The more a man loves you, the more he despises these two things on you, which is very accurate

Writer Chen Xue said in the book "Love Lesson":

"Love is not consensual, and after a romantic union, everything will fall into place. More precisely, love does not really begin even after the romance has subsided, when the test appears. ”

A man who loves you deeply and gives you love is often not for the purpose of possession, but wants you to be happy.

Such a man not only loves you deeply, but also knows how to respect your independence and freedom, and the more he loves you, the more he looks down on these two things in you.

I don't look down on you emotionally in return

I once saw a sentence on the Internet:

The feeling of falling in love with one is to give willingly, not to ask for it, not to reciprocate, and to do it knowing that it cannot be done.

And a man who truly loves a woman will respect her decision and will not ask her to make any sacrifices and reciprocate.

is like Cai Xiaoguang in "The World", he fell in love with Zhou Rong at first sight when he was young, and since then Zhou Rong has become his lifelong lover.

Even if Zhou Rong when he was young already had a crush, and he used Cai Xiaoguang as a shield to elope with his crush, he was happy to do it.

In the years when Zhou Rong left the Zhou family and married Feng Huacheng and went to Guizhou, Cai Xiaoguang was still able to love the house and Wu, and took care of the Zhou family as his own.

After learning of Zhou Rong's divorce, Cai Xiaoguang officially confessed to Zhou Rong, and finally hugged the beauty many years later.

After marriage, everything is answered to her needs, and all her personality and temper are inclusive.

Many people say that Zhou Rong is not worth it at all, but Cai Xiaoguang has been willing to eat it from beginning to end, and in the years he has paid for Zhou Rong, he has never asked for anything in return, and he has no regrets.

Only a man who truly loves you will give you wholeheartedly without asking for anything in return, and if a woman meets this kind of man, it is a blessing for a lifetime.

I don't like you to give up on yourself in life

I like a quote very much:

Loving you is not about wanting you to be what I like, but because you are who you are.

In "Wife's Romantic Trip", Qin Hailu, who has always felt cold and capable, has become a lazy woman who can't take care of herself in front of her husband Wang Xinjun.

Wang Xinjun not only made breakfast and brought it to the bed, but also woke up Qin Hailu softly. When Qin Hailu wanted to lie in bed, Wang Xinjun didn't blame, but just kissed her on the cheek dotingly.

Qin Hailu once asked Wang Xinjun: Others can do so many things when looking for a daughter-in-law, but you look like a fool if you find a daughter-in-law. Husband, do you feel wronged?Do you think I need to change it?

Wang Xinjun comforted her: This shows that I am capable. You don't have to change, because if you change, you don't depend on me, and if you don't rely on me, I don't have a sense of accomplishment.

Qin Hailu was also sweet at this time: Then can you let me rely on it for the rest of my life?Wang Xinjun told her: Let you rely on it for the rest of your life.

The more a man loves you and respects you, the less he wants you to change himself for him.

On the contrary, he will give you appreciation and support because he believes that your true self is the most beautiful.

He will appreciate your uniqueness more, respect your individuality, and be willing to grow with you rather than having you go for what he expects.

Conclusion:

Lu Yao said in "Ordinary World".

True love is not self-interested, but should be altruistic.

True love is not about taking, but about giving, giving, tolerance and respect, and knowing how to cherish and accept each other's uniqueness.

I hope every woman can find the man who truly understands and cherishes you.