In my opinion, whether a mother-in-law takes care of her grandson or not, first of all, you should respect the wishes of your mother-in-law. If the mother-in-law is willing to take care of her grandson, it is naturally a blessing for the family. The mother-in-law has a lot of experience in parenting and can provide a lot of valuable advice and help to her daughter-in-law. Moreover, mother-in-law taking care of grandchildren can also enhance the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and make the family more harmonious.
However, if the mother-in-law is not willing to take care of her grandchildren, she cannot force it. Everyone has their own lifestyle and choices, and mother-in-law has the right to choose her own lifestyle. At this time, the daughter-in-law should understand the mother-in-law and not complain because the mother-in-law is unwilling to take care of the grandson. The daughter-in-law should learn to be independent on her own, take care of the children by herself, and become a qualified mother.
That's not to say that mothers-in-law don't need to take care of their grandchildren. On the contrary, the mother-in-law can help appropriately within her ability. For example, a mother-in-law can help her daughter-in-law take care of the children, but she cannot put all the responsibility on the mother-in-law. The daughter-in-law also needs to understand her mother-in-law and not be dissatisfied because of some small mistakes by her mother-in-law.
Here, I would like to tell a story about my friend. My friend, Xiao Wang, is a professional woman. Her mother-in-law is willing to take care of her grandson, but Xiao Wang does not completely shift the responsibility to her mother-in-law. She will try her best to take care of the children after work, play with them, and educate them. She understands her mother-in-law's hard work and is full of gratitude to her mother-in-law. Sometimes, the mother-in-law will have some small mistakes, and Xiao Wang will also understand the mother-in-law and will not complain. Such a family, harmonious and happy.
In my opinion, whether the mother-in-law takes care of her grandson or not is not the crux of the matter. The key is whether family members can understand each other, respect each other, and share family responsibilities. Only in this way can the family be harmonious and happy. In this process, the daughter-in-law needs to learn to be independent, and the mother-in-law also needs to understand the hard work of the daughter-in-law. Only in this way can our families be more harmonious and our society more progressive.