Xiangxiu is not a beloved character, and when I first ** "Mansion Gate", Xiangxiu chose to skip this part. During that time, she had been having a dream that made me feel good about this woman. When Xiangxiu looks back again, she finds that she can no longer bypass her preferences, which makes her realize the unfathomable heart of this lady.
There is no need to go into too much detail about the big things she did. It's just a few disputes between her and Yang Jiuhong, whether it is moving forward or backward, every sentence and every sentence shows her wisdom in life, which is worthy of our in-depth reflection.
There is a natural conflict between Xiangxiu and Yang Jiuhong, and their relationship seems to be difficult to reconcile.
Although Yang Jiuhong is Bai Jingqi's aunt's wife, because she is Sister Yao, Bai Jingqi's mother and the second grandmother of the Bai family did not recognize her identity.
Who the hell is Xiangxiu?She was specially designated by the second grandmother as the maid responsible for holding the dog. She is an existence that depends on the second grandmother, and she is a person that the second grandmother does not like. If she is in a hurry to establish a good relationship with her second grandmother, won't she create trouble for herself?
Many people may question that even Bai Jingqi's main room, Huang Chun, is quite polite to Yang Jiuhong, what qualifications does she have as a maid?
Huang Chun is an eldest woman, and her position determines her position. Her concern for the concubine shows her magnanimity, ensuring the tranquility of the home. The second grandmother will only praise her, but if Xiangxiu has a good relationship with Yang Jiuhong, what is her position?
In addition, although Xiangxiu is a servant of the Bai family, she only specializes in taking care of dogs, which seems to be relaxed on the surface, but in fact it is full of crises. The second grandmother will leave sooner or later, and the death of the second grandmother made her feel very embarrassed in the Bai family!
Therefore, her only choice is to become Bai Jingqi's aunt. She is an assertive person who understands the rules of life, and is very strict with herself and her children. Obviously, because of her superb strategies and means, her vision is naturally different, therefore, she chooses not to be an aunt's wife, but to become a wife!
She aspires to climb to a high position, and Yang Jiuhong has become an obstacle that she can't avoid, and the contradiction between the two is natural and difficult to reconcile!
There were several arguments between Yang Jiuhong and Xiangxiu, but they failed to gain an advantage, and sometimes although they appeared to win on the surface, they actually lost.
These battles all showed Xiangxiu's ingenuity. Xiangxiu angrily criticized Yang Jiuhong as a manifestation of wisdom, breaking with Bai Jingqi and leaving the Bai family is also a manifestation of wisdom, and the only submission is the ultimate embodiment of wisdom.
Several major disputes between Xiangxiu and Yang Jiuhong were first during Yang Jiuhong's oppression of Huaihua.
Yang Jiuhong transferred her resentment towards her second grandmother to Huaihua, and often found trouble with Huaihua.
Jiuhong looked at Huaihua and said, "Did you give the purple tribute rice that Qian'er Cuigu brought back from Xi'an to the kitchen?"I knew she sent it. Huaihua said, "It's already for you." Jiuhong said with a heavy face: "Why do you want to boil this bowl of white rice porridge?"What do you mean?Huaihua said: "I don't know. You go and ask him, and I'll tell you!Jiuhong: "Surely you won't ask?"."You know what?Huaihua said: "This is what I personally handed over to Feng Liu'er!.""What do you think?”
Huaihua is also Yang Jiuhong's aunt's wife, why does Yang Jiuhong treat Huaihua like this?What age is she a woman?Does she take on the role of a wife?Is she a woman?Is this how Huang Chun treats her?
Therefore, Xiangxiu really couldn't bear it, and when Huaihua walked into the kitchen, Xiangxiu told her, "Don't go!."I want to talk to the Seventh Master. After listening to her, the seventh master didn't say much, but she had a lot of things to deal with!You see my face is black!”
There's a saying that makes perfect sense: "Don't always pick something that's too soft!".”
Xiangxiu resolved the conflict between Huaihua and Yang Jiuhong, and had a conflict with Yang Jiuhong. Yang Jiuhong angrily scolded Xiangxiu and said, "Is the old lady by your side?"You're just a little girl. But Xiangxiu responded: "What's wrong with the little girl, even the little cat and dog are wearing filial piety clothes!."”
Yang Jiuhong was deeply choked by a sentence that directly touched her sensitive points, making her never match Xiangxiu.
Yang Jiuhong bullied Huaihua for the first time and tried to put pressure on Huaihua, but this plan was finally successfully stopped by Xiangxiu!
What was Xiangxiu's real intention in taking such action?She is not a kind person, and although she helps Sophora Hua, she also has her own goals.
The eye contact between her and Bai Jingqi had been going on for quite some time. Today's Yang Jiuhong is no longer the simple and kind she used to be, she has been beaten so insidious, vicious, arrogant and domineering.
She longs for the top, but her relationship with Yang Jiuhong seems destined to be hostile. Sophora's delicate and easy-to-control personality makes her a natural partner. At this critical moment, her main task is to enlist the support of Huaihua and prepare for the confrontation with Yang Jiuhong.
Xiangxiu will one day have a conflict with Yang Jiuhong, and she suggests reaching out when Yang Jiuhong is bullying Huaihua and pulling Huaihua to her side. In addition, the contradiction between her and Yang Jiuhong can also make Huaihua stand at the forefront and achieve the effect of killing two birds with one stone!
It is no exaggeration to say that her wooing Huaihua is undoubtedly a huge fortune, and only a small investment can be rewarded handsomely, although on the surface she looks like a good person, but in fact it is well thought out!
Due to the unfortunate death of Huaihua, Yang Jiuhong lost the opportunity to make a name for herself, while Xiangxiu unexpectedly achieved a landslide victory.
Xiangxiu clashed with Yang Jiuhong again, and that was when Yang Jiuhong mistakenly accused Huaihua of losing her hairpin.
It must be admitted that the inhabitants inside the gates of the mansion are not simple people, and their words are often full of twists and turns.
Original description: Huaihua was about to leave, but was stopped by Jiuhong and shouted: "Huaihua!".Did I give it?My five hairpins are in **?You gave it!Huaihua said, "I really don't know!"Where did all five of my braids go?Jiuhong said: "The task on the train was not given to you?."
Huaihua said, "I've put it in your box." I don't remember your name!Jiuhong: "Why did you suddenly disappear?".You don't want to hear anything!Huaihua said: "I really don't know!."I haven't explained it yet!As soon as the words fell, he turned around and was about to leave, but Jiuhong immediately stopped him and said, "Wait!."You're a person who doesn't know what it means to "understand."
When the little girl says the phrase "I don't know", the matter is over!"She didn't hear me when I said itJiuhong stared at the acacia flower tightly. "Jiuhong, you're not me!Huaihua said, "I'm not a girl!."I call you girl!Jiuhong asked, "Who are you sacred?"Don't you know that I took you for a girl?Once you climb up your nose and face, you forget who you are!You don't know you're a girl?
As a little girl, you need to obey her duties!Xiangxiu stood outside the door, handed the kettle to the old mother, and quickly sensed the hidden meaning, and stared coldly. It's Jiuhongniang, Jiuhong is a woman!Huaihua: "I'm telling you, I'm not a girl!".You are the Emperor!
Jiuhong said contemptuously: "Since you have put on a dragon robe, then you are not a prince either!.""You don't know, there is a big problem with this dragon robe - it makes people want to vomit when they see it. Even if you are incinerated to ashes, you are still just a little girl!”
Yang Jiuhong mistakenly accused Huaihua of losing her hairpin this time, but in fact, Huaihua didn't do this, she just held the rabbit casually.
Although she openly scolded Huaihua, she kept scolding the girl!This hand pointed at Sang and scolded Huai, and had a lot of fun.
Sophora was confused, so she stupidly argued there, "I'm not that girl!".”
Yang Jiuhong is actually a Jiuhong hairpin, not for the acacia flower, but for the Xiangxiu!
Yang Jiuhong made a huge effort to go to Kanto, but she didn't expect Bai Jingqi to be impressed by her for her outstanding contributions, and took this opportunity to deal with Huaihua.
Unexpectedly, with the praying mantis catching cicadas and the yellow finch behind, Xiangxiu quietly picked peaches at home and established a deep relationship with Bai Jingqi, how could she be willing.
Therefore, she ostensibly reprimands Huaihua, but in fact she is satirizing Xiangxiu, as a maid, she seduces her master and does not follow the rules.
Huaihua innocently became a tool man without realizing it, and the witty Xiangxiu knew all this in her heart, and she retorted on the spot: "That's right - you're right - is it to attract me?!.""Then why didn't you tell me?!Xiangxiu angrily declared, "If you can't attract me, you'll go into the kiln ?!!."
Bai Jingqi said angrily because he heard that sentence: "If someone says something like this again, then drive the Bai family out." ”
Xiangxiu really can't understand?Bai Jingqi just gave a warning, which means that this time is over and should not be repeated in the future.
However, what exactly did Xiangxiu do?With her ingenuity, there are a hundred ways to blur it, but she responds without hesitation: "I don't need your reprimand, I'll leave on my own!."He only left such a sentence, and then left the Bai family!
At first, I thought she was too arrogant and reckless, but after thinking about it carefully, I realized the horror of leaving the Bai family!
What was the reason for her leaving the Bai family?She has an in-depth understanding of Bai Jingqi's character.
Bai Jingqi is the kind of person who is not affected by social prejudice and only cares about his inner preferences.
She aspires to be a wife, and this is undoubtedly an excellent exploratory opportunity.
What are you tempting?**Is her position in Bai Jingqi's mind enough for him to challenge the traditional concept of society!
If she doesn't do this, Bai Jingqi will sincerely put forward the idea of wanting to become a wife, but if Bai Jingqi doesn't agree, she won't become the laughing stock of others
Leaving the Bai family this time provided her with a great opportunity. When Bai Jingqi gracefully came to her home to enjoy Wowotou, she realized that she had made the right bet.
This time, Bai Jingqi really gave Yang Jiuhong a lot of respect, Yang Jiuhong might cry in the bathroom and faint, this time she suffered another fiasco.
For Xiangxiu, understanding her status in Bai Jingqi's mind is the most important thing. After finding the right moment, she came up with the desire to become a wife and succeeded in achieving it!
This time, due to Yang Jiuhong's provocative behavior, Xiangxiu broke down the relationship with Yang Jiuhong, broke with Bai Jingqi and left the Bai family. Although on the surface it seems that Yang Jiuhong has won, in fact she has lost completely. In the end, Xiangxiu got her support, otherwise, although it was possible for Xiangxiu's things to come true, things were not so simple.
It can be seen from this that how much benefit Xiangxiu actually gained from leaving the Bai family this time?When did she think about it when she would be able to put it down?I'm really not sure if she had planned ahead.
Many people are not interested in Xiangxiu, mainly because Xiangxiu's personality is too flamboyant and thoughtful. I don't really hate Xiangxiu type women. Initially, I did have some disgust with Xiangxiu. But if we don't consider her humanity, judging by her intelligence alone, Xiangxiu is a very intelligent and feared person. She is able to skillfully use all resources, even things that are not good for her, as long as her heart changes, she can use them.
There were frequent conflicts between Xiangxiu and Yang Jiuhong, and neither side was willing to back down. Yang Jiuhong exerted tremendous pressure on Aunt Huaihua's identity, and Xiangxiu, as a maid, has frustrated Yang Jiuhong many times, which is really admirable!
About her, what she relies on is Bai Jingqi's love for her, and why does Bai Jingqi have a good impression of her?Is it because she is gentle?And not because of her intelligence?Does she have the scent of locust flowers?Isn't her locust flower beautiful?
Xiangxiu has always been an arrogant person, but this is the only time she has lowered her head, fully demonstrating her wisdom in life.
The contradictions between Xiangxiu and Yang Jiuhong are endless, she has never suffered any losses, and under normal circumstances, even if she breaks with Bai Jingqi, she will not give in to Yang Jiuhong.
However, she once gave in, and it was this submission that showed her ingenuity.
Xiangxiu was still talking softly in Jing Qi's ear, Jing Yi couldn't help but nodded, Jiuhong couldn't help frowning, and shouted, "Xiangxiu!."Why are you so stupid?Xiangxiu turned her head to look at Jiuhong and said, "Huh?."Why are you so stupid!Jiuhong: "Please pour me some wine!."You've drunk too much wine and say you don't know. Xiangxiu walked up to Jiuhong with some reluctance and poured wine for her.
This time, Yang Jiuhong asked her to pour wine for herself, and she didn't make any rebuttals, but walked over obediently.
Although according to common sense, she is a maid, and it is normal to pour wine for her aunt's wife, she will never consider herself a maid. If it was under normal circumstances, she might not have obeyed Bai Jingqi's orders.
Why did you behave so obediently this time?
This time, there were so-called "outsiders", including Bai Jingqi, Yang Jiuhong and Huaihua, all of whom did not belong to this small family.
Take a closer look at the participants this time?
Youqiong, Yueling, Yuzhu, Michiko, Tian Yulan, Zhanyuan and other children sat at the table, and those on the table were Jing Qi, Jiuhong, Huaihua, Tian Mu, Huang Li, Tu Erye, Jing Yi and Jingye. Xiangxiu stood quietly behind Jing Qi.
At this banquet, there were many so-called "outsiders", including some influential figures. In a small group, she can behave very willfully, because everyone knows about the matter between Xiangxiu and Yang Jiuhong. Xiangxiu didn't treat her as a maid, nor did she look at Yang Jiuhong in her eyes, which made Yang Jiuhong feel very helpless, and everyone felt very strange.
However, their nature changed when others were present, and the social structure of that era was orderly, with respect and contempt varied.
Xiangxiu's identity determines what she should do. No matter how powerful or powerful she is, she is regarded as a maid. In the eyes of the outside world, she should follow Yang Jiuhong's instructions. If she doesn't comply, then she may break the rules and be punished by the family.
Under everyone's gaze, Bai Jingqi couldn't save her!
At this moment, it coincided with Yang Jiuhong's great achievements, returning with the momentum of victory, showing the most powerful momentum. At the banquet at home, Yang Jiuhong became the center of attention, and although everyone in the room was praising her, she had to avoid her edge.
Therefore, she didn't say anything, but poured the wine honestly, as for her unwillingness, only Yang Jiuhong and herself knew.
In the past, she was the kind of person who "would rather die than give in", but at this moment when she needs to bow her head, she is known as "a person who knows the times as a handsome".
After all, her plans are very grandiose. It doesn't matter if she just wants to be an aunt's wife, but her real desire is to be a wife. This is challenging in itself. If everyone is given the impression of "not understanding the overall situation" at this moment, then when she decides to become a wife, Bai Jingqi may not have the courage to speak in front of everyone.
You have to understand that Bai Jingqi is a face-conscious person. He helped Xiangxiu become his wife, and although he seemed willful, he knew in his heart that with Xiangxiu's talent, she would eventually win everyone's respect. Eventually, people will realize that his judgment was accurate and not nonsense. When everyone feels blind, it makes him feel very dignified and satisfied!
However, if she loses her dignity at this moment, Bai Jingqi will not be able to fight for her chance to take the position:
Bai Jingyi and Tu Erye are both people he respects very much. He felt that he was not qualified to ask them to marry a woman who did not understand the big picture. Huang Li is his eldest brother, and he believes that Xu Xian should be able to maintain the stability of the scene without lowering Huang Chun's status. Although he has always looked down on his son, he can't let his son look down on him, because he thinks that Bai Qiye's life is to maintain his face!
Therefore, although on the surface it seems that it is simply a glass of wine, the actual situation is very complicated, if it is not so, if Xiangxiu wants to give in to Yang Jiuhong, there is no chance at all!
How strong is Xiangxiu's strength?
Not only did she skillfully play with the cunning Wang Xiguang and easily rescued Bai Jingqi, but she also firmly restrained Yang Jiuhong, an experienced aunt, as a maid. These seemingly ordinary behaviors and words all show her wisdom in life.
She has flexible yielding and stretching abilities, and at the moment when she needs to lower her head, Bai Jingqi doesn't even need to throw a look.
Xiangxiu is undoubtedly the loyal maid of the second grandmother, however, she hugs the dog tightly and devotes herself wholeheartedly to the life of the second grandmother, and the second grandmother's intelligence makes her learn a lot.
It is precisely because of the unique charm of the second grandmother that Bai Jingqi has a deep respect for the second grandmother, and has changed from appreciating Xiangxiu to deeply loving it.
Putting aside Xiangxiu's personal preferences and the dark side of her, she is undoubtedly an individual worthy of our deep thinking and Xi. Her life is full of contradictions and struggles, and there are many ups and downs and setbacks in her life, but she faces them in her own unique way. Her wisdom in life is so profound that it is immeasurable!
The gap between Yang Jiuhong and Xiang Xiudou is really too big, if it weren't for this, their social status would have improved at the beginning, otherwise they would not be qualified to compete with Xiang Xiudou at all!