Foreword: In "Ability", Feng Tang said that the most reliable way to judge whether a person is reliable is to invite him to a guest and a meal. In the same way, to determine whether a woman has betrayed or has a lover outside, it only takes a nap for the man to know. The night is the easiest time to let off the mask of hypocrisy and show your true heart. Therefore, men can observe the small movements and careful thoughts of women before bedtime. When a woman is in a situation, she usually exhibits the following three unusual behaviors when she sleeps.
Women often elevate their status and control over men by belittling them and undermining their self-confidence. However, such love is terrible and fails to bring joy and happiness to the other person. Usually, when a woman falls in love with someone else, she uses this technique to make the man feel inferior and confused. While men have not changed much, women are increasingly hating their partners. Before going to bed, women no longer say homely or I love you to men as they used to, but instead have some hurtful criticism and blame.
However, why would a woman choose to belittle her partner before going to bed?Maybe it's to show your sense of elevation and your ability to control the other person. When a woman hasAffair, they will psychologically think that their new lover is better than their partner, so they will use negative evaluations to weaken their partner and gradually get rid of their dependence on them psychologically.
When women change their minds, most of them avoid any physical contact. However, some women will choose to continue to maintain superficial intimacy, but it is difficult to hide the fact that they are not really committed. As British writer Alain de Botton described in the best-selling Love Notes, women use exaggerated movements to disguise their lack of real commitment, suggesting that they are more likely to have empathized.
Men should be vigilant and watch the woman's physical reactions. If a woman's intimate contact is found to be not natural in the past, but is deliberately expressed, it is likely to suggest that she has developed a relationship with another personEmotion
Everyone has a love of beauty. Both men and women, inIn lovePeople want to maintain their image in each other's minds. Like the heroine in "The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel", she still wears makeup and beautiful clothes before going to bed after she is married, so as to ensure that she will not be disliked by her husband. However, this behavior does not stop men from seeking passion or developing a lover relationship. But it proves from the side a fact: when a woman loves a man with all her heart, how much she cares about the other person and how much effort she is willing to make for the other person. It's just that once this love is transferred to other people, a woman's beauty will only be left for her sweetheart to appreciate. As a result, a woman may become scruffy and unkempt at home, but when she goes out, she will look new and radiant, just like when she first talked about itIn loveIt's just as beautiful as it gets.
Summary: To tell if a woman has a new intimacy outside, just observe whether she exhibits the above three conditions while sleeping. If women really become so casual and unfaithful, men need to be brave enough to face the fact of betrayal and start over to find someone truly worthy of love. We don't deserve to punish ourselves for the mistakes of others, it's not worth the ** tears that hurt us.
Thinking about whether a woman betrays or not is actually a subjective assumption, because human nature is complex and changeable. Everyone'sEmotionand behavior are affected by various factors, and it is impossible to accurately judge with a few simple manifestations. So, instead of focusing too much on women'sSleepIt is better to establish more open and trusting communication in the relationship. Only through communication and understanding can we truly grasp a woman's heart andEmotion。The most important thing is that no matter what changes we face, we should face them with a calm and rational mind, accept the reality and find new happiness.