In these days, peoplelifeThe level is constantly improving, and the requirements for children's education are getting higher and higher. Parents want to give their children a better offerlifeconditions and a better Xi learning environment. However, under the limited material foundation, many families often choose to have only one child, and concentrate their energy and financial resources to raise a child's future. Therefore, for young parents, the expectation of having a second child is still relatively low. This also made some old people start to think: "We wanted to have a child at that time and were not allowed, why are we allowed to give birth now, but we are not allowed to give birth?"”
The pressure on young people to have one child, let alone two, is already high. The primary reason for this is due to:Economyon the pressure. Most families now get married late and are burdened with mortgages after marriageCar loansand other debts, and a considerable part of the income is used to repay loans. And the rest of the money has to be used for the family's daily expenses, and the pressure to have a child is already quite high, let alone to have another one. In addition, modernlifeCosts are high,lifeEverywhere you need to spend money. In the process of a child's growth, the child's education andlifeExpenses are one of the important expenses of the family, which also puts a lot of pressure on the family.
In addition, the time and energy of parents is also one of the important factors in having a second child. A lot of moms are herePregnancyI still have to insist on going to work, and I have to return to the workplace soon after confinement. This is true for many motherslifePortraiture. Because full-time working families cannot afford their daily expenses with their husbands' income alone, they have to leave their children to their elderly parents to help raise them. However, after all, the old man is old, his body and energy are insufficient, and it is already very laborious to take care of one child, and two children will make the burden on the old man even heavier. Moreover, parents do not have enough time and energy to accompany their children's growth, which is also an important factor.
In addition, modern parents pay more attention to the growth of their children. Parents want to provide more love and education for their children, hoping that they will become people with good character, integrity, and correct values. They refuse to have children for the sake of having children, and they hope that the children will become successful people in the future under their company and guidance. In addition, many parents do not expect their children to provide for themselves in the future, they just want their children to have a good life, not to increase the burden on their children, and they do not expect their children to make themselvesRetirement。If the child can be self-reliant with companionship and guidance, parents will be satisfied.
EconomyPressure: For most familiesEconomyStress is the most direct and primary cause. Many young people are generally married with a mortgageCar loansA considerable part of the income will be used to repay the loan, and the rest of the income will be used to support the family's daily expenses. Therefore, give birth to a childEconomyThe pressure is already very high, and many families simply can't afford to have a second childEconomyBurden.
2.Parents lack time and energy: a lot of moms are herePregnancyI still have to insist on going to work, and I have to return to the workplace soon after confinement, which is a realistic portrayal of many mothers. Because full-time working families cannot afford their daily expenses on the income of their husbands alone, they have to leave their children to their elderly parents to help raise them. However, the elderly are old, lack of body and energy, and it is already very laborious to take care of one child, and two children will put a heavier burden on the elderly. Moreover, parents do not have enough time and energy to accompany their children's development, which is also an important factor.
3.Parents pay more attention to the growth of their children: Modern parents pay more attention and attention to the growth of their children. They hope to provide more love and education for their children, and hope that their children can become people with good character, know how to behave, and have correct values. They are reluctant to have children for the sake of having children, and they hope that the children can become successful people in the future with their company and guidance. Many parents do not expect their children to provide for themselves in the future, they just want their children to be able to live a good life, and they do not want to burden their children. They also don't expect children to let themselvesRetirement, but to hope that the child will be able to be self-reliant, which is enough for them.
Whether we want a second child or not, we should respect the choice of each family. Every family has its own circumstances and considerations, and it is understandable to choose to have one or two children. Some families like to have more children and feel that a second child can bring more family affection and companionship, while some families pay more attention to providing a better growth environment and educational resources for a child, choosing only one child.
The most important thing is that the family should be based on its ownEconomysituation, time and energy situation, and expectations of the child to make judgments and decisions. Whether it's one child or two, the family should be able to afford itEconomyand energetic pressure, and have enough attention and companionship for the child's growth.
While respecting the choices of each family, it is also necessary to provide more support and assistance from the society and **, such as providing more high-quality public servicesKindergartenPlaces or offersEconomyto help families raise their children better.