When it comes to "son preference", this may have existed in families with multiple children in the past, but most families today are single only children. However, I am in the final stages of the family planning policy and have a younger brother. Like many families, this is the case in my family. My mother has always been partial to my brother, but if it were all that, I wouldn't have chosen to share my story here.
My name is Li Chunlan, I am 33 years old, and I am a **. My income is not low every month, and although the work is very hard, I believe that the effort will always pay off. My husband is a ground staff member at the airport and we earn enough to support our family.
Actually, there's another reason why I can become a **. Why did you choose this profession?It all starts with why I have two children in my family. When I was in kindergarten, a kid pushed me off the swing. The nursery staff at the time didn't notice it, thinking it was just a fight between children, and I ended up with a brain**.
When I was taken to the hospital, the doctor told my family that I might have intellectual problems in the future. My mom was crying bitterly, she was an outgoing person. It is for this reason that my mother found the kindergarten, although it is a problem between children, and the kindergarten is also irresponsible.
I remember that for a while I had to stay in bed and it felt like it was going to last a long time. Every time I bow my head for a long time, I start to feel nauseous and dizzy, and even when I grow up, my body is still very weak.
Because of these circumstances, my mom was able to have another child. She successfully gave birth to a son, which was exactly what she wanted. Actually, from a very young age, I knew that my mom had always wanted a son. And my "accident" made her get her wish.
The younger brother became the second largest figure in the family after his father. When I read Cinderella stories as a child, I always felt that I was the Cinderella, longing for a prince to save me. My mom was like a stepmother to me, making me feel as if I wasn't her own.
I regretted very much why I was playing on the swing at that time, and if I hadn't fallen off it, I wouldn't have had a younger brother. Is it that at that time, all the attention of my mother will always be on me.
To this day, I remember my mother would make kidney bean stewed pork ribs for my brother, patiently tell him stories, and hug my brother when she left work, but none of this happened to me.
When I was in elementary school, I had a good Xi and I took the double hundred exam. But the school I went to was very ordinary, and when I grew up, my Xi got worse and worse. After graduating from junior high school, my mother and father discussed letting me go to a health school, but I was actually very scared, and what girl was not afraidBut I had no choice but to follow my mother's arrangement.
After going to the health school, you must live on campus. At first, I remember that I didn't even dare to sleep, and when I closed my eyes, I remembered the scene from the anatomy class. The knowledge I learned was also quite difficult, and I couldn't find any interest at all. But I had no choice, and if I wanted to leave this home, I had to earn my own money and be able to support myself.
Finally, I successfully graduated and was fortunate enough to be assigned to a district hospital to become a **. The work is really hard, but comparatively speaking, the income is also quite good.
During this time, I got to know my husband. At the time, he broke a bone while playing basketball with a friend and was in the ward I was responsible for. He asked for my ***, and that's how we met.
Like many ordinary girls, we were in a relationship for two years and then entered the palace of marriage. After a happy marriage, we welcomed a son. My mother and mother-in-law are very happy, especially my mother-in-law, who is especially fond of my son. My mother told me many times in private that she was glad that I gave birth to a son, otherwise I would have to suffer if I had a second child. In fact, I like little girls all the way in my heart, and for me, there is no difference between boys and girls, they are all my children.
One weekend, my mother-in-law told me that she wanted her grandson to stay at her house for two days. I said yes and was going to pick up my son home on Sunday. I'm going to stop by my mother-in-law's house to make a hearty lunch. So, I went to the supermarket to buy some ingredients, planning to make my son's favorite pot meat, tomato beef, and some green vegetables, and planned to make a pot of seaweed egg drop soup, which can basically satisfy the taste of the family.
When I arrived at my mother-in-law's house, I rushed into the kitchen without saying a word and began to cook all kinds of meals. My mother-in-law always praised me for my diligence, and said that the dishes I cooked were delicious and delicious, thanks to my mother, who was responsible for cooking for my brother when she was busy when she was a child. I remember standing on a small bench and fiddling with pots and pans before I was even as tall as the stove.
My husband went to pick up my mother-in-law and son, and I desperately wanted to get the meal ready before they returned. Dinner is ready, and a table of delicious dishes is on the table, waiting for the family to return. I came out of the kitchen with my food and the doorbell rang and the family was back at just the right time.
Our family sat around the dinner table and tried the delicious food, and watching them eat so well made my heart feel good. My mother-in-law also praised me for my first-class craftsmanship.
My father-in-law is engaged in engineering, and sometimes he is so busy that he is almost a fleeting shadow, and he may only come back once in ten days and half a month.
After dinner, I returned to my house with my husband and children, and as soon as I sat down, my mother's ** rang.
At this time, I felt strange that my mother usually didn't take the initiative to look for me unless something happened.
Mom, what's wrong?”
Chunlan, I have to talk to you about something. I've been taking care of your dad's current situation for more than half a year, but I really can't handle it. I always have back pain, it's like back pain when I get home, I'm also old, and I feel like taking care of your dad really can't stand it recently. Can we get a babysitter to take care of him??I just can't afford it, I'm really bored. Do you have any nurses in your hospital?Can you find one?
I can hear your mother's helplessness and dissatisfaction, and I also know your mother's character, she can't stand this kind of errand of taking care of people at all. I know in my heart that your father's current situation really needs someone to take care of him, and he needs others to worry about his daily life. And your mother's situation is really difficult to bear this heavy responsibility.
I thought about it for a moment and asked your mother, "Who pays for a babysitter?"Is it me or my brother, or are we both equal?”
Your mother said confidently, of course it's you, that's your father, do I pay for it?
I really can't accept this when I hear this, isn't Li Chunming your father's son?Why didn't he pay for it?
Why is Mom only thinking of me?To be honest, the demolition money was all given to your son, and I didn't see any of them, didn't I?Now Dad needs someone to take care of him, why do I have to pay for it?I don't have any money!As soon as I said this, my mother was not happy, so I said, this Chunming belongs to Lao Li's family, you are married, and you are from someone else's family.
Mom, listen to what you said, I'm married, and I won't care about that anymore. Okay, you and my dad gave birth to me and raised me, and I took care of the expenses, and shared it equally with my brother.
My mom was silent for a while, then hung up**. She always did this, and when I finished speaking, my dad listened, put his arm around me, comforted me, and said nothing. Actually, I understand that I am no longer the same as when I was a child, I have my own family, and I know what is more important.
Although my mom was always partial to my brother, I had an amazing mother-in-law and a husband who loved me dearly, and they were really nice to me. And their concern comes from the heart. It really makes me feel happy. In this family, I felt warmth and love, which is exactly what I have always wanted.
Although sometimes my mother's behavior makes me uncomfortable, my husband's love makes me feel grounded and satisfied. I felt like I was part of the family, accepted and cherished. This sense of happiness makes me cherish this family even more and work harder to give and dedicate to it.