From the beginning of our schooling, we have been compared by parents and people around us, how is your child's grades?My child was first in his class. Why is your child not tall, my child is half a head taller than yours. When I was a child, my parents' various comparisons have become our shackles, and in our hearts we must be better than others, and excellence is the hope of our own life. When we grow up, we compare our family background, occupation, salary, etc., so that we are excellent, in fact, excellent is not the shackles of life, excellent is always rare, most of us are ordinary people, we actually live a wonderful life I think is more important than anything else.
Spur is good, but too much. For example, my nephew felt that my sister's education was a failure. The nephew's learning Xi is generally not excellent, and his receptivity is generally not excellent. My sister said that she was so angry, every night, the child still has interest classes, Monday, Wednesday and Friday, hip-hop, two, four, six programming, my sister cried and said to me, I don't want to see this child for a moment, how much I have paid for him, and this is how he repays me?
I said: Sister, you are in the wrong direction, you educate your child to let him develop better and live a more wonderful life, not to give back or anything. Originally, our children accepted it in general, we are not excellent, as long as we don't fall behind, we can keep up, and we are admitted to junior high school, there is no problem, then everything will be fine!There are very few outstanding people in this world, and the child is ordinary, so we must accept his ordinariness from the heart, and let him live a wonderful life in the ordinary world is our goal of cultivating him. There is also a special class, you didn't ask the child if he was willing to learn, what he likes to learn Xi, the so-called specialty interest class, is to learn Xi in the case of interest, your arrangement will only let the child be a marionette, whether it is a holiday, or a week, take the child to see the world, read thousands of books is not as good as travel thousands of miles.
For us ordinary people, it is better to live a wonderful life than to live an excellent life, at least within our own ability, we should awaken our world with surging vitality.