The circle of friends is the outlet of parents' emotions, and the recent pictures posted by the circle of friends are all about the child's final school Xi results. It was close to 12 o'clock last night, and a very calm friend usually posted in the circle of friends, "I haven't worked so hard to go to school myself, and I don't know how to teach my children anymore", and then there was a series of crying expressions. 
Several realities of the living environment reduce the opportunities for children to hone their exercises
1. The overall living environment is simple and convenient. Whether in rural or urban areas, the work that children used to do, were able to do, and could do a lot is now declining and disappearing. For example, in the countryside, collecting firewood, chopping wood, burning firewood, fetching water, pouring ashes, helping with cooking, and other small tasks in life, etc.;For example, chopping wood in the city, making stoves, and so on.
2. The games that can be played are indoor and electronic. For example, in the past, outdoor rope skipping, pocket playing, shuttlecock kicking, group chess, etc., many outdoor group activities were replaced by indoor video games.
Family environment
1. Most of them are only children, and a child has no run-in between siblings, and the boss is responsible and guided"Each has its own job"There has been a decrease in independent activity.
2. The doting indulgence of the grandparents and fathers, many clothes come to reach out for food to open their mouths, and even feed them to their mouths and do not eat, picking and choosing.
Fourth, find fault and complain, and even accuse and abuse.
3. Some marriages are in Xi conflict, lose vitality, and passively cater to this state, and the husband and wife often compete to please the child, establish a camp and alliance with the child, and deal with the other party, so that the child becomes"Power"The center often gives orders and acts recklessly.
Parents let go and firmly believe in their children's abilities
Many parents find it difficult to trust their children's abilities 100 percent, so many adults say. "You're still very young, this can't do this, you can do it when you grow up. "When the child pours water and knocks over the cup. Parents go around "solving" for their children, and the children themselves do not believe in their own abilities, and they will not deal with things when they encounter them.
Teach your child the basics of self-management
Because children can't do it, parents should teach their children the basic ways to manage their lives on their own. Especially closely related to life, such as **clothes, shoes and socks, the correct way to wash your hands, wash your face, wipe your nose, and wipe your buttocks. When it comes to how to dress, teach children easy ways so that they will work hard to learn Xi and eventually master it.
If the child is doing well, parents should encourage and reward them in time, but the form can be varied, the purpose is to let the child know that you see and acknowledge his actions and efforts, and if the child does not do well, parents cannot compare the child's behavior with other children, or even scold him. In short, in order not to deprive children of the opportunity to develop self-care skills, it is necessary to give appropriate pride.
Do your own thing
Personally, I think that after the child is one year old, he should start to try to eat by himself with a small spoon, after the age of two, you can teach the child to dress and wear socks, after the age Xi of three, you should let the child go to the toilet independently, and start to let the child learn to wash socks and wash small hands by himself, and start to organize his toys and clothes at the age of four or so, so that the child knows that he has to do his own things, which is very conducive to cultivating the child's independence.
Exercise your child with educational toys
Educational toys are a very good way to train, not only canExercise children's concentration, observation, hand-eye coordination, help children with brain training, and improve children's IQ and logical thinking ability!
Let's play with the baby, we can also establish a good parent-child relationship, let the child reduce the time to watch TV and play with electronic products, and let the child play more and more, such as the one recommended to you todayMagnetic bar building blocks
Magnetic rods, also known as magnetic rods. Cheap and easy to use, flexible and changeable, it can be said to be a magnetic building block, withExtremely high degree of freedomYou can let your baby's imagination play to create a variety of combinations.
The magnetic rod has a very high appearance and bright and soft colors, which can not only let children know the colors, but also improve the children's pairsInterest and sensitivity to colorto make the game more interesting.
Most magnetic blocks are made by drilling holes in wood (putting magnets in them) and then painting them. It not only affects the appearance texture and feel, but also makes it easy to peel off the paint.
The magnetic rod itself is made of ABS plastic, embedded with magnets and covered with TPE materialSafe and environmentally friendlyThe raw materials can be used by children with confidence. A quick search, rave reviews.
It's in a child's nature to playPlaying games is not just a matter for children alone, parents need to be especiallyParents are involved together
Efficient companionship is to let children feel loved at all times through words, expressions, movements, and eyes!And the love between parents and children is to put down their mobile phones, eat many, many meals together, talk a lot of "nonsense", and do a lot of games and ...... togetherParents play with their children, that's itThe childhood that children need most
The magnetic bar is oneAdults and children love to playToys can not only help children enlighten wisdom, but also help parents in parent-child playGet back to innocence and fun!
Parents can tell their children more about it, such as letting them feel it by building blocks"Opposites attract, opposites repel".The scientific principles of magnetism.
Different toys have a completely different impact on children, and after testing, it was found that after playing with the magnetic rod for a period of time, the childMental development, creativity and social skillshave been dramatically improved!It's a rare toy!
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