I read such a life: "The most regrettable thing in this life is that I got married without thinking about it, and I didn't find the person who knows the cold and the hot." I once sold my youth and replaced it with firewood, rice, oil, and salt, and tasted all the ups and downs, and we all have to pay for Ziyi's youth and ignorance. I bought this order, it's really too expensive. ”
Some people say that a woman in a happy marriage can rely on herself or her husband. This probably expresses a kind of love, only when a man loves a woman, can he really become her dependence.
I have read such a story: A man and a friend met his wife on the way home from drinking, because the electric car broke down, and the wife was pushing the car home. The man was puzzled: why would she rather push it back than give me an electric job?Someone commented: "Unmarried women don't understand, only married women understand", perhaps this is the biggest helplessness of marriage.
Maybe the woman in the story doesn't want to press the dial button of **, but because she is usually disappointed and saves too much, she no longer regards the other party as a clothes that can shelter her from the wind and rain.
In reality, some women are hypocritical in their marriage, but they still receive meticulous care;And some women turn themselves into supermen in marriage, and they are still disliked, just because they haven't met the right person.
And there are also some men who are running around and working outside, going out early and returning late until they are exhausted, and they are still complained about when they come home. So what is terrible is not the wedding cigarette itself, what is terrible is not meeting the right person.
Whether the marriage is happy or not depends on whether the two people have a conscience and empathy in the marriage. When a woman is frugal and can't afford to buy even a box of expensive cosmetics, her husband should be grateful for her virtuous housekeeper instead of laughing at her for having other women looking good.
When a man with limited ability is running around day and night, and his life is still not rich, his wife should understand his difficulties, understand his hardships, and should encourage him, instead of comparing him with other people's husbands at every turn.
We have to admit a reality, that is, both love and marriage need an economic foundation as a guarantee;However, whether a marriage is happy or not, in addition to the economic foundation, what is more needed is the warmth of each other and mutual dependence.
In reality, it is rare to see couples who blame each other and complain about each other all day long in marriageIt is also rare to see couples who understand each other and love each other in marriage.
I am not afraid of contradictions in marriage, nor am I afraid of occasional quarrels, and if there are contradictions, I will untie the knot more, and after the quarrel, we will reflect calmly on each other, and we will not hold grudges so much. The most feared thing in marriage is that two people keep screwing up.