Uncle Che is 65 years old this yearThe monthly pension is 8,900, and there are 5 houses, one of which is in Weihai and one in Hainan, with a set of courtyard houses in the countryside and two in the city
Usually he doesn't smoke or drink, and he doesn't like to chat together, basically just reading books to pass the time, and the house is full of books in a bedroom.
Occasionally, he will travel by car, basically, he has been to these places in Xinjiang, he rests when he is tired, and he moves forward if he is not tired, and there is no destination.
When he was young, he had been working in a grain and oil transportation company, and later in 1986, he took the first college entrance examination to change his fate, at that time he was the first in the county's liberal arts, because he wanted to transfer to the cadre status in their unit, he had to use a diploma, through his diligent self-study, he was admitted to the first university, and he reached the position of section chief step by step in the unit.
Later, he was transferred to another city insurance company as a department head, and because of his excellent work, he was transferred to the province in 2011 and worked until he retiredSo now the pension can get 8,900 yuan.
But he is not very happy, since his wife died of illness, he has not had a happy day, and he will read every night when he can't sleep.
But no matter what, there is really no way to tell the loneliness in my heart, I opened the album again and again to see my wife's **, and I miss the happy time with my wife, and now that 6 years have passed, I still can't put it down.
During this period, many people introduced him, and he thought that they were not sincere, they were just for money, and they didn't want to find material women, and that kind of hypocritical relationship was better than being single.
Originally planned to live this life like this, but just two months ago an incident changed his mind, after returning from that trip, his stomach was bloated for more than ten days without bowel movements, and he went to the hospital for examination and said that it was a snake disc sore, and he did a gastrointestinal endoscopy, and the doctor said that there were 19 polyps that needed to be removed, but the operation needed to be signed by the familyAt that time, he was in a hurry and asked his brother to sign, his brother was in his rural hometown at the time, a thousand kilometers away from him.
The only daughter is in Beijing, busy every day, in order not to distract her, I didn't dare to talk to her in detail, and then my daughter found out, and said to him worriedly: "Dad, Mom has been dead for so many years,."It's time to put it down!I don't feel at ease when you live alone, and I don't have time to accompany youWhy don't you find another companion, at least if you are sick, you will have someone to take care of!
To tell the truth, when people are vulnerable, they really need someone to accompany them, and when he sees his peers in the ward accompanied by his wife, he is extremely envious in his heart, so he has the idea of finding a partner.
He is a person who attaches more importance to feelings, has too high requirements for the other half, has double protection, looks delicate, and can live with him sincerely, canIn terms of life, the reason why he made this request was not that he was stingy, but that he hoped that the woman really wanted to live with him, not for money, money was the touchstone, which could test whether a person was sincere.
65-year-old Aunt Liu, is a hard-working and kind person, her wife was lazy before her death, her health was not good, and her temper was not good.
In order for her children to have a complete home, she did not choose to divorce, and her wife was suffering from illness at that time, and she couldn't bear to abandon her wife, and she was afraid of others gossiping, so she endured it until her wife passed away, and she was considered a relief.
Because at that time, she had to earn money and serve her bedridden wife, she was also powerless, and her wife was still angry at her at every turn, thinking that she was not considerate.
Fortunately, the only daughter was admitted to a prestigious university, with an annual salary of hundreds of thousands, and her son-in-law also has an excellent job, and the two are also filial to her, she now has a pension of 2700 per month, and the money given by her daughter is basically inexhaustible.
Originally, her daughter asked her to go to Shenzhen to live together, but she had lived in the north for half her life, and she didn't adapt to going to the south at all, so she came backIn order to let her have a more comfortable life, her daughter replaced the step room for her and bought a set of elevator rooms.
Despite this, I still feel very lonely in my heart, because when I was young, I never experienced that someone cared for me, and the more I reached a certain age, the more I longed for companionship and love.
So with the support of his daughter and son-in-law, he decided to take a step forward and find a lover to spend the rest of his life with.
She is not very demanding with the other half, as long as she has a good personality, the two can get alongShe doesn't care about material conditions, as long as she can live her life sincerely.
Uncle Che drove his Daben to the downstairs of Aunt Liu's house, and bought a lot of fruits and gifts, which shows that he is a person who understands etiquette.
Aunt Liu also had a good impression of Uncle Che when she saw so many gifts he bought, but when she saw Uncle CheHunchback, he whispered to the matchmaker: "What's the matter?".”
Uncle Che saw Aunt Liu's puzzled face and took the initiative to explain: "This is when I was 4 years old and accidentally fell, just fell on the spine, although it is not beautiful, but it does not affect life!."”
Aunt Liu smiled and said that the external image is not important, as long as the person is healthy.
But Uncle Che had a different idea, he said to the matchmaker: "I'm not satisfied, it's too far from my previous wife, my wife is 1.68 meters tall and beautiful, he is only 1.6 meters at most, and he looks older!."”
The matchmaker looked at her face and asked in surprise: "I don't think you're tall, at most 1.7 meters?"”
Uncle Che scratched his head and said, "That being said, I'm mainly looking for a stroll to play and go out to travel."At the very least, you can get it, right!
The matchmaker said that they were all found in accordance with Uncle Che's mate selection criteria, with a house and double insurance, a pension, and a virtuous person, without any burden, I hope Uncle Che will not be in an accident again.
Uncle Che also agreed, understand first.
The two sat on the sofa and chatted about their jobs, and Uncle Che was also very satisfied that the other party was retired from a state-owned enterprise"I have a monthly pension of 8900, what about you!."”
Aunt Liu said: Then you are driving too high, I am only 2700, your 9000 yuan is enough for me to open for 4 months, do you mind?
Uncle Che shook his head and asked again, "Then what are the conditions for you to find a wife?"”
The reason why he asked like this was to see if the other party was a material woman, and if the other party wanted pocket money or something, he would find an excuse to end the blind date.
However, Auntie's words surprised him a little, and Auntie said indifferently: ".To be honest, in addition to asking for a good character, I have no requirements for material aspects, no matter how much house you have, no matter how high the pension is, it has nothing to do with me, after all, I am looking for a wife, and I am not running to let him support me, and I also have rent refunds and savings!I mainly find someone with the same three views and live a life!
Uncle Che was silent after hearing this, making it difficult for him to choose, first, he felt that the other party's character was really good, and second, he felt that the other party did not meet the aesthetics in his heart, and he always felt that the other party was not beautiful, not as good as one-third of his deceased wife.
But he couldn't find a reason to refuse the other party, just when he hesitated, he used his spare eyes to see that the aunt's eyes had been knifed, and his double eyelids had been cut, and he had an idea and said: "I see that your eyes have moved the knife, it doesn't look natural,."I'm a ghost, I can't accept fake things by nature, I like people who are naturally beautiful!Unless you can restore the eyes before!
The aunt was obviously stunned for a while, and she was smart enough to understand, so she said: ".You're provoking!That's too much to ask!It's all been cut, how to restore?If you don't agree, just say it, what's wrong with cutting your double eyelids?Everyone has a love for beauty, and besides, this was all about me 20 years ago, and now it's interesting to talk about this!
Uncle Che explained weakly: "I don't mean anything else, I didn't even glance at the double eyelids of my colleagues in the unit before, and my ex-wife also had to cut her double eyelids before she died, and I also had a divorce!."It's not for you....”
The aunt also retorted"Yes, you hunchback all day like a pot on your back, I don't dislike you anything, you talk about me, it's really speechless!."”
The two of them pointed to each other, no one let anyone, and the blind date ended.
Now the requirements for the elderly to choose a mate are not inferior to those of young people, and they also require appearance, height, and a house and a pension, and there is no burden.
In fact, at this age, the most important thing is whether the personality and the three views can be consistent, and it is meaningless to ask for too many external conditionswanted to find a woman who was beautiful, had a good figure, and could live a sincere life, but he didn't think that often such women have higher requirements, and they would not find an old man, but a hunchbacked person to live.
From another point of view, even if there is such a woman, she will not really live with him, because life is about firewood, rice, oil and salt, if the personality is not compatible, then the quarrel is unavoidable, and the days of chickens and dogs will outweigh the losses.
On the contrary, Aunt Liu is kind and virtuous, she doesn't care about material things, and she is willing to live with money together, and she has a good personality, so it's a pity to miss it.
When you are looking for a partner, you should look at each other's shining points and don't care too much about the external conditions, after all, no matter how beautiful your face is, it can't match a sincere heart!