I don't know if it's because I'm middle-aged, but in recent years, I've always had New Year's Eve anxiety. It usually starts in mid-December and ends with the Spring Festival, which takes several months.
The most direct cause of anxiety is to take stock of the merits and demerits of this year, and if the objective result of this matter is always particularly dazzling, it will lose its meaning if it is not objective.
This feeling is especially strong this year. Mainly because at the end of the year, I had a sudden mycoplasma pneumonia.
From a headache and brain fever to being diagnosed with weakness, it was just a night's work. As a direct result of this illness, my business trips, meetings, and several gatherings at the end of the year were all lost.
Lying on the bed at home, looking straight at the ceiling, the first thought that came to my mind was that 2023 ended like this, compared to the big strides in previous years, this year I feel that I have always been in the same place, work, life, personal management, it seems that there is nothing to make a move, nothing can make me happy.
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At work, I don't need to say more about the situation in the financial industry this year.
Strengthen supervision, reduce salaries, reduce costs and increase efficiency inside and out. The worst thing is that the entire industry is permeated with a pessimistic mood.
Naturally, I was not spared, I traveled a lot, worked overtime, but I got less money, and I intuitively felt that the cost performance of this once high-paying industry has declined.
In terms of investment, it is barely tied. Although in line with the idea of asset diversification, all kinds of investment products have been bought, but they cannot withstand the decline of various markets that cannot be reversed throughout the year.
Fortunately, I was not harvested by a few middle-class harvesters, and a few buddies around me who bought Zhongzhi Zhongrong products regretted not wanting it, and they were selling their houses to pay off their debts, but the houses couldn't be sold at all.
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Since the **aspect, this year is also nothing to say, the transfer of **traffic, resulting in the traffic of several of my main platforms have been cut in half, the economic environment is up, and the business orders have become less, the money earned by dividends in the past few years has disappeared little by little, and I often wander back and forth between sit-ups and sit-ups, saying that it is a fake ...... not to be anxious
Family seems to be the only aspect that stands out. My daughter was born this year, and I grew up with her every day, watching her go from a cute beast that couldn't open her eyes to half a year old today.
His weight has more than doubled, and his skills have been unlocked. Although it is inevitable to be led away by more family chores, no matter how you think about it, it is a sweet burden.
A few days ago, I played a game, and suddenly I had a feeling that my life was like an NPC in various games, opening my eyes every day, starting the program, shuttling in the "two points and one line" according to the script, and contacting my family and colleagues for thousands of years every day, and the daily plot is nothing more than commuting, working, taking a baby, sleeping, and then switching lines according to the communication object, pretending to be stupid, tearing, gossiping, complaining, and sleeping ......As soon as you close your eyes, tomorrow will be another cycle.
Looking back at the end of 22 years, we finally ushered in the liberalization, and how eagerly we were looking forward to 2023.
But now, too many feelings are represented by the 2023 barrage released by Station B.
Huh?
Huh?It turns out that the 3000-point defense battle is so difficult to fight?
Huh?It turns out that the FS of the economy is so short?
Huh?It turns out that all walks of life are laughing at real estate, understanding real estate, and finally becoming real estate
Huh?It turns out that this world is a grass platform team?
It wasn't until the end of '23 that I finally understood that too high expectations were in themselves a risk of expectations.
Thank you, on the first day of 2024, listen to me, a middle-aged financial migrant worker who occasionally falls into emo, and read a lot of thoughts.
It's strange to say, a lot of unbearable things that I can't face myself, and I seem to be relieved to say it directly.
After battling anxiety for many years, I have come to realize that it doesn't go away, it only sleeps.
Most of the time, you'll be able to suppress him, but there will be moments when it will come back at you.
A few days ago, I discussed with my wife, what are the moments that can really relieve anxiety?I would like to share with you a few of our consensus:
1. When cleaning and throwing away useless things
2. When watching the aunt and uncle dance in the park
3. When you go to the bathhouse, take a bath thoroughly, rub your back and put a salt
4. Just finished a hearty game of basketball
5. When going to a lively souk and chatting with the vendors
6. When you make a meal that you want to eat for a long time
7. Take a nap in the sun
Did you find out?All the anxiety in this world is false, but the way to relieve anxiety is real.
To put it simply, it's about taking action, thinking less and doing more. Facing the challenge of uncertainty with deterministic action.
Thinking of this, it seems that I can suddenly face the New Year's Eve anxiety that has been tormenting me recently.
Let's put it this way, when you no longer have grand expectations for the new year, when you can look at everything from a generational perspective, when you set a specific and practical flag, you will find:
It doesn't seem that hard
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So on the first day of 2024, I tried to set a few flags, nothing to do with career, no struggle, no future, just what I want to do, and I look forward to what I can accomplish in 2024:
1. Learn nutrition systematically, use exercise and diet to regulate yourself and your family, and strive to be a health blogger
2. I trained badminton with a coach a few times last year, but I fished for three days, and I hope to stick to it this year and have the opportunity to play
3. After reading "Zizhi Tongjian", although it is difficult to bite, if you are interested, there will be no pressure
4. Accompany the baby outdoors on time every weekend and have dinner with the whole family
5. Plan a few trips, both at home and abroad, slow down, take a walk, enjoy yourself, enjoy life, it is much more cost-effective than investing in buying a house
6. Do a good job in the promotion and realization camp of financial people to be done this year (you can pay attention to it in the near future), not for anything else, at this special momentI have this responsibility, and it is one to save one!
Thinking about it like this, I suddenly look forward to 2024.
Well, no matter what kind of grass platform team the world will become, no matter whether the gears of fate will turn or not, stabilize ourselves and no longer move forward by inertia, we will not lose our square inches.
Flowing water does not compete for the first, but for the gushing ......
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The first day of 2024.
Don't look back, look forward
Every New Year is another opportunity
Happy New Year!