Love usually stems from the first heartbeat, and men and women who have just fallen into a relationship are deeply in love with each other because of this excitement, and behave like glue to each other.
However, when the novelty of love wears off, they will find that the initial sweet love gradually fades into flatness, and both parties lose patience with moving on.
Men, in particular, will be cold to women once they are tired of love, and it is difficult to love them consistently, which is why many loves eventually break down.
Therefore, when it comes to getting along with men, women need to master some tricks to ensure that their love lasts longer.
In life, many women do not understand the skills of getting along with the sexes and always cater to men with a humble attitude, which is not necessary.
Actually, it's not hard to capture a man's heart, just stay physically attractive. Once you have accumulated this aspect of charm, it is easy to cause waves in the hearts of men.
Because all love is inseparable from physical attraction, this power is enough to ensure that love lasts longer.
Therefore, women need to learn the technique to keep men in love with them: stay physically attractive.
1. Learn to dress up and keep in shape No matter what, women need to dress up and maintain a good figure, which is a direct way to make themselves attractive.
The so-called "love of beauty, everyone has it." ”
This is especially true for men, who are always attracted to beautiful women, but it is not only the natural beauty of women that attracts them, but also their ability to dress up and have exquisite appearances.
When men see a well-dressed woman, they are often irresistible and easily attracted to them.
Therefore, it is important for women to learn to dress up when they get along with men. Of course, it doesn't cost too much, just keep a clean and tidy appearance, maintain a good body shape and temperament, and make yourself more attractive.
Whether in love or marriage, women should dress modestly and never be lazy. If you become like a yellow-faced woman with no spirit, sooner or later the man will lose his freshness and thus be indifferent to you.
Men are so realistic, in order to get their continued love, they must change their physical appearance. A woman who looks like a crush is usually able to make a man fall into it.
If you have watched "Happy Events in the Family", you must be impressed by the sister-in-law in it. She is full of love for her husband and family, and runs the family wholeheartedly after marriage.
It stands to reason that such a thrifty woman should be able to win the favor of her husband, but in fact, on the contrary, the husband is attracted to women outside.
One of the reasons is that the husband is unfaithful to the relationship, and on the other hand, the sister-in-law does not know how to dress up and always maintains the image of a yellow-faced woman, which makes her husband lose interest in her.
When her sister-in-law and her husband's marriage was in jeopardy, she began to change. Instead of maintaining her previous lazy image, she began to dress up, put on beautiful clothes, and show off her social skills.
At this time, the sister-in-law looked delicate and beautiful, and although she lost the delicate of a young woman, her clean and decent image and the charm of a mature woman made her more feminine.
When her husband confronts her again, he is instantly attracted and tries his best to pursue her again. In the end, with his sincerity, hard work and the help of his family, the husband successfully won the heart of his sister-in-law.
Therefore, if women want men to continue to love them, spoil them, and cherish them, they must learn to dress themselves. Once they become striking women, men will not be able to take their eyes off them.
2. Make good use of verbal cues to inspire men to look forward to In a relationship, it is often men who are the first to lose patience. When their hearts are no longer focused on you, instead of arguing loudly, learn to make good use of verbal cues to make men look forward to you again.
For example, when the relationship loses its freshness and the man starts to be cold, you can send him some messages with ambiguous emotions at the right time.
When he receives such a message, it is easy to have a reverie in his heart, and he can't help but come to you. The psychology of men is like this, and they are always full of reverie for ambiguous information.
Just like my colleague Miss Chen, after three years of marriage with her husband, his coldness towards her gradually increased.
At this time, she did not quarrel with her husband or question his behavior, but subtly sent some messages to him, subtly hinting at him with words, which quickly made him more enthusiastic.
She once sent a message: "I just bought a pajamas, but I wear them too short, I don't know if I want to change them, come and help me take a look." ”
When the husband saw such a message, he must have had a strong desire in his heart, and no matter how busy he was, he would rush back to her.
In fact, when getting along with men, women still have to take the initiative, after all, only by taking the initiative to maintain a relationship can the relationship last longer.
It is the most straightforward way for women to be adept at using verbal cues to impress men's hearts.
If you want to capture the hearts of men, you must know the skills of attacking the heart, and only by breaking through the defense line of men's hearts and meeting their potential needs can you achieve better results.
Whether you are a couple in love or a married couple, women can use this verbal cue flexibly because it is the best way to stimulate men's inner desires.
Essentially, the meaning of language is more likely to make men reverie, and this is the charm of words.
Why do we always feel that the TV series is not as touching as the original book after watching it?Because the original work is presented through words, it will generate reverie in people's hearts, while the TV series is an intuitive display that is difficult to penetrate into the heart.
Therefore, if a woman wants to get a man's continuous love, she might as well try to hint at him with words, so that he will always have a reverie about you and keep expecting it, and he will naturally not be indifferent to you.
3. Maintain physical contact, kiss more, hug more men and women to love each other, the best way is to have more physical contact, a handhold, a hug, an affectionate kiss, is often the best lubricant to promote each other's feelings.
At all times, people need someone to care, accompany and care about the most.
The same is true for men, who themselves are under tremendous pressure and can easily lose their fighting spirit if they do not receive the care and understanding of women.
Therefore, if women want men to continue to love them, it is best to give more care, a word of comfort, an affectionate hug, can make men feel warm in their hearts.
In addition, men also need to feel loved, and women need to be more caring, not to discourage them, whether they have achieved something or not, but to give them understanding and support.
Especially in the event of a conflict, women should not blame men for saying that they are useless or something like that. Women who know how to protect their male self-esteem are usually more likely to be loved by men.
When smart women deal with conflicts between men and women, a kiss and a hug can often solve the problem.
You must know that the most difficult thing for a man to resist is the tenderness of a woman, and you are so affectionate, how can he be indifferent to you?
Whether it is a couple or a couple, conflicts and frictions will always occur after getting along for a long time, so you need to know how to actively maintain the skills of the relationship, rather than letting the relationship fall to the freezing point.
Women understand men in their relationships and care about men, not for the sake of please, but for the sake of maintaining the need to maintain the relationship. If a man doesn't do anything to hurt you substantially, you shouldn't give up on him easily.
Because relationships are like that, it is impossible to remain passionate all the time as when you first started in a relationship, and it usually becomes flat over time. Therefore, in the ordinary life, take the initiative to maintain the relationship between the two parties, and the relationship can be more durable.
Women need to understand that the best way for men to care is physical contact. Love lasts only when the essence of love is felt and can be touched.
The more harmonious and happy the relationship between men and women, in fact, through physical attraction, they feel loved and loved by each other, and their hearts will be closer and their relationships more stable.
In general, if women want men to continue to love them, they need to maintain the above three aspects of attractiveness.
Learn to dress up, keep in shape, and become an attractive woman in the eyes of men. Make good use of verbal cues to make men constantly have new expectations of you and make the relationship more harmonious.