The topic of education is not limited to students' one-sided learning in school, but also needs parents to act as solid supporters and provide good conditions for students. Sometimes, parents are even busier than students, which makes them feel quite tired.
However, education does not depend solely on the work of teachers, but requires the active cooperation of parents. Even if parents are busy with work, they need to cooperate well with teachers, and although there may be some dissatisfaction in their hearts, they are not easy to contradict teachers.
Although parents are usually reluctant to argue with teachers, there are times when there are moments of outbursts. Sometimes teachers habitually push their own tasks to parents to complete, which makes parents feel dissatisfied and may have conflicts with teachers.
After the teacher assigned the task, a parent couldn't bear it anymore and directly questioned the teacher. For example, the teacher asks the parent to print the document and then has the student bring it to the teacher the next day. This triggered polarized comments from netizens, forming a situation of "4 consecutive scares".
In the group, parents raised a series of questions directly to the teacher, indicating that they may have accumulated a lot of grievances. Parents asked, "Isn't there a printer in the school?"Can't you use school resources and print out each copy for every classmate?Why do parents print it out and let their children memorize it to school and hand it to you?Even if you don't talk about the printing cost, if you have an accident, are you responsible?”
At this moment, the teacher was speechless by the parents' doubts and stopped talking. The parents, on the other hand, felt that their actions were completely correct and felt very relieved. Although other parents may feel the same way, few have publicly questioned the teacher, and netizens have different attitudes towards it.
In fact, there are two positive and negative aspects to parents' behavior. It is true that some teachers, in order to make it easier for themselves, push a lot of the work to parents and let them do it for them, such as printing homework and materials, and then also need to supervise the child's completion and inspection, etc.
Many parents have printers for their children's learning, and if this is the case, parents questioning the teacher may change the teacher's behavior and reduce the burden on other parents.
However, some netizens believe that parents should also understand teachers more, because sometimes the electronic version of the materials carefully organized by teachers is not common to the whole grade, but individual cases.
It may not be convenient for teachers to print at school, so it is more convenient for children to send materials to parents for printing. In this case, parents who publicly scold the teacher in the group may make the teacher feel chilled and let down their hard work.
However, in the parent group, the teacher did not respond to the parents' anger, does it show that they are weak-hearted?
When working, teachers need to think holistically, although it is easy to send materials to parents, but to consider the actual situation, some parents may not have the time to print. Moreover, some children live with the elderly, and the elderly may not be familiar with the use of electronic devices, which is inconvenient.
When parents and teachers disagree on the treatment of students, it is advisable to deal with such situations appropriately in consideration of the interests of students.
During the school day, it is inevitable that parents and teachers will not have the same views on their children's problems, and the way to solve the problems becomes a crucial part.
Parents are advised to refrain from publicly lashing out at teachers in parent groups, as this will make teachers lose face and will not help solve the problem. Eventually, it will be the students who will be affected, and it may also affect the teacher's perception of the student.
Instead of lashing out publicly, communicate with the teacher in private. It's not about giving in, it's about retaining some dignity on both sides and avoiding making the relationship with the teacher too stiff, because in the end it's still the students who are affected.
Considering that parents cannot consider changing schools because of some trivial matters, frequent changes of schools due to disagreements with teachers are not a situation that other schools are willing to accept.
Educational affairs are no trivial matter, and it is important for parents to communicate with teachers in a timely manner when they encounter problems, which is more beneficial to the growth of students. However, it is necessary to choose the appropriate way and method when communicating, so as not to cause greater conflicts.
Conclusion: The specific situation may vary from case to case, but both teachers and parents should be more thoughtful, understand each other, empathize with each other, and form a united front to serve students together, so as to promote children's learning and growth.
At present, many parents have a certain negative impression of teachers, which leads to frequent conflicts between home and school. However, not all problems are caused by teachers, because teachers want to use more effective methods to educate students, and this requires more understanding from parents.
Mutual understanding and respect are the result of the joint efforts of both sides. It is only when there is a better relationship between parents and teachers that students can learn more seriously and be less likely to make mistakes, which is crucial.
Teachers don't want to see irresponsible parents, and parents don't want to see irresponsible teachers. Therefore, everyone should fulfill their responsibilities and work together to cultivate the growth of students.
Topic interaction: Who do you think is right and who is wrong in this matter?