Not long ago, I attended a reunion of my high school classmates, and I unexpectedly learned that two classmates of the opposite sex who had a good relationship had a falling out over a trivial matter. I was impressed by these two classmates, they were at the same table in high school, they both had good grades, and they talked to each other, so they quickly became close friends of the opposite sex.
Later, they went to university in the same city, and after graduation, they invariably came to Shenzhen to look for jobs. Although they didn't develop into a couple in the end, they have always kept in touch, and even after both parties have their own families, they still send messages, make calls**, and occasionally get together to talk about work and their respective families.
The male classmate's career is smooth, the family is harmonious, and he took his wife and children to his side within a few years of graduation. In order to take care of the child, I took my mother-in-law over. For this reason, he also rented a three-bedroom and two-living room house near the unit, one for the husband and wife, one for the mother-in-law and the child, and one for sundries.
But the career and relationship of the female classmate are not so smooth. After getting married, I quarreled with my husband every now and then, and finally got divorced. Not long after the divorce, the company laid off employees, and she became homeless for a while. Renting a house in Shenzhen is too expensive, and she is reluctant to rent it.
At this time, she learned that there was an empty room at the home of the above-mentioned male classmate, so she called the male classmate ** and asked if she could go over to stay overnight for a few days, and move out as soon as she found a new job.
The male classmate readily agreed without thinking about it. With such a good relationship with classmates, and they are all in the same city, he must help with this favor. Who wouldn't have to be in a difficult situation?So he sent the location of the community to the female classmate, and asked the second female classmate to move things over.
In the evening of the next day, the female classmate took a taxi to the gate of the community with her packed luggage. After getting off the bus, I sent a message to the male classmate, saying that I had arrived, and asked if I could come down to pick it up.
But more than ten minutes passed, and no reply was received. So she called ** again, but no one answered. At first, she thought he was busy and didn't have time to look at his phone, so she waited patiently at the gate of the community. However, half an hour passed, and she still didn't receive the message, and no one answered when she called, so she had to continue to wait.
An hour later, there was still no response from the male classmate. She realized something might be wrong. Could it be that the male classmate deliberately avoided her?But yesterday I said it!She sent another message to the male classmate, asking if it was inconvenient. If it's inconvenient, she can say it directly, she makes another plan. WeChat did not receive a reply, so she sent a text message instead.
But still nothing has been heard!Finally, after an hour and a half of waiting, she understood everything. Disappointment and sadness, she left the neighborhood with her heavy luggage in tow.
Afterwards, the female classmate deleted the male classmate's *** so far, they have not met again, and neither party has made any explanation for this. A pair of classmates who have a good relationship have become strangers in this way.
The female classmate speculated that his wife might have objected to her moving in. She even suspected that the couple had a quarrel over this night that night, so he didn't reply to the message and didn't answer **. But in any case, it should also be said.
The female classmate was indignant while drinking. Obviously, she can't let go of this matter yet. Everyone comforted her, saying that they were looking for an opportunity to let the male classmate compensate her, maybe it was a misunderstandingClassmates, it shouldn't be like this. She smiled slightly and said there was no need.
After listening to her story, I felt a lot of emotion in my heart, but I didn't know what to say for a while. It's really hard to evaluate who is right and who is wrong between male and female classmates.
I was thinking: If I were that female classmate, could I be so open that I would go to a male classmate to spend the night?If I were that male classmate, should I refuse?If you, what do you do?Tell me what you think.