Zhang Xiaoxian once wrote such a passage: The old professor said: "Love is the happiness of abandoned souls meeting." "Shouldn't this be the other way around?Happiness is also the encounter of abandoned souls with love.
Yes, love can also be said to be equivalent to "happiness" in a sense. Because being loved must be blissful, what does it feel like to be truly in love with another person?It must be very happy, sweet, and very happy, especially when you are lucky enough to meet someone you really like, meet someone who is really right in your life, and meet someone who is in harmony with your soul.
Then you definitely don't want to miss each other, you are afraid of losing this person, you don't want to miss this person, you want to be close to this person, you want to be with this person forever, and you want to have a happy ending with each other. After all, the most regrettable and sad thing in our lives is to miss the person we love the most, or bury our happiness with our own hands and lose the person we love the most.
In fact, to be honest, no one wants to meet love, everyone needs love, everyone wants love and happiness, everyone needs love and companionship, so it is very important to have love, it is also very important to have a lover, and it is very lucky to have a sincere love.
Some people may feel that even if they love someone of the opposite sex, even if they like each other very much, they want to be each other all the time, but as the two interact longer and get along longer, it seems easy to become a teaching assistant, there is no fresh feeling, the relationship between the two slowly becomes less and less, and the relationship becomes lighter and lighter. So what should be done at this time?
After all, all relationships need to be maintained and operated, and if two people never care about maintaining and operating, then no matter how much they love each other at first, they will eventually become strangers, and when the opposite sex gets along, the less they talk about these topics, the deeper the love will be!
Although we encounter a lot of things in our daily lives, there may be happy things, there will be unhappy things, there will be positive things, and there will be negative things, maybe whenever they encounter something happy and positive, they will be willing to share it and let the other person know. You'll send messages to tell the other person about the happy things that happened to you, and the other person will be especially happy to hear that you have interesting things to share.
Because I like each other, or regard each other as the most trusted and intimate person, whenever I encounter something unhappy and unpleasant, I will feel uncomfortable and want to talk to the other person. Maybe at first, he or she is more patient with his or her complaints, will comfort himself gently, and will try to say some kind things to make himself happy. I'll try to help myself out of it.
A new TAA or a TAs who like you, maybe your own emotions will also affect your mood, TAs don't want to make you unhappy alone, when you feel happy, TAs will also feel happy, when you have difficulties, TAs will feel uncomfortable after listening to your heart, especially if you often tell TA about you some annoyance or negative energy stuff, then it may affect TA's mood and cause TA to become unhappy, once you always do this, more and more time, the TAs are getting more and more tired of you and less and less want to talk to you.
In fact, it is very common to get together with good friends in everyday life to chat or eat with good friends, or to sing k. Especially when you're having dinner with a classmate or colleague, you won't leave the other half unless you ask, after all, the other half doesn't know everyone well, and you don't want to embarrass the other half and you don't want to leave the other half at the party.
But some people don't think so, they always want to stick to the other half, once the other person doesn't take them to the party, they think that the person has not loved themselves, as an outsider, maybe because of this you often quarrel over things between friends, and even the other party will force you to choose between friends. Do you want to hang out with friends or stay home alone?
It's a bit like me and your friend falling into the water, who will you save first?There is really no way to make a choice, after all, love and friendship are equally important to us, they can not have conflicts, but you always quarrel over such issues, often because of such issues.
Over time, it will affect your relationship. In fact, whether it is in love or after marriage, it is quite normal to have your own friends, as long as everyone is in contact normally, there will never be any cross-line behavior, it is OK, so you have to learn to empathize, if the two of you want to go on the road of love, then you must talk less about such topics.
Probably most people will face a problem about their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after marriage, if the lucky mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along well, then I'm afraid there will be no big problem, but if the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law don't get along well, then there will be a lot of conflicts and quarrels. From a man's point of view, probably most male friends don't want to be caught between their wives and mothers, and they don't want to be reduced to a difficult life for both parties.
Of course, men do not want to coax their wives on the other side, but also to please their mothers, they must hope that their wives can live in harmony with their mothers, instead of two people constantly arguing every day, so that there is no peace in the family. I don't want to hear my wife always complain about her mother, telling me to see the good things her mother sees;I don't want to listen to my mom always telling my wife and letting me control my wife.
After all, most male friends are very afraid of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts, and they are not willing to go out to work for a day, and they already feel physically and mentally exhausted, and they don't want to go home to face such mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problems, and they have to solve these family conflicts. So when you get along with your other half, you can talk less about the contradictions between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, even if you want to say it, you can change the tone of explanation, so, your other half will be more grateful to you, cherish you more, and love you more, only in this way, the relationship between the two of you will get better and better, you can get farther and farther together, and you can live together.
Each of us has our own past, we will also have our own emotional experience, and there will be people who have loved us, maybe most people don't know enough about themselves at first, only after experiencing it, do you know what kind of person you like, only know what kind of person is suitable for you, and you will cherish the person who is with you now. Cherish the quality time you have together.
In fact, no matter what, two people can be very honored to know each other, love each other, can sincerely wait for each other, can get together, is God's best arrangement, is a new beginning for yourself, especially when the two of you like each other, each other's hearts are loaded, all care and care for each other, each other wants to continue, of course, when you are together, you will definitely talk together, talk about the past, but also talk about future plans.
I don't know which friend said it, or I or the other party mentioned the past emotional experience, or maybe the two people started to quarrel because of the "before" topic, in fact, to be honest, the person you love is full of "stinginess", once you like someone, the heart will become very small.
Even if he doesn't say anything, but in reality more or less, may not be able to pass through the heart and accept this reality, therefore, whether in love or marriage, when two people are together, one should say less about the history of past feelings, or do not always dwell on the past ex, unless he or she is still entangled, only in this way can the two be unaffected by the past, they will love each other more and more, and the relationship will get better and better.