The most unforgettable thing in a man's heart is not Bai Yueguang, but a "lover".
What is a "lover"?Is it an interpretive flower that provides emotional value, or a flamboyant thorn rose?Not really.
"Lover" refers to those women who are the most attractive, and you will find when you observe themThis kind of woman, whether it is mental cultivation or dressing, has a charm that belongs to them.
Relaxed, natural, not too delicate, not too forceful, face-to-face contact with them, you will feel a clear and translucent sense of mystery.
Women who can become lovers of the public often have these three characteristics in them.
If you want to know how these traits are displayed, or if you want to learn how to develop them, don't miss it.
01: Gentle and considerate
In the eyes of most people, gentleness and thoughtfulness are synonymous with "patience" and "good temper", which means not resisting and not being aggressive.
Therefore, whenever the "interpretation flower" is mentioned, the women always dismiss, thinking that those women who are called "interpretation flowers" are just silk flowers that grow dependent on men, and once the men get tired of it, they will be immediately abandoned.
But is that really the case?Clearly, everyone underestimated the power of gentleness.
Gentleness is relaxed and casual, and what supports the quiet years of a gentle woman is the power to dare to open herself, dare to take the initiative to express and screen, and dare to give up in time.
This kind of power is the result of the cultivation of one's mind, so in a sense,The gentle background is not depressed, but an attitude towards life that does not screw.
And the biggest difference between ordinary beauties and public lovers is this, the former is Xi to please others, even with exquisite makeup, with superior body curves, but always with a sense of caution.
The latter is to please themselves, they see the good, believe in the good, and finally achieve inner harmony and acceptance, becoming the embodiment of the beauty itself.
02: Beautiful and moving
Some people say that beauty plus any card is a king bomb, education, family, background, IQ, only a single is a dead end.
Indeed, in a sense, a woman who has no beauty and no advantages may be able to eat the beauty bonus for a while, but once the flowering period is over, the rest of her life can only "recall the past eventful years".
But it should be noted thatThe saying that beauty alone is a dead end does not mean that beauty is useless, it just shows the importance of beauty- As long as the beauty is added, then this is the fastest way for a woman to change her fate.
Beauty is an advantage, a scarce resource, and it has another lethal quality: a short flowering period.
No matter how beautiful the appearance is, it will depreciate over time, and if we want to delay its depreciation, there is only one thing we can do, and that is to add a sense of depth to this beauty.
By observing, you will find that the most popular beauties in life, their circle of friends will not only be all beautiful**, or bask in the beautiful scenery of travel, or show their interests and hobbies, even if they do not appear on the camera, they can't help but praise and yearn for it.
There are thousands of kinds of beauty, find the style that suits you best, and then add your own "prefix" to it, you can also become a heartthrob.
Independence
The mystery of the public lovers, ** is just the right sense of alienation for themRegardless of honor or disgrace, they seem to care about nothing.
For women, "not caring" is a very important quality, because behind it, it is a benchmark for the economic strength of the individual and the strength of the personal core.
If you ask for something, you will definitely please it, and if you lack it, you will definitely cover it up, and the public lovers are precisely because they are invulnerable, so they will consciously maintain their alienation in the face of everything.
It should be noted that their estrangement is not stiff, she can skillfully resolve all the jokes of the other party, she understands all the words of the other party, and will not make people unable to get off the stage when they are cold.
Comfortable to get along with, looks well-educated, decent and not easy to get hands on,When men go on a quest against them, they will reach a consensus in their hearts:This woman is not easy to "mess with" and must be taken seriously.
The reason why "lover" is called "lover" is actually because most men can't get their favor at all.
Like an exam, the heartthrob makes the men feel like they've scored 9s, watches them complacent, proud, and then chuckles and leaves.
Why not choose?Because the full score on the roll is actually 100 points.
A person who can resonate at the same frequency is better than a hundred and ten people who claim to be "truly in love", and heartthrobs will only stop for the former.
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