Autumn and Winter Check-in Challenge
Sudden and long are a pair of contradictory phrases. Suddenly it comes in a moment, and a long time is in the long past.
The relationship that has been going on until now suddenly gave up off a cliff.
What kind of unwillingness and heartache is this?It's definitely time to find out the truth of the matter.
It turns out that the person you have liked for a long time is not worthy of your liking. Everyone is self-interested, or rather selfish. This is human nature, there is no right or wrong, there is no good or bad, and there is no terrible.
I like him and love him because he wants him to like me and love me.
I've always liked him and loved him, and it's because I want him to like me and love me all the time.
But he didn't like me all the time, he loved me, he didn't even like me, he loved me.
When I liked him and loved him for months, or even years and decades, I finally collapsed at a certain point and had to give up.
This life node may be a hurt, maybe it is the discovery that the other party really has another love, maybe it is the shattering of a dream, maybe it is ......
Or simply, in a warm moment, I feel tired, I should love myself well, all the previous things are wrong, not only feel that the other party has failed me, but also feel that I have failed myself, so I choose to forgive the other party, and I also let go of myself, ending a fruitless relationship.
That sudden moment is like a lightning speed, but before that there should be a slow accumulation process, we call it quantitative change.
In short, in the face of the unhappiness of the past, the quantitative change caused the qualitative change, and then there was no such thing as this relationship.
From an innocent idealist, following his own heart, believing in the reins, he has transformed into a materialist, cold and realistic.
Just like I used to like to read, because I believe that there is a ** house in the book, a thousand Zhongsu in the book, and Yan Ruyu in the book, once I find that reading can never be realized, I discard this aerial platform, this moon in the water, and this flower in the mirror.
It's not that the person isn't beautiful, it's not that the book is not good, it's that I don't deserve it, I retreat to the next best, or it's not okay to be alone!
It's so worldly, you can't do it without asking for anything in return.
Even if it's a crush, don't you have to be full of joy?Once you don't rejoice, it's over.
The above is the thinking of the weak.
In fact, you can look at the problem in this way: if you like people, will they like you in turn?It doesn't have to be that way. If you think about it, you can let go.
So who is the weakling?The moon is the one that must be aided by the light of the sun.
Who is the strongest?The sun is itself, shining brightly, and its warmth shining on others.
Strong and weak are two sides of a person's body.
It's just that I didn't expect that the strong would give up one day, that is, when they got tired of a love and looked for a new love.
Therefore, the sense of morality, responsibility, and a marriage letter are not the promises of the strong to the weak, but the constraints of the weak to the strong, and are used to prevent the empathy of the strong.
But the increase in entropy in the universe is inevitable, and there will always be a day when the sun dies.
It's just that it's too far away from the human beings on Earth, too far away that it won't happen.
That moment inevitably came. The strong are just people, not the sun.
He doesn't want to be kidnapped by morality, he doesn't want to be bound by the former mountain alliance and sea oath, he wants to break free from the shackles of the world, he doesn't care about the infamy of liking the new and hating the old, and goes to attract his love.
For the weak, instead of hoping for the mercy of the strong, it is better to make yourself equal.
You are strong, I am not weak, you are good, I am not bad, you leave, I am not afraid, because strength and weakness can be exchanged at any time.
In this way, it is possible to make a relationship beautiful forever. Even if it is lost, there is still the ability to start over.