When it comes to Jiang Defu's military career, people can't help but think about a question: If he hadn't married An Jie, how would his career have changed?
In the play, Jiang Defu missed the opportunity to be promoted to the deputy division level for the first time because he wanted to marry An Jie. However, without An Jie's influence, his performance in the army might have been more prominent, especially with the blessing of his heroic performance in resisting US aggression and aiding Korea. This may have allowed him to be promoted to deputy divisional cadre upon graduation, laying a solid foundation for his military career.
Jiang Defu missed the opportunity to be promoted to the chief of staff of the fortress area, which also meant that his military career in the fortress area was limited. However, without the drag of his family background, he may have had access to this opportunity more easily. During his military career, he may rise to the rank of full-fledged soldier and hold a higher position, demonstrating greater military leadership.
Without the ties of his family, Jiang Defu may have a smoother military career and more honors and promotion opportunities. His bravery and military talent could make him stand out in the military and eventually rise to a higher rank. It will be the pinnacle of his military career, showcasing his outstanding achievements in the military field.
In Jiang Defu's military career, we have seen a microcosm of life trade-offs, and we also feel his perseverance and hard work for his family and career. Such stories give us many inspirations and provoke deep thinking about the philosophy of life.
Life is full of choices, and every decision can affect us for the rest of our lives. Jiang Defu gave up some opportunities for military promotion by choosing to marry An Jie, but at the same time, he reaped the warmth and happiness of his family. This makes us wonder what success and happiness are in life
First of all, we have seen the brilliance and success of our career. In his military career, if there is no family tie, Jiang Defu may rise to a higher military rank and achieve more honors. This reminds us that while pursuing career success, we need to always weigh trade-offs and be clear about our goals and values. Sometimes, we need to make some tough decisions in order to succeed in our careers, but it can also be a sure path to glory.
Secondly, the warmth and happiness of family are also an indispensable part of life. Although Jiang Defu sacrificed in his military career, he gained endless happiness in his family. This makes us understand that while pursuing career success, we cannot ignore the importance of family affection around us. Family is the support point of our life and our warm harbor. No matter how brilliant the career is, if the family is lost, it may not be a complete success.
In the journey of life, we often have to face various choices and trade-offs. Sometimes, we need to let go of things to make room for a better future. And behind every trade-off, there is a unique understanding of life. Jiang Defu calmly faces his choices in the play, and he tells us that the trade-off is not the end of life, but a way to a richer life.
Success in life should not be defined by a single criterion. Whether it's in business or family, there are a variety of success patterns. The key is how we find a balance between trade-offs and how to work hard without losing our thinking about the true meaning of life. The story of Jiang Defu teaches us that the meaning of life does not depend on the glossy surface on the outside, but also on the peace and contentment of the heart.
Perhaps, each of us will encounter a crossroads of choices in our lives, and we need to find a balance between career and family, individual and collective. And it is this perseverance and hard work that has shaped our unique and rich life. When faced with trade-offs, we must learn to listen to our inner voice, examine the life we truly desire, and strive for it.
Jiang Defu's military career may not have been smooth sailing, but he found his perseverance in the ups and downs and achieved inner satisfaction. The trade-off in life is not only a choice of external environment, but also a commitment to inner beliefs. Perhaps, we can draw strength from this and be brave enough to chase our dreams, while cherishing the family and friendship around us.
The wonder of life does not depend on how many ups and downs we have experienced, but on how we sail in this vast ocean and turn every choice into a kind of harvest. Let us be on the way forward, with a more open-minded attitude, bravely face the trade-offs, and achieve that unique self.