The writer Sanmao once wrote such a sentence: Men are mud, women are water, mud, mud, water is turbid;There is a lot of water, and the mud is thin;No more, no less, pinched into two clay figurines - a pair of good fairy lovers.
Indeed, in fact, the space for love is very small, it can only accommodate two people at most, it is difficult for one person to support, and the space for more than one person is too small to breathe. Of course, not all people can meet people who really like themselves, not all people are suitable for being together, and not all people can go to the end, maybe in the vast sea of people, you can't be sure, which is your destined ta, which ta can be with yourself.
Although in real life, each of us hopes to be with the person we like, or even for a lifetime and forever, but not two people love each other now, they will love each other forever, they can go to the end, there are many, many couples or couples in real life, they are two people who go away. All love is love, not love.
After all, "love" is sometimes quite fragile, it may frustrate a love, it doesn't need any third party, or something big, it may only need some small details in the process of getting along, such as some problems in the details of two people's lives, or the details are not so compatible, then there will be friction in getting along, and even more and more inconsistent. Until the end, there was very little feeling and could no longer continue to love each other together.
In fact, from the way the two of you get along, you can see whether two people really love each other, whether they are suitable to be together, and whether they can be together for a lifetimeIt may be that those lovers who were originally in love originally planned to go together for a lifetime, but they were also slowly infiltrated by disappointment and indifference in the process of getting along, until they couldn't tolerate each other, disappointed to the top of the tower, refused to leave each other, and didn't want to turn back.
In the end, in the relationship, the two of you are not suitable, you will not break up together, you can't go to the end, in fact, it is already doomed, the following small details are hidden in the answer, don't believe it, whether the two people are true love or not, it can be seen from these three details!
Whether it is marriage or love, two men and women can fall in love or get married together, which means that you are accompanying each other's existence, which means that two people can chat together, share any interesting things together, and whenever they encounter something unhappy, they can also say their hearts, and they can also comfort each other. You can also make an appointment to travel together and see the world.
Of course, whether it is a couple or two people, they can be together opposite each other at dusk, they can be with each other, you need both parties to communicate and communicate together, you need to have a common language and topic, imagine if there is no common language and topic between the two of you, often there is nothing to say together. Then it will be difficult for both parties to understand each other, and it will be difficult to enter each other's hearts, so naturally there is no way for the two hearts to stick together.
If the two of you always don't have a common language and topic, can't always talk together, no matter what you say, there will be different opinions and opinions, and no matter what you say, there will be arguments, then your relationship is definitely not a lasting road. Even if the two of you used to like each other, they often have no common language and topics, no communication and exchange, so over time, the relationship between the two parties will only become weaker and weaker, and they will change from the original love to not liking each other, and even looking at the two people who dislike each other, relatively silent.
It can be seen that whether it is a couple or a couple, it is very important for two people to have a common language or theme, after all, only if you have a common language, topics between each other, you can discuss together, you can share daily life together, then the relationship between two people will get better and better, the more you talk, the happier you are, and the more you like to be with each other. Both parties will get to know each other better, two hearts will get closer to each other, and two people will spend more and more time together.
In today's society, no matter how much two people love each other, no matter how long they have been together, they are two separate individuals, and they will have their own thoughts and opinions. Moreover, two people have lived together for a long time, more or less there will be conflicts or disputes, and when they disagree, they will dislike each other. Therefore, if the two sides want to be together for a long time, they must learn to tolerate, learn to tolerate each other, and even learn to take the initiative to surrender and give the other party a chance to back down.
After all, to be honest, a really good marriage or relationship, never afraid of quarrels, as long as you can reconcile in the future, that is, the two of you decide to live together, then you must learn to tolerate each other, if both people are unwilling to tolerate each other, neither is willing to tolerate, once there is a quarrel or contradiction, which one is unwilling to bow to each other. will only stand in their own perspective, will only think and speak for themselves, both sides will not admit their mistakes to each other, either win or lose, then you will often quarrel, over time there will be more and more contradictions, feelings will get worse and worse, and even inner estrangement, then the relationship between the two of you is destined to be helpless for a long time.
Only when the two of you are willing to tolerate, tolerate each other, learn to think from each other's point of view, and are willing to take care of each other's character and temper, even if the two of you quarrel, even if they are obviously angry, they will still try to reconcile and be willing to give each other a **, and are more willing to not affect each other's feelings after arguing, and can give each other a smile and an arm, so that the two of you can be together for a long time.
Leonidova said: The basis of marriage is love, attachment and respect. Yes, love is, of course, the longest-lasting foundation of a relationship, if there is no love and love as a foundation between men and women, but for love and love, for marriage and marriage, or for other conditions to be together, then such a relationship is destined to not last long, even if it can be difficult to maintain together, I am afraid it is difficult to achieve happiness.
I often hear people say that lovers who love each other can always see beauty in their lover's eyes, but don't forget, only two people who really like each other can do this, can see each other's existence in their own eyes, can see each other more and more comfortable, and will love each other more and more because of it, even if one day two people get old and younger. When there are wrinkles on their faces, they will not dislike each other, even if one party encounters any difficulties or setbacks, or is lonely, they will not immediately turn against each other and abandon each other ruthlessly, but can support each other together.
But if the two of you have no emotional foundation, no love-sustained relationship, maybe just because you have to work it out, or because you covet each other's conditions, then you will get along with each other more and more hatefully, look at each other more and more, don't want to talk to each other, and don't even bother to say a word and look at each other more. Once something happens, it will be like husband and wife are the same bird in the forest, it is difficult for you to go to the end together, even if you are barely together, you will not be happy.