Knowing how to empathize is a transparent life, a kind of understanding, and a kind of kindness. Learning to empathize in life is the top cultivation of a person.
But anyone who understands things should understand that what they don't want to do or can't do, they should never ask others to do it, which will only make people embarrassed and disgusted. Conversely, when you put yourself in the shoes of others and understand them, they will be grateful and appreciative of you.
It is best to have empathy and empathy between people. The friendship, warmth and love in this world are the result of empathy, understanding and understanding between each other.
There are all kinds of things in the world, everything in the red dust, every family has a difficult scripture to read, and everyone has a difficult song to sing. There is a saying that "a donkey rider does not know the bitterness of rushing his feet, and a full man does not know that a hungry man is hungry". Each of us can only see the world in our own eyes and know what we feel in our hearts, but we can't see the scenery of others and what is behind the scenery, and we don't know what it feels like when others are at a low point.
If you don't know if people are wronged, don't persuade people to be generous. You haven't walked the path that others have walked, you haven't suffered from others, and you don't know how much others have been wronged, so don't easily blame others and blame others. When you want to point fingers at others, think about how well you are doing.
Everyone's life is different, you don't have to be red when you see others driving luxury cars and living in luxury houses, and you don't have to laugh at someone picking up the drink bottle in the trash can.
Life is an echo, the human heart is a kind of induction, if everyone can know how to empathize, can do the heart to the heart, push themselves and others, how harmonious people should be, how warm the world should be!
A person who has no experience of borrowing money will never be able to experience the feeling of being shy in his pocket, and he will never be able to experience the loss of dignity when he opens his mouth to beg for helpA person who has never lent money to someone will never know how embarrassed it is to ask someone who borrowed money. Sometimes the person who asks for the account has to bear the charge of not being a buddy enough and not being emotional.
Sooner or later, people will grow old, and young people should never dislike the old man's sluggishness, disappointment, and chatter. If the person ordering takeout is not in a hurry, he does not have to complain or scold the takeaway guy who braved the wind and rain and was a few minutes late. At this time, it is better to change the position in your heart, a little more understanding, and a little more compassion.
To be a man, you must know how to empathize and be kind to others. Being able to feel the difficulties of others is caring;It is not easy to understand others, and it is generous;To be able to forgive the mistakes of others is to be generous;It is wise to be able to understand what others are doing.
Empathy is a person's thorough understanding of self-promotion and others, an excellent character of a person's kind-heartedness, and a person's top-level cultivation.