Turn the page in 2023
In the face of the upcoming new year, looking back on the past year, I found that it is really quite like my Baijia number:
Take the first step and express yourself bravely.
I have indeed read enough parenting books, and the confusion and anxiety in the general direction of raising children by myself have indeed dissipated, but small problems are still emerging.
When I opened Baijiahao, I used to think that I would quickly start the account, pass on the parenting concepts and experiences I have learned, and help more people to eliminate parenting anxiety, and the results are ......It's chicken feathers all over the ground.
My first small achievement was my daughter, who was 3 years full-time, and she quickly adapted from full-time nursery to kindergarten when she turned 3 years old.
How amazing can a child's growth be?
It's like being reborn, and her growth can be clearly found under our noses every day.
I was able to record her good qualities in her parenting diary for two weeks in a row.
Moreover, it's not that our own filter is thick, but that the school teachers also gave excellent evaluations.
The school did not distribute the home-school contact book for November, and it was not until yesterday that I got it back.
Only then did I see that our teacher in November concluded that the child was inattentive. But in December, I was already active in class, focused, and very helpful, often helping teachers with things and helping children.
In the early education class of painting, he also performed well, and two paintings were taken to the school for half a month to exhibit, and they were only brought back on Thursday.
At this point, I am finally completely convinced: for the sake of my children's growth, I chose to be a full-time mother, and it is really worth it.
Her growth is the best answer to my 3-year stay-at-home mother.
I have indeed read a lot of books on personal growth and efficiency this year, such as "7 Habits of Highly Effective People", "Get It", "Micro Habits", etc., and I have read a lot of books that are at the top of the list of such books.
To really put it into action, it is to use the method of micro-habits to break through 0 action.
Baijia number, a book, a certain and other self-** on the whole platform, I am doing it, although the quality is not good, but there is always action.
I also insist on reading for more than 1 hour a day, writing reading notes, making knowledge cards, and building a knowledge base.
Reading has helped me dispel parenting anxiety and gain a new understanding of life, and I really want to share my insights with more people, hoping that more mediocre people like me can get out of the dilemma of confusion and self-imprisonment.
But ......If I want to really make a difference, that's what I need to do in the new year.
Since the ** account, I naturally want to do it, so that my insights can be passed on to more people.
I have to get out of the house, join the team, and use the power of the team to go wider and farther.
It's just that one thing to pay attention to is to grasp the bottom line between raising children and promoting ideas:
The most important thing is naturally the growth of your own children, which is the most important.