The "Best Son-in-law" list was released, and both public officials and people in the IT industry were left out in the cold.
As the old saying goes, "If you don't listen to your elders, you will be troubled in the future", and parents are really "heartbroken" for the sake of their children's future. I once thought that when my children went to college, parents could rest assured that they didn't have to worry about Xi study.
In fact, after the students enter the school, the parents have to face a new "task". They care about their children all the time, and hope that their children will succeed in their careers and be able to "hold their grandchildren" as soon as possible.
Men can't do anything wrong, women can't do anything wrong. They are so attentive to their future husbands that they are eager to take a "magnifying glass" and look at them carefully, so that nothing can happen to them.
The results of the "Best Son-in-law" are out, and now, public officials are not so popular, and IT men are not so popular. When parents reorder the work of their "sons-in-law", the survey shows that scientists and freelancers are at the bottom. Although freelancers are more financially advantageous, they are unstable. And the researchers were neglected by their parents because of the tight time, sacrificing themselves and taking care of everyone.
The "IT man" who was held in the palm of his hand in the past is no longer held in the palm of his hand by his parents as a "pearl in the palm of his hand" like before. Although there is a certain amount of "craftsmanship," there is still a big difference between them and the workers of state-owned enterprises.
For parents, going to work in a state-owned enterprise is also a safe way. As "people who have come over", they are well aware of the difficulties in life. They don't want their children to get ahead, they don't want to be rich, they just want their children to be safe and prosperous.
In the latest rankings, the teachers are ranked 5th, and although the teachers enjoy holidays and vacations, which is an enviable opportunity, in the eyes of parents, male teachers are not so popular, because they also have to take on the responsibility of the family.
The education and academic qualifications of teachers generally meet the expectations of their parents, especially teachers in secondary schools or universities, who generally require a master's degree or higher, while students in universities are more difficult to "get started".
Although the lawyer is a relatively backward industry, parents still value it very much. Higher wages and higher educational qualifications are its charms, and women in professional suits are even more attractive.
Men in finance and economics are also in the spotlight, and men who can successfully enter the financial industry tend to have a high level of education and vocational skills, and their family backgrounds should not be bad, all of which are closely related.
In this "reordering", public officials do not occupy a dominant position, and it seems that they have "fallen out of favor". College graduates who are new to the workforce often start as a clerical worker, starting with a smaller salary, which is one reason for parents to consider.
There is a saying that "if the family is poor, don't study medicine", which means that people who study medicine generally have better family conditions. Many of the students inherited the fine traditions of their families, while those from better families chose to major in medicine. Being able to marry a "medical family" is the blessing of the previous life, and careful men will care more about girls, which is also the place where parents ***.
If you want to succeed in your career, you must take precautions, seize the initiative, and win the favor of the other party. The positions held by men are closely related to their majors in colleges and universities, so in the college entrance examination, they should be mentally prepared in advance, and when choosing a major, they should coincide with the career in their parents' minds.
It is possible for medical students to become physicians, and it is very difficult for non-medical students to get a "white coat" even if they have a high academic level. Those who apply for the civil service examination must have a certain moral character, and for women, there has long been a "screening".
Among them, in addition to individual industrial and commercial households, other industries often have certain requirements for education level, and college graduation is generally required, and college graduation is the best choice, which is also more beneficial to children's studies and studies.
For their children, parents are thoughtful, which is related to their lifelong happiness. They came up with several backup plans, which are easy to explain, after all, this is not a "play house", but a real war.
Although today's college graduates have undergone higher education and obtained a high degree, it does not mean that they are necessarily excellent. When choosing a career, the most important thing is character and personality. A good character can create a great future for your career, and a stable emotion is a good way. Parents should also have a broader vision, not only focus on their own short-term interests, but also make long-term plans.
In addition, parents should also understand that "twisted melons are not sweet". They can only give advice to their children, but they cannot make decisions for their children. Parents should consider their children's employment comprehensively to ensure that their children's personality and hobbies are valued.
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