Men are very fond of women who love themselves, but women can't be pampered and arrogant, and there is no bottom line to consume your feelings. Men have emotional dead ends, and they also have the bottom line of patience, women must find out the emotional bottom line of men, no matter how much a man spoils you, you can't touch his dead end. There are four emotional dead holes for men, and women must know it.
1.Don't often test a man, let alone threaten to break up, when you often give him this kind of psychological hint, his subconscious will be ready to break up.
Temptation is distrust, and it is even more wrong to distrust and threaten to break up, but it makes a man doubt your love for him. When a man really says yes, you're not a chicken. 、
2. Lose the sense of boundaries and wantonly expand their rights.
When two people fall in love, even if a man loves you and loves you to death and live, it does not mean that you can expand your rights and interfere with everything about the other party without limit. But many women make the mistake of relying on a man to like them, acting recklessly in his world, and losing a sense of boundaries.
Obviously just the other party's girlfriend, but he exercises rights beyond his identity, such as asking men to pay wages, asking to change some Xi and personality they don't like, and even interfering with the other party's ideals and beliefs.
In the long run, men will always look farther than women, if you like a person to completely change yourself, it is estimated that no one can stick to this like, unless you are a great beauty who is captivating the country and the city.
3.Don't confide everything to him just because he is the person closest to you, give him your misfortunes, pains, grievances and complaints, make him an outlet, a man is not a scrap yard, when he is sure that he can't change you, he can only run away.
Occasionally talk about your misfortunes, you will get inner catharsis and sympathy from men. But sentimentality, worrying and sadness about things that don't necessarily happen can be very disgusting to men. A partner who smiles a lot or a partner who looks unlucky, which one would you choose?
4. Compare your own man with other people's families.
There are winners and losers in everything, but there is no win or loss in love. Everything can be compared, but love cannot be compared. Women in love like to compare, when their men are better than others, they will feel proud, on the contrary, they will be dissatisfied and dislike each other.
When you often say to your boyfriend: Look at you, you are not as good as others, not as tall as others, not as handsome as others, not as much as others earning, this will only cause huge psychological pressure on the other party and discourage the enthusiasm of the other party.
In this world, long-term relationships need to be maintained with love. The simplest and most straightforward way to love a man is to understand his emotional deaths, and then cherish each other and take care of him with his heart. In this way, we can keep the feelings fresh and form attachments to each other.
In the end, may we all have the company of our loved ones and spend the rest of our lives together.