In life, everyone will experience difficulties and setbacks, which can be called "the pain of fate". However, there are some pains that we are not really supposed to endure, but that we have wrongly chosen to experience. It is better not to choose to bear the pain lightly so as not to hurt yourself.
1.Mental distress.
Mental anguish is the easiest to fall into. For example, maintaining meaningless relationships with the wrong people or putting too much commitment and effort into people you don't trust. In this case, we need to learn how to end this relationship with no future in time to protect ourselves and avoid the pain from continuing.
2.Occupational pain.
Career struggles refer to whether or not the career or job we are pursuing is worth pursuing and striving for. Sometimes, because of fame, wealth, or the expectations of others, we may choose a job that we are not fully committed to and satisfied with. If you're struggling beyond reasonable limits in your career, or are unable to achieve growth or fulfillment, you need to be brave enough to find a more appropriate direction.
3.Health problems.
In the pursuit of your dreams and success, don't neglect your physical health. Excessive stress, unhealthy lifestyle habits, and ignoring signs of illness can all lead to health problems. We need to know how to balance, develop good lifestyle habits, pay attention to our physical and mental health, and avoid destroying our health due to constant pursuit.
Bottom line: you can't completely avoid the pain of fate, but you can choose to face it wisely. Emotional pain, occupational pain, and health pain can all be avoided with the right decisions and actions. We need to learn to protect ourselves, reject unnecessary suffering, and choose a healthier, balanced, and meaningful lifestyle. Let us understand that only by tasting the bitterness of fate at the right time and under the right circumstances can life become truly sweet.