One day, my friend and I were dining in a restaurant. Suddenly, a young girl walked in, she looked around, as if looking for something.
Suddenly, she saw a man sitting in a corner and walked quickly towards him. I became curious and began to observe the way the two interacted.
The girl looks beautiful, and the man doesn't seem to care about her. He didn't stand up to pull out a chair for her, nor did he ask her how she was doing today.
Next, the waiter ordered for them, the girl chose a vegetable salad, and the man asked for a large meat burger and a beer. I think that if a man can't take care of a girl's health, then he's an unreliable man.
Subsequently, the girl tried to talk to the man, but he kept his head down and played with his phone, ignoring her. The girl began to feel embarrassed and did not know what to say. It looks like this man lacks basic communication skills, and maybe he's not a good conversationalist.
In the end, the girl finished her salad, but the man continued to eat his burger. I think if a guy can't wait for a girl to finish her food, then he's a selfish man.
The atmosphere in the restaurant became awkward and silent. The girl paid the bill and hurried out of the restaurant. The man just sat indifferently and continued to enjoy his big meat burger.
I deeply feel that from the 5 "details" of a person's meal, you can see whether he is worthy of marrying. A man who cares about the girl's health, is good at communication, and waits for the other party to finish the food is the man who is really worth marrying.
It is worth noting that in our social culture, such details are not only reflected in eating, but also in other aspects of performance. For example, whether a man is responsible, self-motivated, empathetic, and so on. Therefore, when choosing a partner, never look at the surface but also judge whether they are trustworthy and marry them by observing their behavior.