My name is Xiaoya, and I have been married for five years. My husband and I have always had a good relationship, but recently, there was a problem between us, that is, my husband's grandmother was paralyzed, and my mother-in-law was not in good health, which made me feel a little uncomfortable.
Grandma has always been an important member of our family, she is gentle and kind, and always brings us warmth and love. However, since she was paralyzed, she needed to be taken care of, and her mother-in-law was not in good health and could not take on the responsibility of taking care of her grandmother. So, the burden fell on my shoulders.
Although I understood that it was right to take care of my grandmother, I felt a little powerless in the face of the fact that she was paralyzed. Whenever I saw my grandmother's painful expression, I felt like a knife, but I didn't know how to help her. Also, I have to take care of my mother-in-law, which makes me feel a little stressed.
I started to think, am I being too selfish?Why do I feel diaphragm?I know that this problem needs to be solved, otherwise it will affect the harmony of our family.
So, I decided to talk openly with my husband about my feelings. I told him that I would like to take care of my grandmother, but I felt a little overwhelmed and I hoped that he would understand my situation and work together to find a solution.
When my husband heard this, he looked at me with understanding in his eyes. He told me that he never thought I would feel the guilt, and he thought I would gladly accept the responsibility. He promised to share the responsibility of taking care of my grandmother with me, so that I no longer felt alone.
We decided to take turns taking care of Grandma every day so that each of us had time to rest and relax. At the same time, we also hired a professional ** to help us, so that we can take better care of grandma's health.
This decision changed our lives. We began to be more united and support each other. Whenever I see my grandmother's smile, I feel that the diaphragm in my heart should gradually dissipate. I know that as long as we understand and support each other, we can get through this difficult time together.