Netizens asked, if your child grows up and suddenly tells you that he will not get married, will not have children, and will not be as tired as you, will you agree?Don't lie!
It is very intuitive to say that what can be done as a parent, can only go with the flow, this matter is something that parents can't control, too much, the child will be dissatisfied, what should be said must be said, as for how to do, it is the child's right.
My friend's son got married a few years ago, and two years after two years of marriage, the two of them couldn't talk about it, and their lives were not satisfactory.
It's been two years awkwardly, you don't like each other, I don't like you, I don't like you, more often girls spend time in their parents' house, there is no hope for such days, and the two of them discuss a peaceful breakup.
In the end, the two came to the end of their marriage and went through the divorce procedures, and as the parents of the children, they were also very helpless and could only accept this fact.
With the last experience, this time, the parents have more eyes, thinking about finding a daughter-in-law for their son in the countryside, the country girl is not hypocritical, and she will definitely be able to live with her son wholeheartedly.
After the son's divorce, the parents of the family held a wedding again, married another daughter-in-law to their son, bought a new building for decoration, and the two friends in the previous marriage room moved in.
In the eyes of outsiders, they are all worried about their parents, and it is really not worrying to meet such a son, just get married and not have children, and they also toss and divorce, which breaks the hearts of their parents.
But then again, what kind of children you meet have to face, parents also want to open, parents do what should be done, as for marriage and childbirth is a child's business, never participate.
In this way, my friend's son married a daughter-in-law, this daughter-in-law is a countryman, there are tourist attractions in the village, and the daughter-in-law is in the tourist attraction, and she has opened a store and started a small business.
When I first got married, I lived in the city for a while, and after a fresh life, I basically spent it in her small shop, taking care of my own business, and rarely went home.
It is said that this son and daughter-in-law have no problem with their son's relationship, but they don't have children after marriage, and after many years, they have no plans to have children.
For so many years, my friend's son is more than 40, and the two of them have never mentioned having a child.
Maybe after so many years, I will Xi get used to it, I want to open it, and I can live my life for the rest of my life.
I heard from friends that they can't care so much, if they are born, they will be brought, and if they are not born, they will be casual, so it will be idle.
In addition to eating and drinking, every day is to go shopping, buy groceries, and then cook and eat together.
A few years ago, my health was fine, my friend had a younger sister, who lived in a city, and every Sunday I would call my sister's family to have a meal at my house, and I had a meal, and I packed the rest of the delicious food for my sister to take home to eat.
Every week, when my sister gets together with them, she cooks pork ribs and buys food such as roast meat, and friends don't eat a second meal, and the rest is packed up for my sister to take home to eat.
Since last year, this friend's health is not as good as before, maybe it is a sign of aging, the body has changed, he is too lazy to cook, and he never calls his sister home for dinner every week, she told her sister that she is now powerless.
The above is a real case.
The child's affairs are decided by the child himself, as a parent, he can only do what he has to do, as for getting married and having children, it is his own business, and he can't help it.
If the child is obedient, it is easy to say, if he is not obedient and not angry enough, the family will be smoky, and everyone will be in a bad mood, so why bother?
Smart parents can only keep a normal mindset and do what parents should do.