky know about the relationship between Seaweed and him. Song Siming understands that a man can't tolerate his girlfriend doing two things at the same time, and he also firmly believes that a young man like Xiaobei will cut ties with Seaweed out of impulse.
He intends to cut off Seaweed's retreat so that she has nowhere to go so that he can take full control of her.
3 Let Seaweed Bear Baby for Him, this is his third elaborate plan for Seaweed.
Chen Sifu unfortunately passed away due to the demolition of Mrs. Li, and Song Siming realized that he might encounter misfortune. So, he found seaweed. One night, he visits Seaweed, who reveals to him that she is pregnant.
Song Siming decided to let Seaweed give birth to the child. Seaweed describes it as a child, not an object, and once a child is born, there is nowhere to hide.
Song Siming declared: This is me, Song Siming's child, no matter where he goes, he is his figure. I don't want you to talk to me again when you're that old. If you still have affection for me, then give birth to me as a precious gift from you.
Seaweed found all kinds of excuses not to have children, but Song Siming resolved the problem one by one and said that he would deal with it. Seaweed said that if she gave birth, her mother would definitely beat her to death. Song Siming proposed: Then my husband will give off this child, and then take responsibility.
Seaweed finally understood everything, but she didn't expect that Song Siming actually just wanted a child. I really don't really want her. She thought, she was playing with seaweed. Seaweed firmly disagreed, she was deeply confused about following Song Siming, and was even unsure of the direction of the future.
She didn't want to leave this home, she didn't want to leave that home. She didn't want her life to be at an impasse, because if she had more children, she would never be able to escape Song Siming's influence. She wanted to get rid of the children. It is still necessary to be controlled by the child.
Despite Seaweed's mention, Song Siming was still determined to let her have children. In order to ensure that Seaweed can give birth to a baby with peace of mind, he even took out all the funds from the family to her.
Song Siming was born in the countryside, and his thinking still retains an old traditional idea of unfilial piety and three nothings. He and his original partner are daughters, and now that he heard that Seaweed is pregnant, he privately thinks that this may be the male of his old Song family.
Song Siming thought about himself wholeheartedly, and he didn't care about the emotions and prospects of seaweed at all.
At that moment, Song Siming's life was already in jeopardy, and it was unbelievable that he actually let Seaweed give birth to a child for him. He already has a daughter, and he has an in-depth knowledge of the identity of seaweed. He understands better that if Seaweed does give birth to a child, it means that it is unlikely that he will walk freely in the sun with the child during his lifetime.
He plans to send seaweed to the United States, which looks quite appropriate. But in reality, his inner selfish desires drive him to want to use the child to kidnap Seaweed. Although Seaweed did not end up in misfortune, and although he did travel to the United States on his own terms, he and his mother were still destined to live a very different lifestyle than the average person.
Seaweed is still young and not very sensible, and Song Siming knows everything well. Despite this, he still insisted that Seaweed give birth to a child for him, and did not hesitate to resort to moral means to kidnap him in order for Seaweed to give birth to a child for him.
He transferred the funds from his wife's ** property to his mother's and younger brother's mother so that she and her children could live together in the future. Song Siming betrayed his original partner and framed Seaweed. Both women are just a small pawn in his strategy.
In his life, no one really loved him, all he really loved was himself. The woman he married was not seaweed, not the original match, not him, but him. He married his original partner in order to improve his status. He loves seaweed because it is his lover, his wife, and his son. He is with Seaweed in order to satisfy his desire for conquest and control as a male.
So, who is the person he really loves?
4 His deathbed words revealed who the true love of his heart was.
Mrs. Song realizes that the family's funds are missing, and she is sure that it must be given to Seaweed by Song Siming, so she decides to go to Seaweed and ask for money. Seaweed agreed. When her eyes fall on the luxurious home where Seaweed lives, she discovers that there is a luxurious dining table that she has always longed for but is reluctant to buy. She wanted to buy it, but she was afraid that the seaweed would not want to, so she took the seaweed home.
When she noticed that there was a nanny next to Seaweed taking care of her, she thought of herself working hard at home from morning till night. She thought it would be nice if there was someone to take care of her!Considering that in order to rescue Song Siming, he was even willing to ** his mother's and younger brother's real estate to help him, but he quickly handed over the money to the woman in front of him.
Whenever she thought of this, the anger in Mrs. Song's heart could not be calmed. Still, she struggles to maintain the demeanor she deserves and lets Seaweed take the money out. Seaweed didn't resist at all, just grabbed Seaweed with both hands, and then pulled Seaweed hard, Seaweed struggled for a while before she stopped, but she still didn't escape. Seaweed's act of silence angers her, causing her to get into a heated physical altercation with Seaweed. Seaweed has been rushed to a medical facility.
When Song Siming learned the news at the meeting, he immediately drove to the hospital. Police cars followed in pursuit.
On the way, Song Siming learned that the seaweed had been miscarried and his uterus was removed, and he looked at the police car behind him, then let go of the steering wheel.
Song Siming was always aware that there was a police car behind him, but he still wanted to visit Seaweed and his children. When he learned that the child was not around, he chose to end his own life.
If he has a special fondness for seaweed, he will not hesitate to fly to the hospital for a check-up when he learns that the seaweed has been removed from his uterus, even if it is behind bars in the end. Because, Seaweed has a child in its body. However, when he learned of the miscarriage of the child, he did not hesitate to put the steering wheel down.
In his heart, children are more important than seaweed.
The words he said at the last moments of his life were the true feelings in his heart: Tingting, Dad is really sorry for you. Although I ended up choosing weakness, it was the only decision I made in desperation. In the future, Dad may not be able to continue to grow up with you, but you must remember Dad's teachings and not go down the wrong path.
As the saying goes, people will say good things when they are dying, but at the last moment of his life, Song Siming left neither a last word for his wife nor a last word for seaweed, he only left a last word for his daughter. "You know, your daughter is my only son!"This is what he owes to his daughter as a father, but does he really love his daughter deeply?He sent his daughter to school. After buying this car, he will not come more than five times to pick up and drop off his daughter.
His words in the last moments of his life also reveal the true cause of his death. He died so suddenly, he was still thinking before he died, what was he waiting for?He chose to end his life because of the deep despair he felt. He died suddenly. Why did he feel so desperate?Is it because of the presence of seaweed?Upon hearing the news of the miscarriage of seaweed, he immediately made a choice.
He betrayed and hurt his wife, resulting in Seaweed losing her womb, and Song Siming is undoubtedly a complete scum. He was a woman, but he was a man, the husband of a woman. Because of his presence, the lives of both women were destroyed. His wife is a gentle, beautiful, kind and considerate person in his eyes. Clearly, Seaweed made a mistake of her own, and her ultimate fate was entirely self-defeating.
5 is written at the end of the article.
Song Siming has the ability to solve problems, and always lends a helping hand in time when seaweed encounters difficulties. He was capable, and under his leadership, the company quickly grew from a small company to a globally renowned multinational conglomerate. He was both rich and talented, and from the outside, he seemed to be an ideal lover.
However, it is well known that these items on Song Siming's body were given to him by whom. His life is a history of his relationship with his wife. If it weren't for the fact that his wife in the main room handled all the housework for him wholeheartedly and allowed him to concentrate on officialdom, then if it weren't for his father-in-law, Song Siming's future life would be impossible.
It is no exaggeration to say that it was his wife who shaped Song Siming. She went through hardships and tribulations with him, trying to cultivate the seed of his heart, but in the end, in the process of growing up, she was deprived by others.
Even the most beautiful girl will always have a moment when she loses her beauty, and the relationship that relies solely on beauty will eventually be short-lived.
The reason why Song Siming, who we have seen, was able to successfully finance the seaweed flowers was entirely determined by his social status. He puts the money of the crime into his lover's life, what kind of predicament will this put the lover in?
As Haiping points out, the aura that Song Siming exudes is given by his position in society. Aside from Song Siming's special status in society, he is no different from many ordinary people.
If he really had a deep affection for Seaweed, would it lead her to end up suffering that fate?She is Seaweed's mother and Seaweed's sister. Unable to become a mother for the rest of her life, she lost her beloved. If he really liked seaweed, would he have loved her for the rest of his life?In Seaweed's later life, even if she has enough wealth, she will find it difficult to find true happiness.
No matter how much wealth a person has, what does it matter if he doesn't feel happy?
Song Siming killed three women by his own strength. For the rest of his life, his original partner will not only have to pay off his debts, but also face some of the bad evaluations he brings. His son, a child he had raised since childhood, faced a similar situation.
Not only did his daughter lose her father, but she also received the same gossip as her mother. Needless to say, when it comes to seaweed, but if a person can live in the country for a long time, who would want to go abroad?
He stepped into his own carefully arranged net, thus ruining his otherwise hopeful future life.
This TV series has been on the air for many years, and every time it **, it will cause people to think deeply. From "Mansion Gate" to "Bright Sword", from "I Am a Singer" to "Latent"...Each TV series has its own different themes and connotations. From the deep meaning of each character in the play, the audience's feelings are different.
I'm a firm believer that if you did the play ten years ago, you'll feel very different when you do it again ten years later.
I am convinced that those girls who expressed their love for Song Siming ten years ago will definitely feel happy ten years later, but fortunately the people I met are not like Song Siming. If you can think like that, it means that you are a very lucky girl. If you have such thoughts, then congratulations, you have become a steadfast person and no one can influence your destiny.
Because you know that true happiness does not depend on anyone's efforts, but is pursued through your own perseverance and struggle;It is not given by others, but obtained by self-struggle. Human dignity is not given by others, but needs to be acquired through one's own efforts;Happiness needs to be felt with heart and wisdom, not by luck.
Those who entrust their fate to others will never be able to have a life of their own;Success is not just about luck and chance, but also about our own continuous struggle and struggle. It is only when we are in complete control of our own destiny that we will be able to live this life in peace.
Remain calm and not proud in good times, and not feel sorry for yourself in bad times. As long as you keep working hard and moving forward, you will eventually bring out the best in you!
We work together!