— Preface —
Home is always the deepest softness of the heart for everyone, no matter how tired you are outside, the haze of returning home dissipates in a moment, and home is also the best place to be full of **.
There is always someone in a family who can lead the growth, as the saying goes: a noble family must have signs. Let's take a look at what the so-called signs are
— Family harmony and education —
In the depths of the years, people no longer like prosperity and excitement when they reach a certain age, and pursue more family harmony and ordinary life.
For us, the ultimate pursuit is nothing more than wanting to live a better life and a better life for our families.
From ancient times to the present, the reason why people are busy is more to pursue physiological satisfaction, three meals a day, food and clothing, and the harmony of a family can be shown at the dinner table to a certain extent, the ancients said: The fireworks in the world are the most soothing to the hearts of mortals.
At the dinner table, a family, eat well and enjoy a moment of peace of mind, just imagine that even in the cold wax moon, there are still people waiting for your return, the most ordinary happiness is nothing more than this.
Home is the child's first school, parents are also the best teacher of the child's enlightenment, for a family family education is particularly important, a child is nurtured and the relationship between the parents is inseparable.
Some people have said that whether a person can become a talent is related to his own talent, in fact, it depends on his own efforts and education, and Zeng Guofan, a great writer in the late Qing Dynasty, believes that everyone is familiar with it.
His life can be said to be full of legends, he is not very smart, but he has a resilience that ordinary people do not have, he experienced six failures in the imperial examination, and was also a household name at the time, and his father did not succeed in the list until the seventeenth time when he was admitted to Xiucai.
But later, Zeng Guofan not only became a scholar himself, but his children became talented under his educationWhen educating his children, he teaches by example before words.
Once when Zeng Guofan and his son were having dinner, his son picked out a shelled grain, and Zeng Guofan chose to peel the grain and eat it.
A good family culture can supervise the growth of the next generation, and it can also make a family more prosperous, and there are also many parents who do not educate their children, and the children are almost spoiled during their growth, and they think that their children will be sensible as long as they grow up.
However, as everyone knows, since ancient times, loving mothers have many defeated children, if the child does not establish the correct three views when he is young, even after growing up, he will still adhere to the Xi of childhood, which is difficult to correct.
The pattern of the father determines the height of the child's growth, this statement is still relatively agreed in the eyes of everyone, and teaching by word and deed is also very important for children.
The child's growth environment determines the child's future character, if a child has a harmonious family relationship at an early age, coupled with a good education, the child will establish the correct three views, and the character will affect the child's future to a certain extent.
If you live in a bad environment when you are a child, and you don't face the abuse of your father and your mother every day, there is a high chance that the child will be introverted and even cautious when surviving.
A family is now a "noble son", not only needs the excellent education of parents, as well as the warmth and harmony in the family, but also needs to maintain each other, and some good Xi habits are also ......the top priority
— Self-motivated, self-aware —
Making mistakes is something we all experience, knowing that mistakes can improve a lot, making mistakes is not terrible, understanding the problem and correcting it is the key.
Even a saint inevitably guarantees that he will not make mistakes, if he understands the problem, but still allows the problem to develop, then he will never be able to grow, and when it accumulates to a certain extent, it will produce a huge **.
For a family, the ability to correct mistakes is like the source of water, if we lose this ability and innovation, then we are left with endless consumption.
If we can understand the problem in the family and correct it, then the atmosphere of the whole family will develop in a good direction, and in the long run, will the family situation be able to improve to a higher level?
For a family to live a better life, it must be inseparable from money, the importance of earning money and financial management is highlighted, if everyone in the family can realize the importance of money, and these money is not easy to come by.
Every money is spent in the most appropriate place, and to a certain extent, it can also make a family better, and it is necessary to establish a correct view of money for children.
Kind-hearted families will also have a good harvestBuddhism believes in the doctrine of cause and effect, and that accumulating virtue and doing good deeds will eventually result in good rewardsDuring the Song Dynasty, there was a ** named Ouyang Guan, who was very respected by everyone when he was an official.
When faced with some cases, he will do his best to avoid mistakes, and it is precisely because of his attitude that there are few misjudgments under his rule.
A Taoist priest said to Ouyang Guan that he could not determine Ouyang Guan's future achievements, but told Ouyang Guan that he would definitely have an excellent descendant, that is, the later great writer Ouyang Xiu.
Of course, Ouyang Xiu's success is inseparable from the education of his parentsIt is also because of these good behaviors that children become talents, and good education and correct guidance are the key to the emergence of "noble sons"!
Everyone in the family also needs to be self-motivated, understand what they want, keep learning Xi master new abilities, and live a better life.
You can meet more like-minded people on the way to Xi, and it is very important for a successful person to grow up in both the environment and the mentors and friends in the process of growth.
A good growth environment in the family determines the height of a person's growth, the correct attitude towards learning Xi determines the speed of a person's growth, and the relationship after entering the society determines the speed of a person's growth.
For a family, want to nurture one"Noble son".Whether it is the right guidance or a good environment for growth, it is an essential key factor.
— Epilogue —
Although every family is different, the desire to go further is the same, and we can better adapt to the changes in society by constantly learning Xi improving ourselves in life.
Of course, if a family wants to develop better, these points alone are far from enough, it requires the wisdom of running the family and the joint efforts of every member of the family.
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