I have been abused for 10 years, and my husband has been diagnosed with bowel cancer and wants me to

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-01-29

[Fan Letters].In my marriage, I was tormented by domestic violence for a whole decade. Every beating, every insult, carved an indelible scar on my body. However, when my husband was diagnosed with bowel cancer, this painful marriage ushered in a more complicated ordeal.

My husband's bowel cancer has shattered his hard shell and left me with a choice I never had before. Despite the countless pains I have experienced, at this moment, I found that I could not take my husband lightly. He was a part of my life, a companion of mine, but now a prisoner of fate.

In front of the hospital bed, the pain and guilt on her husband's face were intertwined. He begged me to take care of him, and like the scars he had sparked in front of me, should I lend a hand?

Her answer, however, was shocking. She looked at her husband with no pity in her eyes, only deep exhaustion. She said indifferently, "Forget it if you're dead." This short sentence expresses her endless boredom with this marriage in her heart.

[The doctor answers].Blood stains during bowel movements are a common but easily overlooked symptom, and for many people, the first reaction may be to worry about bowel cancer. However, not all blood in the stool is a sign of bowel cancer, and a variety of reasons can cause this symptom. This article will delve into the possible causes of blood dripping during bowel movements, as well as the steps you should take in the face of this situation.

1. Bloody stool is not necessarily a sign of bowel cancer

Hemorrhoids: Hemorrhoids are one of the most common causes of blood in the stool. Surrounding varicose veins can lead to the formation of hemorrhoids, while ruptured hemorrhoids can cause blood in the stool.

fissure: An fissure is a tear in the surrounding or mucous membrane and is a common cause of bloody stools. Bleeding may occur when stool passes through the tear.

Enteritis and intestinal infections:

Certain intestinal diseases, such as ulcerative colitis, Crohn's disease, and bacterial or viral infections, can also cause intestinal bleeding, which manifests as bloody stools.

Intestinal polyps: Benign intestinal polyps can also cause blood in the stool in some cases. In general, benign polyps have less risk of bleeding.

2. Possible symptoms and risk factors for bowel cancer

Symptoms of Bowel Cancer:

Bowel cancer can cause blood in the stool, but this is usually accompanied by other symptoms such as changes in Xi bowel habits, abdominal pain, weight loss, etc. Bloody stool alone is not necessarily a sign of bowel cancer.

Age: The incidence of bowel cancer increases with age, especially in people over the age of 50. As a result, older people are more likely to be alert when they notice symptoms of bloody stools.

Family history: If there is a family history of bowel cancer, an individual's risk of bowel cancer may increase. Family history is a factor of particular concern.

Lifestyle Xi Xi: Unhealthy lifestyle habits, such as high-fat diet, lack of exercise, obesity, etc., may also increase the risk of bowel cancer.

3. When should I seek medical attention?

Blood in the stool persists:

If blood in the stool persists, especially if it is accompanied by other symptoms, you should seek medical attention. Persistent bloody stools can be a sign of an underlying health problem.

Distinctly bright red bloody stools:

If the blood is bright red, it means that the bleeding site may be shallow, which may be related to hemorrhoids, fissures, etc. However, it is still necessary to seek medical attention promptly to determine the cause.

Age and risk factors:

For people over 50 years of age, especially those with a family history or other risk factors, it is more important to pay attention to the symptoms of bloody stools and carry out relevant examinations as soon as possible.

4. How to conduct a preliminary self-assessment?

Pay attention to the color of the bloody stool:

The color of the bloody stool may indicate the location of the bleeding. Bright red bloody stools are usually associated with problems in the rectum or near **, while darker bloody stools may be associated with upper gastrointestinal bleeding.

Accompanying symptoms: pay attention to whether it is accompanied by other symptoms, such as abdominal pain, changes in bowel Xi, anemia, etc. These symptoms may provide clues about an underlying problem.

Rule out other causes:

Blood in the stool is not necessarily related to intestinal problems, but it can also be related to other problems such as stomach ulcers, inflammatory bowel disease, etc. Therefore, other causes should be ruled out before considering the need for further investigation.

5. Recommendations for prevention and health maintenance

Regular check-ups: Regular check-ups are important for early detection of underlying health problems. With a medical examination, the doctor can develop an appropriate examination plan based on the individual's health condition.

Healthy Lifestyle:

Maintaining a healthy lifestyle, including a balanced diet, moderate exercise, quitting smoking and limiting alcohol, can help reduce the risk of bowel cancer.

High-fiber diet:

A high-fiber diet helps maintain gut health, reduces constipation and hemorrhoids, and is part of bowel cancer prevention.

The panic caused by dripping blood during a bowel stool often stems from concerns about bowel cancer, but bloody stools do not necessarily mean bowel cancer. Common problems such as hemorrhoids and fissures can also cause this symptom. When blood is found in the stool, treat it rationally and conduct a preliminary self-assessment by paying attention to the color of the bloody stool, accompanying symptoms, and ruling out other causes. Regular check-ups, maintaining a healthy lifestyle, and eating a high-fiber diet can help prevent bowel cancer while also helping to keep your gut healthy. If there is persistent, unexplained bloody stools, especially if accompanied by other symptoms, it is wise to seek medical attention in time for early detection of potential health problems.

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