Text丨Tao Xiaojing.
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When they are plagued by bad luck, many people complain that it is because God is unfair and has set too many obstacles to their success.
But this kind of complaining will neither change the status quo nor make people's hearts feel good, but will exacerbate anxiety and make life worse.
A person will be unlucky, and the responsibility is not in God at all, but in himself.
Along the way, everyone has gained a lot of things, which seems to be a very successful thing, but it is precisely because of these gains that their fortunes have been affected.
Acquisition is a good thing in itself, but not every thing you acquire will bring you good luck, and if you hold on to it, don't expect bad luck to leave you.
The key to driving away bad luck is in oneself, when a person takes bad luck, it is often easier to transfer it if it is willing to do three things.
01. Be willing to take the time to change and improve yourself
When a person is unlucky, don't always put the responsibility on others, but reflect on yourself to see if you are not good enough.
Generally speaking, a person will be haunted by bad luck, most likely because he has a lot of bad habits and has not given them up.
In this case, if you don't get rid of your bad habits as soon as possible, then bad luck will keep haunting you and making you uneasy.
When a person is unlucky, he must first be willing to take the time to change and improve himself. Only by working hard to make yourself better can you attract enough good luck to completely replace bad luck.
It may be difficult for you to break bad habits in yourself, but difficulties can be overcome. If you don't want to be haunted by bad luck all the time, you have to be cruel to yourself.
You must know that it is you who are not good enough, so you attract bad luck to follow closely. You can only be transshipped if you make changes as early as possible.
It is said that there is a give-and-take, and if you are willing to spend more time to improve and change yourself, you will be able to get more of what you want.
02. Be willing to throw away some things that are not beneficial to yourself
No matter what age you are now, you probably have a lot in your bag. The existence of these things seems to enrich your life, but it invisibly slows you down.
Maybe you want to carry these things all the way to the end, but one day you will find that the more things you carry, the harder it will be.
The reason why some people are unlucky is precisely because they have carried too many things and have always been reluctant to throw them away.
If this is the case for you, then I must remind you that it is only by being willing to throw away something that is not beneficial to you that you can really change your fortunes.
There are many things that are actually not beneficial to you, such as wrong feelings, obsessions with the past, and some friends who only know how to take advantage of you ......
Now you may think they are important, but the further back you go, the more you will realize that it is because of these things that bad luck cannot be driven away.
When a person is unlucky, don't think about having it both ways, but be willing to throw away something that is completely useless to you.
Giving up makes it easier for you to go, and the more you give up, the more you will end up getting.
03. Willing to give up unrealistic delusions
To this day, there are still many people who hold unrealistic delusions. Some people are delusional about getting rich overnight, some people are delusional about soaring to the sky, and some people are delusional about snatching happiness from others.
To put it nicely, this is a pursuit, and to put it ugly, this is just a fool's dream.
If one is always immersed in these unrealistic delusions, one will eventually be completely eliminated from reality.
People can't be separated from real life, no matter how beautiful your fantasy is, you have to live in the moment and face reality.
A person who is always unwilling to face reality is often the most favored by bad luck. A person who always lives in delusion may not be able to get rid of bad luck in this life.
People live for a lifetime, but they must not ruin their own future. If you want to drive away bad luck and want a promising future, you must be willing to give up unrealistic delusions.
The reality may be cruel, but only the cruel reality can tap your potential and make you work harder for the future.
Therefore, please break free from the shackles of delusion as soon as possible and take every step of the moment in a down-to-earth manner. Only then will bad luck leave with interest.
Xiaojing's conclusion:
Everyone in this world will have bad luck, and in this regard, everyone is the same.
But there are also big differences between people, and the most obvious difference is reflected in the treatment of bad luck.
Those who only know how to complain and escape from reality are destined to end this life with bad luck.
And those who have been trying to change and find a way to turn the situation around will sooner or later chase away bad luck and make themselves as good as possible.
If you are the former, then I hope you can learn from the latter, because only by your own efforts can you change your life.
If you are in good fortune right now, please don't take it lightly, because there are always times when people are unlucky.
Don't be afraid of bad luck, you just need to remember that when a person is unlucky, as long as you are willing to do three things, everything will be fine soon.