Tian Rui and I have been married for more than ten years, and we can say that we are a typical middle-aged couple. I have been working for a foreign company for many years, and although I am busy at work, I have a good incomeRui Rui works as a teacher at a local school. We have a lovely daughter, Xiao Yao. A family of three, small and small, lives a plain and contented life.
Just last month, my younger brother Lixia suddenly called ** to tell me that he was going to buy a second-hand house and had already taken a fancy to a house, but the down payment was insufficient, so he asked me for 500,000 yuan.
Brother, you can lend me 500,000 yuan, I have half of the down payment here, plus what you give, it's enough. I am optimistic about the house, it is a good opportunity!Lixia said excitedly.
I was a little embarrassed: "With so much money, I have to discuss it with Ruirui." ”
Brother, you can help me, don't tell my sister-in-law, I'm in a hurry to get started, do me a favor. Lixia begged.
That's okay, brother, I'll do you a favor, but let's just say it, don't tell my wife about this, do it quietly. You can get the money in two days. ”
Okay brother!I knew you were the best!Lixia said happily.
I hung up **, and I was a little weak in front of my wife. Rui Rui sensed that my mood was wrong, so she asked with concern: "Husband, what did Lixia look for you just now?"Why do you look worried?”
I said vaguely: "Alas, it's nothing, it's just that Lixia wants to buy a house, and you want me to help you take a look!."”
Buying a house?Rui Rui asked, "Does it cost money?"How much do you want to pay?”
As I said that, I hugged her and made love, but she didn't ask any more.
Two days later, Lixia came on time to withdraw 500,000 yuan and said a bunch of words of thanks to me. I'm also glad to be able to help my brother, after all, people, if you have money, you can handle the knife. Besides, my brother's future house is equivalent to me having a property. This money is not in vain for me!
In this way, the secret between me and Lixia began to last for more than a month. Unexpectedly, just yesterday, the matter was suddenly discovered by Rui Rui!
I was speechless by her sudden attitude.
Stand and talk!Rui Rui looked at me and shouted.
When did it happen?”
Just a month ago. ”
You're doing these things behind my back?Rui Rui's eyes were on fire, "500,000 yuan was lent out so easily?."What did you take me for?”
I lowered my head and didn't dare to look at her like a child who had done something wrong.
Rui Rui took a deep breath to try to calm herself, and then said, "God, we have been married for so many years, I believe in you, and I have full authority to handle all the big and small things in the family." Today I found out that under my nose, you still have so many shady deeds!”
Explain what?Explain how you are doing things behind my back?Rui Rui sneered, "Or explain how to lie to me without me?"”
I was speechless. Rui Rui roared like this, and my heart was very empty.
Who is the name of the 500,000?Lixia?Did he take it to buy a house?Rui Rui asked.
Well, under his name. He has already bought a house. "I'll be honest.
Haha", Rui Rui laughed desperately, "It's a shame for the two of you, I'm still busy working every day, thinking about saving money to buy a house!."It turned out that there was so much cash at home, and even authorization and negotiation were waived, and they were sent directly to buy a house. ”
What a gas!Rui Rui was even angrier, "Kill your anger?."Eliminate our feelings for more than ten years?Lin Tian, I'm really blind, recognize you as a man!”
I froze in place, at a loss. Rui Rui took a deep breath and continued to roar: "Lin Tian, listen to me, from today on, I don't want to see you again!."Let's get divorced!”
I turned pale with shock, and begged repeatedly: "Rui Rui, you spare me, it's all my fault, I shouldn't hide this from you!."Don't do that, we still have a daughter!”
What's the matter with my daughter?Rui Rui had a cold face, "I can't meet your requirements, so you go to the next rich woman and ask for money!."”
No, no", I was so anxious that I straightened up, "I'm just confused to help my younger brother, how can there be a rich woman next!."I just like you, please, Ruirui, don't be like this!”
Confused for a while?Rui Rui shouted loudly, "500,000 yuan is just a moment of confusion?"Lin Tian, don't take me for a fool?”
I was wrong, I knew I was wrong!I beg for mercy, "You forgive me for this last time, I promise not to make an example!."”
Forgive you?Rui Rui asked rhetorically, "Is 14 years of marriage a game in your heart, and it will end when it is over?"”
My heart was like a knife, and I agreed: "It's not a game, of course not!".Marriage is important!”
Then you're still hiding from me!"Rui Rui is unrelenting.
Just as we were arguing, Rixia suddenly ran over. It turned out that I called ** and told him to hurry up and resolve this quarrel.
Sister Chu Chu, I'm sorry, it's me who is bad!Lixia ran over and apologized, "I guessed that you might not agree with my brother, so I told him not to tell you." Don't blame Brother Tian for this, if you want to blame, blame me Phoenix man!”
I hurriedly echoed: "Yes, yes, yes, Lixia didn't say hello, and I was fooled by him." If you're angry, don't make it difficult for me, make it difficult for Lixia!”
I know sister," Lixia nodded like pounding garlic, "This is indeed my fault, and you should be angry." I'm a brother, and I don't understand your feelings sister-in-law. Don't blame Brother Tian, he also wants me to get married!”
I hurriedly went up and echoed: "Yes, yes, yes, I'm also hard!."”
Lixia continued to lobby Ruirui, and I helped to echo it. After such an operation, Ruirui's anger has disappeared by half. She finally didn't insist on divorcing me, but she also offered not to talk to me for a month. Although I was aggrieved, I could only agree to it.
During the time that Rui Rui snubbed me this month, I reflected on my own wrongs. Indeed, after more than ten years of marriage, I shouldn't have made the decision to go behind her back because of a while. Besides, why can't women participate in the decision-making of major events?I let Rui Rui know the truth at the moment of crisis, and I must feel uncomfortable.
A few days ago, I suddenly received an invitation from Lixia to go to a party for the renovation of his new house. I hesitate to tell Rui Rui. After thinking about it, I decided to ask her opinion first.
Wife, Lixia let us go to his new house for dinner and party on the weekend. Do you want to go?I asked tentatively.
Rui Rui thought for a moment and said, "Go ahead, just to see how the house where you transfused blood is decorated." ”
I know she's still skeptical, but she's softened a lot. So on the weekend, I drove her to Lixia's community. It is an upscale residential area with a beautiful environment, and most of the owners are successful people. Walking into Lixia's apartment, I saw that it was newly decorated, modern and simple but elegant. Rui Rui looked around and nodded: "Lixia has a good eye, and the house is very good." I was secretly relieved.
Sister-in-law, it's good if you like it!Lixia said with a smile, "These decoration feng shui are also thanks to my brother's silver to take the handle!."Lixia was generous: "I bought it with my brother's help!."Brother Tian is the best for me!"I couldn't be happier when I heard him say this in front of Ruirui.
At the dinner, Lixia repeatedly apologized to Rui Rui for toasting, and I also helped to make amends, and finally coaxed her to laugh. She was also happy to talk to Lixia. Seeing their happy conversation, my heart finally let go completely.
Later, on the way home for Ruirui, I repeatedly promised her that I would reconcile my expenses with her every month in the future, and that no decision would be made without her approval. She nodded and said, "Actually, I understand, it's right that your brothers have a good relationship." It's just that we have to unite and discuss things, and you can't teach and accept them privately behind my back like this. "After this incident, I have a renewed understanding of marriage. Affection is the participation of husband and wife together.
Relationships are built by husband and wife, and they need to work together. This turmoil has made me realize the importance of joint construction, cooperation and mutual trust.
I started to involve Rui Rui in the decision-making of more important things. I was impressed by her vision and advice, which was often surprisingly wise. I will also report to her regularly on my recent work and life, and develop good communication Xi. Gradually, she became much more tolerant of my supervision and questioning, and our relationship became more and more harmonious.
One day, Rui Rui said to me, "Husband, you have really shown me that you have changed these days. I forgive you for making a rash decision, but I am confident in your future performance. I was overjoyed, and I took her hand and said gratefully, "This is the result of your arrow in my heart!"I will never break the trust between us again!”
Okay", Rui Rui joked to me with a smile, "If you are not a sage, who can do nothing?"I just hope that you will remember this lesson, and we will still do it in the future. I confessed repeatedly, but I thought in my heart that I would never make her so sad again in this life.
In this way, the turmoil subsided, and life was back on track. My relationship with Rui Rui seems to be stronger than ever, because we have learned to understand each other and be honest with each other. Sometimes I jokingly tell her about it: "If you hadn't been ruthless back then, maybe I would still be that pig's head!"Rui Rui laughed and hit me, then hugged me tighter.
I often take Rui Rui to visit her new house in Lixia. She also seemed to like the cosy little home. "Brother, come and sit often when you have time!"Lixia always greets him so warmly. I am also very proud of my brother. If it weren't for his enlightenment, Rui Rui and I might have really broken up.
The road of life is often difficult and difficult, but fortunately I met such a lovely and considerate confidant as Ruirui. She and I have been all the way and never leave. I also finally understood the truth of being a human being, to seek truth from facts, not to be surprised by changes, and to be kind to others. The same is true of husband and wife. Thank you for waking me up to the fact that I might have missed out on the most precious treasure of my life. From now on, I will continue to work hand in hand with Rui Rui to overcome all difficulties and welcome every better tomorrow.