Although procrastination is not a "disease", it will have a negative impact on our lives, especially for those who "severe procrastination" will cause great distress in their lives, and these procrastination mostly comes from not developing good Xi when they were children. So how can we help children establish good Xi and stay away from procrastination?Let's talk about it in detail.
Help your child develop a sense of time. The reason why many people procrastinate is that they lack the concept of time and have no concept of time. Many children basically only need to go to school and complete their homework when they are young, and the rest of the time is relatively free. Some parents do not have the awareness that their children value their timeThinking that as long as the homework is completed, it doesn't care how long the child spends it, what he does outside of class, and does not clearly tell the child how valuable the time is, and can use the existing time to do more valuable and meaningful things.
Accompany your child to do those more difficult and boring things and accumulate a sense of accomplishment. Why the procrastination?It's that the heart will be afraid of difficultiesFear of doing difficult things will experience frustration and pain, experience discomfort,Finding no fun in difficult things and therefore losing mobility,There is no will to do it, and that is precisely the core of the problem. Therefore, parents should give more guidance in this regard, so that children can take the initiative to challenge themselves and break through themselves.
Set rules for your child. People with procrastination are basically very free and loose people, if they don't have to finish, but whenever there is a little space, they will choose to delay and not act. Parents are to instill in them from an early age the idea that urgent and important things must be done first, that is, at the moment, at this moment, with the fastest speed to get good results. Juyi has a way to say,Parents should not underestimate these details, once the good Xi is not formed, the bad influence may accompany the child for a lifetime.