I really hope that everyone can understand marriage and then get married!Don't fill in your answers when you see someone handing them in. And don't sneer at others for your own selfish desires.
Marriage is not about bride price, wedding, house and car, but about the joint efforts of both parties, understanding, tolerance, and mutual accommodation. How to manage love in marriage is more important than talking about love. Marriage is the only opportunity for each other to choose a family member in each other's lives, good character, upbringing, sense of responsibility, common three views, as well as the awareness of responsibility and responsibility and the ability to control emotions are really important and the way to deal with interpersonal relationships, the key is to find the right person, because she or he determines the future life of both parties in the second half of their lives. When the passion fades, the essence of marriage becomes apparent – it is a partnership. The economic foundation is important, but what is more important is a person's upbringing, responsibility, and common three views.
What are the three different views?You fear the Heavens, and he worships authority – this is a different worldview. You are on the side of conscience, he is on the side of the winner - this is the difference in values. You work hard for the ideal life, and he works hard for the sake of being a superior person - this is a different outlook on life. You think that a gentleman loves money and takes it in a good way, and he thinks that he can do whatever it takes to make a living - this is a different view of money. You feel that you can love everyone, but trust only a few, and he feels that he loves people who show kindness and value to him - this is a different view of society. You eat lightly, he loves spicy food - it's just a difference in Xi habits. Man is a complex animal, love can be disguised, and so are the details. If he will only be good to you when he is in a good state, and when your negative emotions explode, he only chooses to avoid and do not communicate, then he does not have the ability to empathize, which can only show that he is indifferent and selfish in his bones. There are things that are so hidden that they may not even notice them, and this stems from the way things were handled between parents when they were children.
There is such a theory: love is actually a smart person playing with a fool. There may not be between two smart people, and if there is, it is both pretended. Because a smart person will manage your emotions by observing your performance, using his knowledge and strategy to control the relationship dominance. When a person asks you a question with an answer, you'd better tell the truth. Ask you if you are willing to give you a chance, because what they want is not the answer, but the attitude. People who have always trusted you are not afraid that you will deceive them, but they are afraid that you will not be able to deceive them, they can demolish you, or they can laugh and watch you act, not that you pretend to be seamless, but that she accompanies you to act flawlessly. Falling in love is to see the advantages of the other party, marriage is to get along with the shortcomings of the other party, and the right person is the one who sees through your temperament and is still willing to stay with you. The best relationship is to go both ways, not one person to work hard and the other person deserves!Two people who don't know how to be grateful and don't know how to cherish will only go farther and farther!Marriage is not the end, but the beginning, to maintain the capital and confidence to leave at any time.
Whoever you are with, who is the most open, natural, comfortable, and can be the real you without scruples, then this person is the most important person in your heart. Your body language tends to be more honest than your heart.