Children are struggling to do things, and most parents are distressed by this. In fact, friction is not the nature of children, and many children's friction is caused by improper parental education. In order to make children do things no longer grinding, parents can use the following 5 methods:
1.Make a plan and set your goals.
Parents can work with their children to make a specific plan that defines the tasks that need to be completed each day and the time milestones. This can help children clarify their goals and enhance their sense of time, so as to reduce frictional behavior. At the same time, parents should also be careful not to give their children too many tasks so as not to cause stress and resentment.
2.Break down the task and complete it step by step.
One of the reasons why children are struggling is that the task is too large or complex for them to feel overwhelmed. At this time, parents can break down the task into several small tasks for the child to complete step by step. This can help children take better control of tasks, reduce anxiety and stress, and thus reduce frictional behavior.
3.Encourage praise and boost motivation.
When children do not work slowly, parents should give encouragement and praise in time, so that children can feel their progress and results. This can boost children's self-confidence and motivation, and increase their motivation and efficiency in doing things. At the same time, parents should also be careful not to put too much emphasis on their children's mistakes and shortcomings, so as not to discourage their enthusiasm.
4.Create an environment with fewer distractions.
Children are easily affected by external distractions when doing things, resulting in poor concentration and friction. Parents can help their children create a quiet, tidy, and comfortable environment with fewer distractions and noises, allowing them to better focus on tasks. At the same time, parents should also be careful not to disturb their children while they are doing things, so as not to interrupt their train of thought and rhythm.
5.Stimulate thinking and interest.
Your child may not be interested in certain tasks or lack understanding, resulting in a lack of motivation to complete them. At this time, parents can guide their children to think about the meaning and importance of the task, stimulate their interest and curiosity, and let the child take the initiative to complete the task. At the same time, parents can also increase the fun and interactivity of tasks through games, stories, etc., and improve children's participation and efficiency.
In short, getting rid of children's habits of grinding things requires the patience and guidance of parents. By making a plan, breaking down tasks, encouraging praise, creating an environment and guiding thinking, these five methods can help children improve efficiency, reduce frictional behavior, and develop good time management and self-control skills. At the same time, parents should also be careful not to interfere too much with their children's freedom and choice, so that they can continue to grow and develop in independent exploration and practice. Parenting