There are a few girls who have never been asked this kind of question when they were young, "Marry, choose who loves you or you love, choose rich and love you or no money and love you", it is always a choice between two or the other, always left or right, and it will always be your answer that will be ridiculed by adults.
The magic of "The Queen of News" is that it is used as a workplace survival guide as far as the eye can see, and few people remember that there are still many couples in the play. Until, someone scolded Zhang Jiayan's boyfriend Lawyer Shao for being the biggest controversy in the drama.
Good-looking, partner of the law firm, gentle to his girlfriend, rational, and professional ethics are all Shao Lu's advantages, but he often proposes that his girlfriend is considered his fatal flaw by being a full-time wife, so some people call him a terrible boyfriend and just want to lock the other half in the family cage.
Before discussing whether Shao Lu is a terrible boyfriend, should we first discuss a question, if you don't insist on a 'perfect boyfriend', why would you scold him for being terrifying?It's a human being, who is not selfish?Adults, who hasn't weighed in?
When his girlfriend takes the opportunity of the game to talk about his trade secrets, he can still stay calm and rational, not angry, and be considered an emotionally stable other half, right?was perfunctory when he proposed, and he had to call a taxi for his career-minded girlfriend, which is considered a considerate other half, right?
When I was on a date, my girlfriend who was obsessed with work released a pigeon halfway, and I would laugh and say, 'Go to work, I'll go home and wait for you', which is considered a reasonable other half, right?I tried on the wedding dress but waited for my girlfriend for more than two hours and didn't complain, so I was a competent other half, right?
What else?Unconditional support, unconditional standing behind his girlfriend, no own thoughts, views and positions, but everything is respected by the will of his girlfriend, a wedding dress is tried alone, a marriage is tied by a person, and the family is managed by a person, can it be called a perfect boyfriend?What you want is Siri, right?
He is indeed not a perfect boyfriend, even though he knows that his girlfriend values work more and repeatedly asks her to be a full-time wife. Two people who have decided to get married, but have different expectations for the future but never communicate seriously, is a common problem for both of them, and he is not the only one who has problems.
For example, she said that it would be perfect if her husband could continue to support her in her career. For example, he said that if his future wife doesn't work so hard, her career will be perfect. But in fact, neither of them intended to listen to each other's true intentions. Whether it was intentional or afraid to face it is another matter.
So, are you married off-screen?Have you chosen your perfect partner?Or, before you got married, did you really believe that he was the perfect other half, and when you got married, you found that there was a gap between what you imagined and expected?There is a gap between reality and imagination, do you regret it?Don't regret it?
Of course, it is good to meet people who have the same three views and are in the same pace, but the reason why the right people are as rare as rare animals is because there are no two people in the world who have the same experience, experience, encounter, feeling, and experience, and cannot expect to pick up a ready-made perfect boyfriend and girlfriend.
Fortunately, we still have a choice, if we don't want to run in and tolerate, we will break up, if we don't want to get back together, we will never look back, and if we are reluctant, we will continue to move forward to see if the relationship will change for better or for worse. In short, the stop or continue button is always in your hands, depending on how you choose.
What!You're still waiting for me to answer the question of which one to choose as your boyfriend, an elite lawyer, a news anchor, or a little videographer?Look at career prospects, look at development potential, look at personality and temperament, look at the original family, look at the past love history, look at the geometry of the garage, in order to weigh the pros and cons?
Choose a job you like than what you hate, and life will be better. Choose the person you like is more favorable than the conditions, and it is more pleasing to the eye. How to choose which one is one thing, how to get along and how to manage the relationship is another, otherwise choosing the right one does not mean that there will be forever.
So, which one to choose as a boyfriend is a false proposition, why can you only be limited to these three options?There are more than three men, and there are more than women, not to mention that you can also give up the election (celibacy), and not being bound by other people's rules is called having the right to choose, isn't it?Standing at the tail end of 2023, pretending to see 2024 telling us, I wish us all the choices, the right choices, and a good life.
A good drama that has been watched n times