RuralWhy don't children want to go back to their hometown when they grow up?This question bothers many people, including netizens and myself. RuralIt's not a pure land, and for those who say they don't have to spend money, they may never really know about itRuralof reality. RurallifeNot only do you need to spend money on seeds and fertilizer, but you also need to deal with weather changes such as drought and excessive rain, which can be costly. In addition, in order to meet the daily dietary needs,RuralPeople also need to buy meat dishes such as meat and eggs. This illustratesRurallifeThe actual overhead is quite high.
It is worth noting that those who want to go backRuralMost of them are city dwellers, eager to escape the hustle and bustle of the city. However, really fromRuralFew of the people who came out wanted to go back. Why would a person with a college degree and a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan refuse to return?RuralWhat about it?The reason is, they are:RuralPerceptions have changed. They thinkRuralPeople have broken mouths and like to chew the root of the tongue, which makes them reluctant to andRuralPeople deal with it. In addition, there are some who complainRuralThe phenomenon of people stealing vegetables is frequent, which makes them feel rightRuraltrust is greatly reduced.
RuralThe pressure and burden of human relations have also becomeRuralAn important reason why children are reluctant to return to their hometowns. InRural, the relationship between relatives and friends is complicated, including seven aunts and eight aunts, three disasters and six diseases, birthday banquets,Full moon wineand other gatherings. The cost of these activities can cost thousands of dollars in a year. In addition,RuralThere is also pressure to marry, and unmarried people are often urged to marry, even young people as young as 19 years old. Relatives always introduce all kinds of unreliable objects to them and forcibly arrange blind dates. This situation makes young people feel helpless and stressed.
RuralSocialThe strangeness and complexity of the relationship is also rightRuralThe child's reluctance to return to his hometown has had an impact. They found thatRuralPeople's simple enthusiasm is only superficial, they will say that the white is black, and spread gossip everywhere. RuralThe relationship between people is not so simple, brothers will fight with each other for interests, and some long-mouthed women who love money talk irritably every day. They are backward in their ideas, but they always want young people to follow the old ideaslife, which makes young people feel constrained and uncomfortable.
RuralThe status quo is not suitableRuralAn important factor in a child's reluctance to return to his hometown. They found thatRuralPeople are short-sighted and don't see much. They don't understand the outside world and are skeptical of new things and new ideas. They are calculating, and they like to look at people and laugh at people. In addition,RuralPeople are good at taking advantageConventional wisdomto restrain young people, which makes young people feel uncomfortable. They even found out,RuralPeople's mouths are so broken that it is unbearable, sometimes if you earn less, you will be ridiculed, and if you earn more, you will be rumored.
Through the material of these netizens and their own thinking, I thinkRuralThere are several reasons why children are reluctant to return to their hometowns: FirstRuralSocialThe complexity and inadmissibility of the relationship makes them feel stressed and confused;The second isRuralSocialThe backwardness and constraints of concepts make them feel uncomfortable and uncomfortable;The third isRurallifeThe expenses and practical difficulties make them feel financially strained and burdened.
For me personally, I'm inRuralGrow up, rightRuralThere are also unique emotions. I recognizeRuralIt's not perfect, it has its problems and shortcomings. But at the same time,RuralIt also has simple human feelings and good memories. AlthoughRurallifeThe pressure and difficulties make me hesitate to it, but I still hope to retain the simplicity and innocence, not forget the beauty of my hometown, and improve itRuraldevelopment to make its own efforts. Whether staying in the city or coming backRuralI believe that everyone has their own choices and pursuits, as long aslifeHappiness is the most important thing.