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Introduction: The Lost and Destined for Extramarital Affaires.
In the long river of life, every man is a drifting boat, sometimes lost in the wind and waves, sometimes anchored in a safe harbor.
However, when a man seeks excitement and tries something new in the midst of life's waves, he may encounter an extramarital affair.
So, where should a man who has had an extramarital affair go?
In the world's view, a man who has had an affair is undoubtedly a sinner. He reneged on the promise of marriage and betrayed the warmth of his family.
However, this sinner, was he also the husband who fought hard for his family and paid for his wife?Was he also the father who sheltered his children from the wind and rain and did his duty?Perhaps, he just lost himself in this game of life.
For this man, returning to the family is one of his options. He may have grown tired of the wind and snow outside, and began to miss the warmth of home.
He may have realized his mistake and decided to return to his family and take responsibility again. It's a sign of remorse and a renewed commitment to the family.
When he returns to his family, he may cherish this hard-won happiness more and understand the true meaning of life more.
However, for some men, they may not be able to stand the oppression of their family, and choosing divorce may be their way out.
They may feel that their hearts have been unable to return to the family and that their love has been given to others. They may choose to divorce and pursue the true love of their hearts.
However, have they ever thought about how their loss might hurt their families?How many people's fates might be changed by their decisions?
Whether the man chooses to return to the family or divorce, he needs to be held accountable for his actions.
He needs to recognize his mistakes and take responsibility for his actions. He needs to understand that an extramarital affair is not a solution to the problem, but a disservice to the family.
He needs to learn to cherish his existing family and not lose his most precious things in the pursuit of novelty and excitement.
At the same time, this man also needs to learn how to love. He needs to understand that love is not just an impulse of desire, but also a responsibility.
He needs to understand that the happiness of the family is not a natural gift, but the result of his careful management.
He needs to learn how to understand his wife, how to care for his children, and how to do his duty. Only then will he be able to truly return to his family or find new happiness after the divorce.
In this complex world, every man has the potential to make mistakes.
However, it's not terrible to make mistakes, it's obsessiveness to be terrible.
Men who have had extramarital affairs need a chance to repent and make amends. What they need is a new appreciation of the value of family and a new learning of how to love.
Only then will they be able to rediscover their direction on the path of life.
In closing, I would like to say that whether this man chooses to return to the family or divorce, he needs to face the consequences of his choice.
What he needs to understand is that every decision he makes can change the course of his life.
Therefore, he needs to think carefully about his choices and face his future seriously. Only in this way can he find his own happiness on the road of life.
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