Why do you have to find emotional stability when you fall in love?I'll tell you something!At a reunion of college classmates, a couple who were still talking and laughing with everyone suddenly quarreled over a bowl of casserole porridge with coriander floating in it, yes, you read that right, because there were coriander in the casserole porridge, they quarreled!
The boy kept talking:Shall I order you another bowl?However, the girl just doesn't give the boy the stairs down, and keeps her face black and doesn't speak.
Everyone at the party realized that the atmosphere was a little wrong, so they all dispersed with interest. 
After going back, the boy sent a WeChat message to everyone, apologizing to everyone. I replied to him:What's this?Who hasn't suffered from love.
But in private, I can't help but ask, is it so tiring to fall in love?You have to be on guard against each other's emotions at all timesIt's even a little humble, isn't it?
As I thought about it, I suddenly remembered that I had been in such a relationship before.
When I was in college, I went to the cafeteria with my boyfriend at the time, and he told me a joke he had heard from his classmates as he walked. I listened to it and said, "I don't like it, don't tell such jokes in the future."
I didn't expect that my slight unhappiness would make his emotions suddenly collapse, and he actually knelt down for me, and kept muttering: I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I was also frightened at the time, and I had only one thought, which was to quickly get him to his feet so as not to be seen by other classmates.
But he said, "If you don't forgive me, I won't get up. So, at that time, I immediately said that I forgave him, and then quickly calmed his emotions.
But what I didn't expect was that it was just the beginning. He's like a timed zha bomb, as soon as I don't meet his expectations in the slightest, he will immediately blow up zha, sometimes in public, sometimes running downstairs in my dorm room to make a declaration, and even he will slap himself in the mouth.
And every time he does this, I will choose to soften again and again because I am afraid, okay, you calm down first. Later, I didn't even dare to mention the breakup, because I was afraid that he would do something drastic.
Fortunately, before graduation, he fell in love with other girls, so he broke up with me through cold violence, and I was finally freed from this relationship. 
Sometimes when I think about it, I am a little afraid, because I can't imagine what would have been the result if we hadn't been separated then.
Therefore, even if it is an intimate relationship, you should not use your own joys, sorrows and sorrows to ** others. Adult love is no longer like when you were a teenager and you can devote most of your energy and time to a relationship that has no reason to be liked.
In the adult world, in addition to feelings, there are more difficult and practical problems that require more effort. Making room for emotions has indeed become a very difficult task. What's more, for everyone, time, money, and attention are limited resources, and instead of using them to solve each other's emotions, it is better to accumulate them and face a common life together.
Therefore, when you fall in love, you must find someone who is emotionally stable!