A person, whether the city is deep or not, just look at the face .

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-01-31

In this hustle and bustle of the city, people often say "physiognomy", which means that a person's inner character and personality traits will be expressed on their face. For a long time, people's understanding and evaluation of physiognomy has become one of the criteria for measuring a person's character. However, in my opinion, a person's city does not depend entirely on their physiognomy, but more on inner cultivation and mental maturity. Let me tell you a story about Zhang Zhengyang.

Zhang Zhengyang, a young newcomer in the workplace, has just joined a well-known company. He has an ordinary face, nothing special, but a kind and innocent heart. He always faces his colleagues with a smile and is passionate about helping others solve their problems. Whenever a colleague encounters difficulties, he is always able to give the most timely and sincere help. Slowly, he earned the trust and respect of his colleagues.

However, one day, Zhang Zhengyang encountered a work challenge. The company asked each employee to complete a very difficult task within a week, which was almost impossible to complete. Colleagues have expressed that the pressure is high and the situation is quite serious. Everyone began to fight each other for resources, information, and opportunities. The expression on their faces became tense and tired.

In this case, Zhang Zhengyang chose another path. Although he also felt difficulties and pressure, he did not choose to compete with his colleagues, but took the initiative to reach out to them. He helps colleagues organize their minds, provides solutions to problems, and provides timely support and encouragement when needed. He always has a confident and optimistic smile on his face, encouraging everyone to keep going.

As time passed, colleagues discovered that although Zhang Zhengyang's face did not have the so-called "city government", he contained a brave, firm, kind and warm soul in his heart. He proved by his actions that one does not need hypocrisy on his face to build a powerful city. On the contrary, sincerity and kindness can break down all troubles and barriers and build true friendship and trust.

This story reminds me of my own life. Sometimes, we feel that people in the city are smarter and better able to cope with complex social situations. However, when I recall the people who gave me the most help and warmth, they were not those who were weathered and sophisticated, but those who were genuinely kind and well-intentioned.

In the face of the triviality and complexity of interpersonal relationships, we don't need to deliberately build a city to protect ourselves. On the contrary, we should learn to start from the heart and resolve conflicts and estrangements with sincerity and kindness. Whether at home, at work, or socially, we should stick to our values and maintain authentic expressions and attitudes. Because the trust and friendship that sincerity brings are far more precious than the benefits that come with the city.

Let us be like Zhang Zhengyang, take kindness and sincerity as a guide, and add a touch of warmth to the world with a smile and help. Regardless of whether we have a city on our face or not, as long as we have a kind heart, we can influence the people around us and spread love and kindness. The depth of the city is not the true embodiment of a person's value and character, but the sincerity and enthusiasm that allow us to win respect and trust in interpersonal relationships.

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