actually helped a poor student because of his good deeds, but instead developed the habit of "white-eyed wolf".
"Knowing the grace of the picture has always been the basic principle of our life, if a person even their own benefactor, even a trace of kindness does not know how to be grateful in return, then how can you win the recognition of others?
However, in real life, such people do exist.
As the fable "The Farmer and the Serpent" says, a poor student who is helped will one day be unfaithful to his benefactor, and even almost ruin his acting career.
The actress Sun Li we are familiar with is this benefactor.
Xiang Haiqing was the student who received the sponsorship.
He originally lived in the mountains, and never imagined that there would be kind people to help him, so that he could be admitted to university, get out of the mountains, and see the colorful world outside.
The appearance of Sun Li undoubtedly brought him great hope.
However, her act of kindness eventually provoked a 6,000-word "letter of accusation" full of resentment.
What exactly happened between them?Why did a poor student become a "white-eyed wolf" who was blamed by everyone?
In 2001, Xiang Haiqing was still an ordinary "mountain high school student".
The family was poor, his father died prematurely, and his mother was weak, and with limited strength she raised him and several siblings.
He is a sensible child who has been doing odd jobs since he was a child to earn extra income to support his family. Even when he started school, he would use his time after school to do odd jobs to pay for his school fees.
His life has experienced ups and downs, and he has experienced the suffering of the world at an early age.
However, while he was struggling silently, a TV show changed his fate and spread his story.
At that time, Sun Li was just a budding actress, and she began to attract people's attention because of her performance in "Jade Guanyin".
Sun Li saw that Xiang Haiqing's experience was reported on TV, so she decided to help.
She accompanied her mother to see Xiang Haiqing and informed him that she would provide him with a monthly living allowance of 500 yuan to help him complete his studies.
Although we may think that 500 yuan is not too much nowadays, for high school students in a small county like Xiang Haiqing, in that era, it was enough.
Sun Li not only provided money, but also sent school supplies.
After Xiang Haiqing received all this, her heart was full of emotion, and she frequently wrote letters to express her gratitude. These simple but affectionate letters became the most beautiful memories of their relationship.
The dream of college has always been like an unattainable star, as if it is within reach.
Sun Li would not only write letters to Xiang Haiqing in his free time, encouraging him to keep moving forward and caring about his life and studies, but also sponsoring him and sending books to nourish his soul.
Sun Li, a four-year-old girl, regards Haiqing as her sister, creating a warm picture.
After she learned that Xiang Haiqing's mother suffered from asthma, she even sent medicine that could be effective for this condition.
Sun Li's actions can be said to come from the heart, because she has also gone through difficult times. When she was young, her parents divorced, and it was her mother who worked hard to raise her.
Xiang Haiqing's fate has changed dramatically, thanks to three years of funding.
Sun Li did not reveal her identity during this time, because she and her mother did not think it was anything to show off.
It's a pity that Xiang Haiqing failed in the college entrance examination and couldn't get into the university.
However, despite this, he did not give up and confided his frustration to Sun Li.
Sun Li felt the same way and decided to sponsor him for another year to give him a chance to deal with the college entrance examination again.
After a year of active efforts, Xiang Haiqing successfully got out of the predicament and finally got admitted to Shanghai Fisheries University, which also made the villagers look up to him.
Xiang Haiqing's parents held a simple celebration banquet for their son's success in the college entrance examination with their meager savings in the barren countryside.
At this time, Xiang Haiqing had already begun to look forward to the future life in Shanghai, and his heart was full of curiosity and expectation. He was overjoyed to be able to get out of the predicament of a poor mountain village.
His encounter at the station made him indescribably grateful.
It turned out that the person who had been supporting him in his studies turned out to be the well-known star Sun Li, which made him feel both excited and complicated.
Sun Li and her mother warmly greeted the new "family member", carefully selected clothes for him, bought a mobile phone to stay in touch and encouraged him to study at university.
However, this heartwarming scene hides clues to the follow-up story.
In the beginning, the story was a beautiful story about a big star helping a needy student, but a year later the turn changed everything.
The reporter participated in the student aid project, received a letter from Xiang Haiqing, and posted a description of several thousand words on the Internet. As a result, things began to cause a sensation, and Sun Li's career almost suffered a heavy blow as a result.
In the letter, he claimed that Sun Li had stopped sponsoring him one year after he enrolled in college.
Xiang Haiqing originally lived in poverty, but when she found out that the sponsor was actually a big star, her mindset changed dramatically.
He mistakenly thought that she was a star, with a good income and low expenses, and that money was pouring into his pocket easily, so he took it for granted.
He soon began to squander unbridledly, as if he were a college student from a privileged family.
He spent more than 90 yuan in the first month of school.
For some, this may be insignificant, but for their families, the cost is enough to cover three months' food rations.
In order to run for class cadres, he even began to entertain his classmates with more than 100 yuan, trying to win their favor.
Obviously, 500 yuan per month for living expenses was no longer enough to meet Xiang Haiqing's needs, so he decided to ask Sun Li for more money.
When Sun Li's mother learned about these things, she was very worried.
She hopes that Haiqing can live a stable life at school, instead of being exposed to the "rules" of society too early.
Because of this incident, the two had a conflict, which eventually led to lying to Haiqing, and concealing Sun Li's mother and daughter, continuing to compete for the position of class cadre, and deliberately deceiving these two people.
His actions will eventually be discovered by Sun Li's mother and daughter, so this matter can't be hidden all the time.
In September, the school gave a short notice to be vaccinated against hepatitis B, and the cost was 175 yuan.
When he called Sun Li again to ask for financial support, Haiqing was reprimanded.
The grandmother believes that Haiqing has grown up and must try to solve problems independently, instead of relying on others all the time.
Haiqing apparently ignored these words, and his squandering of money became more and more serious, often asking Sun Li's mother and daughter for help, and claiming that life was difficult.
Even once, he spent 1,000 yuan in half a month.
Sun Li's mother and daughter were shocked by this incident, so they decided to go to the school to find out the truth in person.
They were shocked by the findings.
Xiang Haiqing originally cunningly concealed the fact that he had applied for a 6,000 yuan stipend, and even worked part-time as a teacher's assistant while receiving funding, earning 300 yuan a month.
Haiqing has also received generous donations from others, which makes her feel particularly favored.
Not only did he find a girlfriend, but he also went to Haiqing. He spent so much money that he even spent 3,000 yuan to buy a mobile phone.
For 6 days, he had fun with his girlfriend, and the expenses were all contracted by him, so that his classmates privately called him "Master Qian".
This series of events eventually led to Sun Li stopping funding.
After learning the truth, Sun Li's mother and daughter realized that they had been deceived and could not accept that their kindness and sincerity had been so wantonly deceived.
Although they do not think they are wealthy, in the face of Xiang Haiqing's endless lies and deceptions, they have cut off ties with each other in addition to stopping funding.
Xiang Haiqing decided to go out and tried to destroy Sun Li's acting career through a letter, when she watched Sun Li's back fade away.
He then contacted Qiu Chaoju in the media and handed him the letter full of resentment.
In the letters, he expresses to Haiqing the idea that he is a naïve and ignorant young man, while portraying Sun Li and her mother as ruthless and determined characters.
When Sun Li first entered the film and television industry, she was not as high-profile as she is now, she was just a newcomer and was likely to be affected by such things.
The spread of the Internet made the matter bigger, and Sun Li could not argue for her innocence for a while.
Fortunately for her, both Sun Li and her mother have kind personalities and are reluctant to come forward to clarify, but her friends know her as a person.
The well-known writer Han Han was the first to stand up for Sun Li.
He told a joke about "you can't raise wolves in big cities" in a concise and concise way, revealing the truth of the incident, showing the essence of Sun Li's kindness, and also exposing the true face of Haiqing's greed.
Immediately afterwards, Haiqing's classmates also stood up and publicly condemned his profligacy and waste, and repeatedly asked the school to verify whether he was really in trouble.
In the end, after the unanimous ** of all parties, the true face of Haiqing was completely revealed.
Those netizens who already knew the truth began to criticize him verbally and in writing, mocking him as a "white-eyed wolf".
Today, Xiang Haiqing has been reduced to a situation where no one cares, and it is rumored that he was repeatedly rejected by major companies when he ran around looking for jobs, and finally had to get an ordinary job in a small company in his hometown.
Although Sun Li survived the turmoil, the "Funding Gate" incident still left a deep scar on her that could not be erased.
For many years, she has been quietly engaged in public welfare activities, trying to avoid directly helping others, and focus more on helping street animals.
Obviously, the needs of animals are not as urgent as those of humans, nor are they full of "deception".
Looking back on the past, it can be said that it is completely in line with the proverb: "Once bitten by a snake, ten years afraid of the well rope", good intentions are retributed, and there is nothing more heart-wrenching.
In fact, Sun Li is not alone in this kind of trouble.
If you look at past news reports, you'll see that many acts of kindness have ended in tragedy.
Despite his modest fame and worrying life, the singer Cong Fei generously donated money to sponsor 183 poor children.
He was hospitalized with stomach cancer in May 2005** and donated nearly half of his self-funded surgery money to children in the mountains.
To outsiders, Cong Fei may seem a little stupid, but for himself, the investment is well worth it.
Countless people can feel that Cong Fei's behavior conveys a message: there is still true love in the world, and the world is still beautiful.
However, the results are heartbreaking.
Of the more than 100 children he had sponsored, none of them had ever visited him in the hospital.
Instead, they responded strangely: "We didn't force him to make a donation." "When people ask why.
Sun Li's kindness allowed her to sponsor a child in the mountains, and she hopes that this love can be passed on.
It is a pity that this child lost himself in the prosperous life of the real society, and ended up hurting those who had helped him.
We have been taught gratitude since childhood, and we have learned that if we receive kindness from others, we should pass it on to more people.
If our hearts are corrupted by the demon of greed, then we will inevitably reap the consequences.
Sun Li did not deliberately publicize or hype, but chose to keep a low profile when providing funding to Haiqing, and just silently did what she thought she should do. Looking back, it all seemed so natural.
After the incident, she tried to calm the controversy and try to downplay the treatment, which showed her kindness.
Sun Li's tolerance and bearing were vividly displayed in dealing with Xiang Haiqing's affairs, which brought great encouragement to people, which is worth learning from.
May there be fewer "white-eyed wolves" like Xiang Haiqing in the world, and more kind people who know how to repay their kindness.
I hope that every kind and well-meaning person can leave a deep memory.