In the face of marriage and love, everyone thinks the same, men want their wives to be beautiful, virtuous, and gentle, and women want their husbands to be burly, handsome, and capable.
But looking at the marriage of husband and wife in reality, I feel that the dream is out of touch with the reality, and the hope is not linked to the reality.
There are even a lot of asymmetrical marriages and mismatched love, which is simply dazzling and confusing.
In a short ** account, a man bluntly said that his marriage was not understood, and he was even ridiculed, ridiculed, and ridiculed for 12 years.
The man laughed at himself and said that he was one of the ugliest, shortest, and poorest men in the village, and that he was once the first of the few bachelors in the village.
Unexpectedly, 12 years ago, love patronized me, flattered me, and overjoyed myself.
The most shocking thing is that his girlfriend turned out to be the beautiful village flower in the village.
This news not only exploded in the local area, but was even attacked and ridiculed, ridiculed and slandered.
Think about it, you can forgive others at that time, after all, you are not amazing, after all, you are poor, after all, you are useless.
Beauty can take a fancy to herself, she is surprised, others are surprised, this mystery is still puzzling.
But I know very well in my heart, and my wife knows even more in my heart, that is, the power of love and the impression of charm, as well as my unremitting pursuit.
The man also said that in the 12 years of marriage with his wife, he has seen countless people's eyes, heard countless sarcasm, and seen countless people disdain.
In the past 12 years, in addition to being with his wife and never abandoning each other, they have deepened their feelings for each other.
In **, the man is indeed short and ugly, with a bald head and a full beard, how disappointing it looks, especially compared with his wife's tall and beautiful appearance, it is simply a heaven and an earth.
But the man is very sincere, very diligent, very lively, and very considerate of his wife.
Some people say that in love, it is enough for a man to have these advantages, and there is no need for hypocrisy or rhetoric.
The wife is very kind, considerate, and gentle, and it is not uncommon to bring water to her working husband and wash her tired husband's feet.
Some people also say that in marriage, the return is the other party's pay, and the true love is the feedback of the other party's true love.
Some female netizens left a message after reading **, saying that in fact, in the hearts of many women in marriage, they want to find a handsome man as a husband.
I feel that a handsome man is my own life, my future, and my dream.
I didn't think about the hardships of life in the future, I didn't think about the cruelty of real life, I just thought that there would be everything with a handsome man.
Just like the beauty in **, she can marry a tall and handsome man.
But she chose a short and ugly man, which shows that this man has the responsibility of a man, the responsibility to love himself, the love for himself, and even the courage to give himself a life.
Therefore, the beauty chose reality, despised vanity, chose life, and gave up fantasy.
Epilogue - In the pursuit of marriage, everyone has fantasies and dreams.
Especially some women, they all want to achieve life through marriage, and they all want to realize their dreams overnight through marriage.
Even blind dates one after another, parties again and again, but they didn't find the ideal other half.
Some people criticize that today's older young people have moved towards hypocrisy and paranoia in their cognition of marriage.
I didn't realize the meaning of love, I didn't realize the true meaning of marriage, it was very ethereal and mirage.
In fact, marriage is an ordinary life, love is a simple day, it is not an earth-shattering life, it is not an earth-shattering red dust.
Therefore, it is recommended that those older young people who are ambitious should put down the noble head of love, talk about a down-to-earth love, let go of the unreality of marriage, and live an ordinary life.