In 2003, his younger brother died, and his brother married his brother in law into the door, and aft

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-01-31

There is a saying: "The hemp rope is only cut to the thinnest point, and bad luck only looks for the poor." When most people see Han Fuping, they will probably sigh: "He is really miserable."

This rural man from a poor background did not marry a wife when he reached marriageable age. When he was almost 40 years old, he experienced family changes. The younger brother died unexpectedly, and later married his sister-in-law.

Unexpectedly, the daughter born to the two after marriage suffered from congenital disabilities.

Fate always seems to hit Han Fuping hard. What will he do in the face of difficulties?

Rural men cannot marry wives.

One day in 2002, Han Fuping, who was returning home from work at the factory, met a villager on the road. The man hurriedly said to him

Boss Han, go home and take a look, your eldest nephew fell from the house and was covered in blood. ”

Han Fuping panicked when he heard this. His brother and sister-in-law had three children. The first child was a lively boy. He didn't expect such a thing to happen now.

He hurried home, only to hear his mother crying that his brother and sister-in-law had taken the child to the hospital.

At this time, Han Fuping didn't dare to stay at home longer, and then rode his bicycle to the hospital. The road in the mountains was not easy to walk, and he almost fell out of the car in a panic several times.

Along the way, Han Fuping only had one thing in his heart, and that was to hope that his children would be safe and sound.

This child is not only the eldest son of his brother-in-law, but also the first treasure of the Han family. It is not easy for my younger brother to get married. If something happens to your child, life will be even more difficult.

Thinking of his younger brother's marriage, Han Fuping was full of emotion, and his memory returned to the wedding banquet ten years ago.

On more than one occasion before that lively wedding feast, he saw his elderly father smoking a dry cigarette and squatting outside the house, worrying about the marriage of his two children. The bitter and heavy figure on his back was deeply seared into his heart.

Some people believe that marriage is the crystallization of the sweetness of the relationship between the two parties. In reality, however, material conditions are often the basis of marriage.

For Han Fuping, who was born in a small village in Yiliang County, Zhaotong City, Yunnan Province, he understands this sentence even more. His elders told him since he was a child that he must make good money so that he can marry a wife in the future.

When Han Fuping was a child, he laughed silly when he heard the words "marry a wife", but when it came time to get married, he couldn't laugh.

Because his family's economic conditions are so poor, the matchmaker doesn't know what to say when he enters his house.

Han Fuping's parents were farmers. He never left a small mountain village in his life. He had little savings and was in poor health. In addition, he has a younger brother. The family of four is living in great poverty.

No matter how down-to-earth and capable the Han Fuping brothers are, women will be frightened when they hear such conditions.

It wasn't until 1991, when Han Fuping was 35 years old, that the family had enough money to arrange a marriage for one of the two brothers.

If the age difference between the two brothers of the Han family is too large, the parents of the Han family will not be worried. However, the two brothers are only two years apart. Han Fuping is 35 years old and his younger brother is 33 years old. They are all old enough to get married and have children. Who should be alone?Both elders didn't feel good in their hearts.

When it came time to discuss this matter, the second eldest son of the Han family was extremely nervous. He was ready to let his parents marry his younger brother first. After all, every family marries the eldest son first.

Unexpectedly, Han Fuping said seriously at this time: "Let's help my brother." ”

As an older brother, he couldn't bear to see his younger brother become a loner, so he generously gave his younger brother the opportunity to start a family.

Mr. and Mrs. Han also knew that they had wronged Han Fuping, but seeing that he was so persistent, they listened to the boss's opinion.

The problem of money was successfully solved, and the matchmaker quickly introduced a suitable marriage plan to the Han family.

The person who introduced the second child of the Han family was Luo Shihui, a little girl from the neighboring village. This woman is notoriously kind and simple, and has never been critical of the Han family's financial difficulties. She was a virtuous wife who knew how to live a stable life.

At the wedding banquet, Han Fuping drank the wedding wine sent by his sister-in-law and looked at his brother who was smiling in a suit. He felt incredibly happy.

The people in the village sent blessings one after another, saying that the Han family "is happy to have a noble son and is blessed". Han Er has already married a daughter-in-law, and the life of the Han family will gradually improve in the future.

When Han Fuping heard this, he was also full of expectations. Even though he wasn't married, his smile was still bright.

As everyone knows, life is about to improve, but the Han family has encountered unexpected changes.

The choice after the unexpected comes.

When Han Fuping rushed to the hospital, he saw his sister-in-law crying in his brother's arms, and the doctor next to him also looked regretful.

The child climbed onto the rafters to play and accidentally slipped and fell. His life was saved, but his intellect remained forever at the age of four.

My sister-in-law, Luo Shihui, washes her face with tears every day because of her children. In order to treat the child, the younger brother went to work in the Shanxi coal mine.

The younger brother left home, leaving his parents, sister-in-law and three children at home. The eldest nephew has been in poor health since he was discharged from the hospital.

The family is suitable for all ages, and Han Fuping, who has always made a lot of contributions to the family, has become the pillar of the family, taking care of all the affairs of the family. He also often told his younger brother who went out to work to pay attention to safety.

Thanks to the efforts of the two Han Fuping brothers, this difficult life gradually improved.

The family will receive money from his brother every month, which makes Luo Shihui feel that there is still hope in life, and the child's illness can be improved.

However, what she didn't expect was that less than half a year after her husband joined the work, she received a death notice from the mine.

It clearly states that there was a safety accident in the mine and that her husband, Han Fuan, was buried in the mine. He was only 35 years old when he died.

In just five months, there have been two changes in the family, and Luo Shihui feels that the sky has fallen.

The three children didn't know what was going on, they just looked at their mother and cried loudly.

The unexpected death of his younger brother made Han Fuping feel extremely sad. He felt that a piece of his flesh had been cut off, and he didn't dare to look at his parents' old faces anymore.

Han Fuan's death put the Han family in an extremely difficult situation, and Han Fuping could only try his best to take care of his family at this time.

Suddenly, Han Fuan became busy. In order to support his family, he worked several part-time jobs, delivering gas and water to other people's homes, and tried his best to earn hard-earned money. Sometimes he doesn't even get a decent meal for a day.

In addition, he has to spend money to buy medicine for his parents, take his eldest nephew for follow-up consultations, and do heavy work at home.

Luo Shihui has great respect and gratitude for his brother who helped him in difficult times, but as time went on, he had other ideas.

After her husband's death, many people advised her to take another step forward. Otherwise, how difficult is it for a woman to raise three young children?

It's not that Luo Shihui hasn't thought about remarrying, but he hasn't been able to make up his mind.

If it weren't for anything else, she was worried that the person she remarried would not treat her three children well, and even more worried that she had married the wrong person.

At this time, she had an idea, that is, to marry her husband's eldest brother Han Fuping.

First of all, Han Fuping is the child's uncle, and she has seen all the efforts he has made for the child. Secondly, she understands Han Fuping's down-to-earth and simple person, and believes that this man is someone she can rely on for the rest of her life.

After having such an idea, Luo Shihui asked his family to find Han Fuping and asked him what he meant.

Unexpectedly, after Han Fuping learned of this, he fell into silence for a long time.

His first reaction was that if he promised his sister-in-law, such a choice would be a bit embarrassing for his younger brother.

Han Fuping naturally knew that Luo's would be a good woman, and it was not easy to raise children alone.

However, he himself is a bachelor, while his sister-in-law is a widow without a husband. On weekdays, people in the village have already begun to discuss the normal interaction between the two. He was afraid that being with his sister-in-law would make this good woman visible to outsiders. Awkward.

Luo Shihui knew that Han Fuping was for her own face, but she didn't want to miss someone who was willing to treat her sincerely because of rumors from the outside world, so she immediately found Han Fuping and generously expressed her feelings.

Han Fuping was moved by Luo Shihui's bravery and sincerity, and decided not to be disturbed by others and live a difficult life with her.

So in 2005, two miserable people, Han Fuping and Luo Shihui, officially got married with a certificate.

The misery of life blooms.

After Han Fuping married Luo Shihui, he put all his thoughts on Luo Shihui and his younger brother's children.

Because the follow-up of his eldest nephew and the education of several children need money, Han Fuping has spent all his savings over the years and worked as much as he could. He often went out early and returned late, and his clothes were soaked with sweat. Several times.

Luo Shihui saw Han Fuping's dedication and hard work in his eyes, and felt very distressed. He has repeatedly said that he can go out to earn a living and does not want him to work outside alone.

But Han Fuping insisted that his wife only needed to take care of the housework, so that she could rest assured that the responsibility of supporting the family and making money would be handed over to him.

Looking at the man in front of him who was silently trying to support himself, Luo Shihui was extremely moved.

Two years after getting married, Han Fuping and Luo Shihui also ushered in the fruits of love.

By this time, life at home had improved, and the couple was looking forward to the birth of a new baby.

However, the god of fate appeared without warning at this time, giving the two of them another blow. Their daughter was born without incident, but she suffered from "congenital clubfoot". To put it bluntly, it is a physical illness. Have a disability.

The other children were able to run and jump healthily, but Han Fuping's daughter, Han Youxiang, had difficulty even walking normally.

Whenever his daughter cried unconsciously, Han Fuping was very worried. He would rather suffer this pain himself than let his daughter suffer this pain.

Knowing that the condition needed to be corrected as soon as possible, Han Fuping began to work harder.

Han Fuping has no culture, no skills, but he has a lot of energy. In order to save his daughter's medical bills, whether it is digging sewers, delivering goods or moving bricks, he is willing to do it. He works at least 14 hours a day.

Others will never understand why Han Fuping is in his forties and still busy every day.

Only Han Fuping knows what kind of responsibility he shoulders. For this, no matter how difficult it was, he did not complain, did not cry tired.

Although Han Youxiang has endured unbearable pain since birth, she feels more guilty about her father than she feels about herself.

Whenever she saw the beads of sweat on her father's forehead, she couldn't help but persuade him to rest more. She always dragged her sick leg to pour water for him, which made Han Fuping feel distressed and comforted.

Because the eldest nephew's IQ stopped at the age of four, his mental illness gradually became serious for more than ten years, and even suffered from more difficult mental illness.

At this point, he needs a more specialized hospital to ** him, but it means a huge expense.

Han Youxiang knew that her parents had saved money to correct her feet. But when she saw her brother suffering from a splitting headache and losing his mind, she felt very uncomfortable and begged her father to use the money to treat his brother.

Facing his sensible daughter, although Han Fuping felt that life was very hard, he still believed that he was the happiest person.

Han Fuping has been working continuously for more than ten years, and the god of fate was moved by him and brought good luck to his family.

Although Han Youxiang has some disabilities in her feet, she has a strong will that ordinary people can't match. From an early age, she learned to live with healthy arms and hands. Her arms are much more powerful than those of adults.

By chance, a professional disabled coach met 12-year-old Han Youxiang and selected her to join the Shaanxi Provincial Disabled Canoeing Team.

Han Youxiang cherishes the opportunity to join the team and trains in the team every day. No matter how much she endured and how much pain she endured, she never gave up. Instead, she held the oar tightly and paddled through the water.

A year later, at the National Games for the Disabled, Han Youxiang won the third place in the 500m and the second place in the 200m.

After getting the medal, the first thing Han Youxiang did was to give the medal to her father.

In her eyes, her father was the greatest person. He sacrificed everything for the sake of his family, and it was the fundamental reason why she was able to win a medal. Without her father's support and dedication, she would never have had the courage to join the team and participate in the competition.

Han Fuping immediately shed tears when he saw his daughter's medal and regarded his daughter as his pride.

With such a sensible and considerate daughter, Han Fuping feels that his life is not bitter at all, but full of sweetness.

In 2021 and 2022, Han Fuping saved enough for surgery and performed two corrective surgeries for his daughter.

Han Youxiang's originally deformed and disabled feet are also developing in a healthy direction. Doctors also concluded that there was a good chance that her feet would be able to walk normally in the future. This made everyone in the Han family look forward to their future lives.

Han Fuping considers himself an extremely ordinary person. However, it is such a seemingly ordinary person, but with his own persistence, he turned the difficult days into beautiful flowers.

Han Fuping took care of his younger brother when he was a child, and took care of his family after his brother's death. He carries the burden of life for the whole family. He supported his parents, respected his wife, loved his younger brother and children, and dedicated all his abilities to his family.

He was a man of integrity and had a glorious spirit that we admired!

I sincerely hope that with the efforts of the Han family, the Han family can get better and better, and the taste of life will become sweeter and sweeter!

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