As people grow older, they will gradually understand the truth of many things. An important insight is that the older we get, the less dependent we are on relatives and friends, and it's understandable why people turn to them less and less for help and companionship as they get older.
1.Be more independent.
As people get older, they become more independent. They have developed their own lifestyle and attitude through years of experience and growth. They begin to learn to think and make decisions on their own and no longer rely on the opinions and support of others. As a result, they are increasingly able to cope with various challenges and difficulties in life without relying too much on relatives and friends.
2.I don't have many real friends.
As people get older, they understand that they have fewer and fewer true friends. A true friend is someone who understands you, supports you, and accompanies you. But as the years go by, we find that most of the so-called friendships are temporary, and only a few can really accompany us to grow up and go through every stage of life. As a result, as people get older, they value and value the connection with true friends more.
3.Seek inner peace.
As people get older, they seek more peace and tranquility. People find that by having an inner dialogue with themselves and listening to their voices, they can gain more strength and peace. The most important thing in this process is not the connection with others, but the deep communication and exploration with one's own heart. People learn to be alone and begin to enjoy the inner richness of solitude.
Bottom line: It's only when you're 50 that you realize that as you get older, you don't need relatives and friends anymore. That doesn't mean we should stay away from them altogether, but we realize that there is something more important. We begin to become more independent and learn to face life's challenges and difficulties on our own. We also understand that true friendships are rare and that we need to cherish our connection with people who truly support us. Most importantly, we experience more and more inner peace and tranquility. Having an inner dialogue with yourself can help you gain a deeper understanding and balance, which can lead to a more fulfilling and happy life.