After the finale of "Hot Mom", my heart was full of anger.
Forcibly reaching perfection completely destroys the central idea of the whole play. Domestic dramas always seem to follow this pattern, no matter how many difficulties are experienced, the end result will be positive.
Luo Tian and Yuan Bao both repented and returned to find their mates, but Li Muzi and Xia Bing were still waiting for their return. Both of these people are scumbags, and their behavior is disgusting, but they are both good men. The actions of those scumbags seem to have been forgiven, and the mistakes they made have become insignificant.
I'm sorry, but the so-called prodigal son's return was actually a well-planned deception.
The gap between Luo Tian and Yuan Bao is really big
Lotien is a man who lacks courage, is greedy, and is completely irresponsible. In their first marriage, the wife, after giving birth to a child, expressed dissatisfaction with her independence, tenderness, and appearance.
As a result, he betrayed Li Muzi. Li Muzi is very different from her predecessor, she is a woman who is both intelligent and capable, and there is nothing she can't handle.
In addition to this, she has a solid economic foundation. She did not hesitate to provide funds and efforts, and helped Luo Tian solve various problems faced by his ex-wife and daughter over and over again.
Not only that, Luo Tian's career was not satisfactory, and she also reached out unreservedly. She is a very gentle person, but she is very sensitive to her feelings. In this marital relationship, Luo Tian only needs to play the role of a hands-off shopkeeper, because Li Muzi will always make arrangements for anything.
However, Luo Tian was not satisfied with this, he longed for Li Muzi's assistance, and at the same time hoped to gain more freedom. He thought that since there were so many people supporting him, he should work hard. When Li Muzi was anxious about his child's problems, he decided to leave home, leaving a chaotic situation for Li Muzi.
Despite this, Li Muzi decided to forgive him. Shockingly, Luo Tian actually got together with Joan. Despite the obvious infidelity between them, Luo Tian's heart was already deeply moved by Joan.
When Li Muzi asked questions, he only responded: "I just chatted with him and drank tea. "Do you really think so?I think he's a good guy and he has a lot of good qualities, but I don't believe it, what's wrong with him?"You see, this is the nature of a man, as long as he doesn't have any connection with the other person, he will always think that he is right.
The relationship between Luo Tian and Qiao An became complicated, and Li Muzi decided to leave. Unexpectedly, Luo Tian later found out that Li Muzi was taking care of his ex-wife, which made him suddenly realize his conscience, so he went home to find Li Muzi.
A family of three is once again reunited. I do not know. Frankly, will Luo Tian's repentance really happen?He just realized that with Li Muzi by his side, his daily life would be much easier.
Li Muzi has the ability to share the trivial affairs of life for Joan, but Joan is not an ideal partner, she has her own poetry and distant dreams.
Luo Tian's repentance and rehabilitation was only a decision made after carefully weighing the pros and cons.
Compared with Luo Tian, Yuanbao's unruly behavior is even more unreliable. He and Xia Bing are divorcing, not because he has crossed the line, but because his character and emotions are not yet fully mature.
Yuan Bao is the most intolerable man for me, not only is he incapable, but his temper is even hotter than that of the emperor. He likes to quarrel with people. Whenever things don't go his way, he starts blaming them.
In this world, it seems that everyone has made mistakes, but he is wrong. He is an ordinary man who has spent his whole life finding happiness for himself. Although Yuan Bao was very considerate to Xia Bing before marriage, the situation after marriage was completely different.
He thought that since he had married Xia Bing, there was no need to coax her anymore.
Xia Bing gave up her bright future out of consideration for her children and mother-in-law and decided to become a full-time housewife. Her husband is a military man. However, Yuan Bao did not show any respect for her, leaving only an attitude of reproach and contempt.
The grievances and embarrassments that Xia Bing experienced were almost insignificant in Yuanbao's eyes, and he always insisted on that sentence: Is this matter really so insignificant?Xia Bing loves Yuan Bao deeply, she can endure and tolerate it repeatedly, but Yuan Bao has only him in his heart.
Xia Bing was finally devastated because she saw through the selfish, narrow, and immature side hidden beneath the gentleness of ingots. In her heart, there is only the man Yuanbao. A man's emotional fluctuations and weak personality are undoubtedly the most fatal factors for Ma Bao.
Do you think this kind of man can make a change in a short period of time?Because, when they are together, they are like two people, there is a man who is so gentle and always so strong, which makes him very uncomfortable, so he wants to divorce. The scene when they finally started over was really hard for me to understand. Yuan Bao originally planned to conduct a cooperation negotiation with the customer, but in order to prepare a projector for Xia Bing, the customer chose to refuse.
Isn't this what a responsible man should be?Isn't it essentially the same that he didn't take responsibility for his family in the past, and now he is no longer responsible for his partner?
For a man like Yuanbao, the machismo in his heart and the concept of Ma Bao cannot be changed.
Lacking the love of his father and the deep dependence of his mother from an early age, he was not a completely independent adult, but a child who had not yet been weaned.
In addition to this, his mother has always doted on him, which makes him feel both inferior and conceited. His parents were also very strict with him. He can't tolerate his own failures, much less the successes of his partner.
Over time, Xia Bing has fully matured and is not only capable of being a great mother, but also taking on responsibilities independently in her career. However, her parents divorced because of her problems, her mother lost the courage and confidence to live, and her father was fired from his job because of her. In other words, her future may surpass ingots.
The manhood in Yuanbao's heart, can he really accept Xia Bing's outstanding performance?
Xia Bing is so naïve, she has always thought that love in marriage is enough, but she doesn't realize that a man's character, quality and way of dealing with problems are more critical.
It is widely praised that those who repent and reform themselves are considered endlessly attractive to men who know their mistakes and are willing to correct them. We also want our children to be like him, unruly and honest. However, we should all recognize that the ** and irresponsibility in a person's heart is difficult to change.
Luo Tian seems to have decided to let go of Joan and return home, but if the next time he meets a woman who is more attractive than Joan, how can he not be tempted by it?
Those men who have a criminal record, due to their over-familiarity, coupled with the forgiveness of women, pay a relatively small price for their mistakes. To put it another way, women's forgiveness and tolerance can sometimes turn into bargaining chips for their indulgence.
When a prodigal son decides to turn back, how many people are able to transcend the passage of time?At this stage, he has put his heart at ease and is living a good life with you.
In the coming period, when your marriage is once again troubled by daily trivialities, will he gladly accept it?If you met someone this season, would you decide to break up because of his words?Not everyone who repents and repents represents eternity and happiness.
Life is full of ruthlessness, and perhaps one day the unsatisfactory will trigger him to make mistakes again. You have to learn to look for the cause in yourself and correct it. As the saying goes, rivers and mountains can be easily changed, but human nature is difficult to change, and it is almost impossible to change a person's nature.
From a psychological point of view, the other person may have been changed by you on the surface, no longer emotional, no longer betrayal, but in reality they are just suppressing their own nature in order to avoid conflict.
Therefore, one should not expect oneself to have the ability to change a man, even God does not have such great power.
The ideal thing to do is not to choose forgiveness, but to pick a trustworthy and responsible person from the beginning, or to quickly stop losses after seeing the other person for what they really are. Don't think of yourself as a bystander and a bystander. Don't overestimate human nature, and don't overestimate your own capacity.
*There will be**unruly people turn back, and scumbags are always scumbags!