Opening remarks: In the stormy life, we are all experiencing ups and downs, joys and sorrows. Silence is one of the most elegant practices, especially for women of high rank. They know how to remain silent in the face of joys and sorrows, ups and downs, and use profoundEmotionInstead of a thousand words.
Some people say that only by breaking up can you see character. A person's evaluation of an ex can reflect her truest thoughts in her heart. There is one story that stuck with me. On campus, there is a couple of men and women who once loved deeply, and after graduation, there were rumors that the man split his legs. Years later, both started their own families. When a woman is asked why she broke up, she only replies: "He's a good man, but we're not suitable." "People who love each other end up breaking up for reasons that only they know. But from this sentence, the woman conveyed to the world her affirmation of the past and the relief of Shaohua.
Some people lack affirmation of past love. They will blame each other after the breakup, and even openly expose and attack each other's privacy. This kind of behavior not only exposes his character problems, but also makes himself a laughing stock for others, and forgets the way his children look at their parents' entanglements when they grow up. Life is like the sea, short-term love, if you can be together, you should cherish each other;If you don't have a chance, you will be well and wish each other well. High-level women know how to be relieved, do not dwell on the past, but look at the future, and a sense of responsibility naturally appears.
In the hot search list, we will always see some tragedies: gossip, rumors and abuse, cyberbullying and so on. There are even people who go to the extremes of their lives because of this. In this world, weRefractory periodEveryone understands us, and we don't need to explain it to others. As the classic saying goes, "Those who understand you don't need your explanations."People who don't understand you, why should you bother?"There will always be people who point fingers at you, find fault with you, distort and make up all kinds of stories. However, you have to believe that they are just passers-by, and they are only doing because they are too bored, too anxious, even if it is out of anger. The world is full of absurdities, but we can choose to remain silent and hold on to what is in our heartsTranquility。High-level women know how to stay away from the hustle and bustle and keep their heartsTranquility。They are self-contained, prove their firmness with their actions, bury themselves in their own well, be full of sincerity for the future, and live a height that is difficult for others to achieve.
Wang Xiaobo once said: "All human suffering is essentially anger at one's own incompetence. "Pushing oneself and others is a habit of the Chinese. Many people don't think about empathy when doing things, lack empathy, and always impose their ideas on others. For example, some people will say that couples who have been married for many years but have not given birth: "Why don't you want children yet, don't be old anymore, it will be difficult to have children." Or for the female ** boyfriend, someone will remind: "The man is unreliable, you have to make a plan for him, don't believe what he says, you need to ......."I'll test him for you, right?For posting on Moments, some people will talk behind their backs: "It must be a fake bag, it must be for showing off, what is there to show off?".For the perennial business trip, some people also pointed out: "It's so hard, it's busy every day and doesn't make money, what are you trying to do?"In short, what will happen to each other's lives will be imposed on them by their own imagination and experience. Therefore, remaining silent is a way to cope and to maintain one's own sense of boundaries.
We should allow everyone to have their own opinions, ways of living, and perceptions of the world. Your silence is an answer, a protection for yourself. Because a lot of times, these so-called differences are just because someone can't control their curiosity and ability to associate. High-level women will focus on doing their own thing, stay away from noise, and exude deep feelings in their hearts. They'll keep oneTranquilityThe heart of the body, live with heart, maintain sincerity for the future, and live a height that is difficult for others to achieve.
We can't ask for others, but we can be a wise man who knows how to be silent and give it more value and meaning in this short life. Let's go further on the road of improving ourselves and doing our best. Tranquilityin order to go far. After all, life is short, and being able to face it with the mentality of "there are mountains outside the mountains, and there are heavens outside the sky" is also a manifestation of open-mindedness and maturity.
Remaining silent does not mean that we lack the ability to express ourselves, but choose to wait for the right moment and save our wisdom and strength for something more valuable. High-level women know how to use silence to care for the weakness of their heartsTranquilityTo face the challenges of wind and rain. They will not be swayed by the noise of the outside world, but choose to maintain inner peace and clarity, and life is as beautiful as a landscape.