When you go to someone else's house as a guest, and when you hear the host say these four words, you should quickly get up and say goodbye to the host, otherwise you will be ignorant and annoyed. Interpersonal interaction is an unavoidable part of our lives. Whether it's visiting friends and family, or attending a party to chat, we need to socialize on every occasion. In this process, we must learn to observe and discern words and deeds to distinguish between sincere and polite words. Nowadays, whether it is in daily life or in the process of work, if you don't know how to read words, you will have to suffer a lot, or lose a lot of opportunities. Exchanges between people, some words are not easy to say, we must learn to observe which words of others are true, which words are kind words, do not say kind words when people say kind words, you don't understand but as a truth to cater to it, then it is going to make jokes, maybe, but also to annoy others, especially when people are guests at home, when they hear these four sentences, quickly and consciously get up and say goodbye.
The first sentence was, "You must eat at my house another day." ”
Sometimes, when we are guests at a friend's house, we may unconsciously lose track of the time. If we hear this sentence from the host, it means that the host has hinted in advance that it is time for us to leave. This is actually issuing an eviction order, we must understand the meaning of the words, obviously, this is not early, you will not be left to eat, you should go home quickly. Because of the scene, I can only say polite words, euphemistically reminding you that it's time to go, especially the kind of people who didn't make an appointment in advance and suddenly came to visit, and they didn't make any preparations at all. As soon as these words come out, then hurry up and leave consciously. Since we were not invited to dinner, we should be wise to choose to leave quickly.
The second sentence is: "Today, we are not eating at home, let's go out to eat." ”
Once, I went to my mother's house and happened to meet a classmate. They invited me to sit at their house because they lived in the same neighborhood as my mother's house. I was invited to their house. There, we chatted and unknowingly talked until about seven o'clock after dark. At this time, the classmate said that there was no preparation at home today, so it was better for us to go to the restaurant to eat, but the classmate's husband and children were at home, and his husband was still cooking in the kitchen. My classmate said this only as a polite reminder that it was not too early and that it was time for me to leave. So, I quickly chose to say goodbye.
The third sentence is: "You sit at my house for a while, I'll go out and do some errands, and I'll be back right away." ”
If, while a guest is at a friend's house, they suddenly say this, it means that we should stop at their house for a while, because they have urgent matters to attend to, but will be back soon. They turned on the TV for us and asked us to sit for a while. At this time, the host said to let you sit for a while, drink tea, watch TV, he went out to do things, and came back later. Actually, this is obviously hinting that you should go, at this time we must quickly get up and say goodbye, and say a beautiful word, so to speak, oops, as soon as you say this, it reminds me, I happened to have something later, and I almost forgot, then I won't bother you, I'll go first, and I'll visit next time, whether the other party really has something to go out or not. After saying this, we should leave as soon as possible, and promise to visit again, so as not to affect the master's plan. Maybe the host had other arrangements, but couldn't say it explicitly. We need to choose wisely to leave as soon as possible.
The fourth sentence is: "It's not early, don't go back, just eat at my house." ”
Sometimes, we lose track of time when we chat at a friend's house. It was more than the meal, and we didn't notice it. At this point, the host may invite us to stay and have a casual home-cooked meal. When we hear this, we can get up and say goodbye to each other, and we have to say hello in advance when we go down to find someone, otherwise it will be a little embarrassing. In fact, normal people can hear the meaning of this, this is pure politeness, if you want to keep you to eat, you have already said it, maybe the smell of the kitchen is wafting over at this time. But because it is the time of this meal, the host will more or less open his mouth to be polite, at this time, don't pretend not to understand, and don't stay longer, find an excuse to leave quickly, and make an appointment, next time you will get together for a meal next time Zhou Dong. We must not stay so as not to cause embarrassment and trouble to the host. After all, there was no discussion about dining at their house. So, when we go to someone's house for a while, when the host says it's getting dark and let's stay for dinner, it's actually a hint that it's time for us to go home. We must not pretend that we do not understand, and we must choose to leave quickly. Have you encountered any of the above four situations?If not, then when you go to be a guest in the future, if you hear these four words, you must leave quickly, so as not to embarrass everyone.
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