I'm a little curious if this is what people with active personalities think.
Men don't know very well, as a passive personality of a woman, I can dissect it.
Passive is often considered to be not easy to contact, but in fact, it is often slow heating, cold on the outside and hot on the inside. The enthusiasm for acquaintances may even be beyond your imagination, but there is a sense of distance from strangers, and there may be a strong sense of self-protection when showing favor to others.
If you like the opposite sex, you will never take the initiative to approach, and even have a tendency to be alienated, because only if you feel that the person you like also likes you, and will take the initiative to approach you who wants to escape, only then will you allow yourself to accept!
A passive personality will make you feel awkward and uncomfortable to take the initiative to show you, and you will tell yourself that if you don't feel that the other person is interested in you, you would rather be in unrequited love!Wouldn't that be a disadvantage?Will you miss out on the good people?
There are many examples around me who have been pursued by women, and there are good and bad marriages, and I think it has nothing to do with which of them chases whom, but in the end it is up to them to decide whether it is suitable or not. Either way, it's all about feeling good rather than how it starts.
Character is innate, so the passive personality is born to block people who don't like it and have no intention of it, the opportunity may be encountered, or it may be deliberately made, but fate is unattainable, and the vigorous plot will hardly appear in this kind of people, and once there is an emotion recognized by each other, the feelings that accompany sensibility and reason will really be sincere and deeper over the years.
And you will be sincerely glad that the ups and downs and vigorous feelings in film and television dramas have not been encountered in this life!Hahaha!Thankfully!