Living in a humane society, interpersonal communication is inevitable. For the handling of certain relationships, we are afraid that there will be some loopholes and we will put ourselves in an embarrassing situation. In fact, the relationship between people and people is very simple, and the 6 sayings of the ancestors explain all the interpersonal relationships thoroughly!
01.Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship
A family does not tolerate three surnames, and one house does not allow three generations.
After the children get married, it is better for the parents not to live together;Each generation has a different concept of life, and there will definitely be contradictions when living together. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law do not have to be intimate, two people can get along with each other, and if they can't get along, they should maintain a sense of boundary;The best relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should be to treat each other as a visiting relative. 
02.Parent-child relationship
The first 30 years look at the father and respect the son, and the last 30 years look at the son and respect the father. When you were a child, others treated you well for the sake of your father's face;When your father is old, if you do something, others will respect your father, but if you do nothing, others will not respect your father. Parents are incompetent, children are guilty, children are incompetent, and parents bow their heads;
That's the harsh reality of society. 
03.Husband and wife relationship
Husband and wife did not have an overnight feud, and the bedside quarreled and the end of the bed. The relationship between husband and wife is like a handful of sand, if you hold it too tightly, the sand will be lost, and if you put it too loosely, it will be missed, and the best relationship is to be intimate and keep a distance.
In the tempering day after day, it is integrated into a community of destiny;Even if it is noisy, it is not separated. 
04.Kinship
The rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor in the downtown no one asks. Some relatives are related by blood, but they can't change their snobbery;Praise the high and step on the low, and focus on interests and ignore parting. When you're useful to them, they'll hold you high;When you are useless to them, they hide from you like creditors, and some even come out and step on you. 
05.Brotherhood
Brothers and sisters are a family, breaking bones and tendons. Siblings are the closest people in the world besides our parents;We were each other's playmates when we were children, and we were each other's backs when we got marriedNo matter how things change, the relationship between us will never change. Please cherish the wealth left to us by your parents, keep in touch with each other in the limited time, and don't leave any regrets for yourself. 
06.Neighborhood
Far water can't quench the thirst of the near, and distant relatives can't compare to the neighbors.
A relative who lives far away is not as good as a neighbor who lives close.
When we encounter any difficult problems, our neighbors are always the ones who help us the most.
Being friendly with your neighbors is like adding security to your life. The relationship between people is inseparable from these 6 sayings;As long as you understand these six sayings, there is no relationship in the world that cannot be handled!